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RE: Master? - 3/24/2007 11:49:10 AM   
Celeste43


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He holds the power in the relationship. And I am still his partner, his lover, his best friend as he is mine. So yes, you can have it all. Just choose carefully.

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RE: Master? - 3/24/2007 5:21:45 PM   
Master96


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I want my slave/sub to be my sex-slave, paint slut and my Loving Partner Among other things as well

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Master96,

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba

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RE: Master? - 3/24/2007 5:25:36 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master96

I want my slave/sub to be my sex-slave, paint slut and my Loving Partner Among other things as well


Well I like to paint, but I don't think I'd qualify as a paint slut.  Does she get off walking around the Sherwin Williams paint store?  

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RE: Master? - 3/24/2007 10:12:51 PM   
tempest1961


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

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ORIGINAL: SimplyTrue

What a huge task. Do Masters want partners? I want a partner - not a master. I have carried the weight of the world upon myself - I want a friend and lover that will be there to hold me - there will be no problem with me returning the favor.


Finding someone who is compatible with us, and that we can be in a committed relationship with can be a huge task no matter what type of relationship dynamic we seek (vanilla, BDSM, etc)

From your profile (which is no longer found) and your post, I get the impression that you are more interested in finding your 'soft place to fall' and the strong arms to hold you. (I can defintely relate to that part :) That you're willing to accept a bit of kink in the bedroom and to show a bit of submission if that's what it takes.

I would ask you (and understand I am NOT criticizing you in any way), if you are truly seeking a dominant man or if you are really just looking for a strong man of good character who will be there for you, support you and lift that "weight of the world" from your shoulders? Perhaps you've had difficulty finding that in the vanilla world, so you thought it might be easier to find here and you're willing to accept being a bit submissive and a bit of kink to get it?

You may certainly find what you seek here, but I'd venture a guess that it will be just as difficult to find here as it would be in the vanilla world...., not because what you seek is the slightest bit unusual, but because I think it's just plain hard to find our "special someone(s)" and make it work. But I wish you the best of luck.


Partial Hijack in progress...

There are LOTS of variations in the "scene" (I hate that phrase) We've got the D/S crowd, the M/s crowd, the kinksters, the spankers, the TPE crowd, the Taken In Hand crowd. That's what makes us special is that (for the most part) we accept each others definitions of "The one true way". I mean, hey, my dynamic is different from most, but it works for me and mine, and if I ever find another, it will work for her too... (Taken in Hand with a switch-twist would be a close approximation of mine.)

Maybe she is looking for a Taken in Hand relationship?

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RE: Master? - 3/25/2007 8:48:43 AM   
Archer


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Seems many folks are still carrying the PARTNER baggage around, the connotations of partner leave alot to be desired when I think about a D/s M/s relationship. I much prefer counterpart to partner. But tht's a semantic battle.
Elegant has a brain and I expect her to use it to gather all the information it can to provide me with the most information to make the decissions I have to make. She is a trusted advisor, and she is expected to speak her mind until the time I say OK I have all the information I want to make the decission. I would guess that 80% of the time or more I take a suggested course of action she has proposed and modify it a little and go with that.

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