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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 8:18:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

I still wana know what NLP is


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He might mean Neuro-linguistic programming

http://www.nlpinfo.com/



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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:47:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

I still wana know what NLP is


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From my post on Page 1:

http://www.nlp.com/

http://www.nlpinfo.com/

http://www.nlpu.com/whatnlp.htm

http://www.rain.org/~da5e/nlpfaq.html

http://www.nlpschedule.com/

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:52:24 PM   
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The point of family and friends is totally understood but to begin with this type of slavery is extreme and not for the timid and has already been taken under consideration.



Umm... timid has nothing to do with it. Some of us like to maintain healthy social interaction and to not torment our parents by dropping off the face of the earth.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 5:36:11 AM   
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Your mind's eye is seeing very clearly today, isn't it?

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 6:08:22 AM   
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While long term total sensory deprivation can be detrimental to mental health, what the OP is speaking of is not total sensory dep. The transparency of the box prohibits visual sensory deprivation while air holes would prevent sound deprivation. Nor would he suffer segregation induced psychosis from this due to interaction with his mistress. SIP is found in prisoners that are undergoing partial sensory deprivation used in conjunction with isolation in a cell. Their captors are deliberately disorienting them by feeding them at different times of the day and with odd intervals, and usually combine this with sleep deprivation. This is not what the OP is describing at all, and I have to wonder what degrees some of his critics hold in mental health that inclines them to question his sanity. He asked if anyone had experience with this subject, not to be accused of holding delusional fantasies and to question his sanity. Please do remember that many in the vanilla world consider people, especially subs involved in BDSM to be unstable, insecure, and generally in need of psychiatric care.

Having said my part, I will now hand the keyboard over to someone that actually has experienced what the OP is asking about.  

 
 
I have had a lot of experience with all sorts of boxes. My late Owner was a engineer who designed 4 different boxes besides the 3 cages I had as well. I would have to estimate that 4 1/2 years out of the 8 I lived with him were spent in boxes and cages. The most time I ever spent in a box was either 4 or 5 days straight but most times were for various hours at a time or a full day. I had one lucite/acrylic small aquarium type box that was used for restraining and electrical play. It had holes for breathing and it served as access to me as well. The other 3 were all wooden type boxes of various sizes and one also functioned as a coffee table. There were many times when I wasn't in use that I was in the coffee table box while he entertained his friends and they never knew I was in there.
 
As for the mental aspects that so many of you are complaining about, I found great solitude and security while being confined. I also became so in-tuned with my body that it became a meditation for me as well. There were no psychological ill effects on my mind, no splitting of my personality and certainly no insanity of any sort but hey everyone reacts to situations differently and I can only vouch for my own personal experience. The only physical effect that I have had is bad knee joints.
 
To the OP, my present Owner and myself are planning to build another lucite/acrylic box like my old one. If you want ideas in how to make or purchase one just email us. We would be more than happy to help you with any questions you may have on this subject.

slave L

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 7:55:16 AM   
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Thank you both for sharing.  I found your post to be most fascinating.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 8:45:19 AM   
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Subs and slaves that actively seek out this sort of thing as well as make it their one "make or break" rule just seem lazy to me. They seem to want nothing more then to be removed from society because they can't function in it. Life is just too hard for them. Blah, blah, blah. I'd never own someone that absolutely needed this all the time as part of their life. But I also come home from work and call my cat a fat, lazy whore who needs a job as she nuzzles me.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 9:56:48 AM   
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I think it is a work ethic thing.  I don't see any value in people who slack off when I am working.  I detested working in retail for that reason.  But I know that many people are ok with hanging out when they could be working.  I just never got comfy with that.  Maybe it is the way we are raised.  I come from workers, I raised workers.  I can't respect anyone who lives off the back of another without contributing anything on their own. 
Of course, it could be that providing a body to beat might be of value to someone.  Different strokes.
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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 10:46:28 AM   
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First NLP sucks and makes more bad than good in my humble opinion. Second have you taken into consideration the lack of  movement would lead your muscles into an atrophied state and over time you could develop bed sores. Obviously your Domme would have to  do most of the work and would have to give you the proper exercise nutrition etc. What does she get for all the effort? Third have you experimented with this in any way. How  about going slow at first try it over a day or two. It wouldn't hurt plus the joy is in the journey not the destination.  

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 12:39:25 PM   
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i too enjoyed reading slave L's experiences.  There are plenty of kinks i do not understand, but it does not make them invalid. i do not understand why someone would take the time to tie intricate knots all over someone, except for the artisitic expression of it, but that doesn't mean i hope everyone stops doing it. i for one, think it would be hot to know Master's other slave is in a box where His guests are putting their feet. It would never be my kink to be the one in the box, but i think it's an awesome dynamic. As far as bad knees goes..... i know a few slaves who have never been boxed who suffer from bad knees...

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 5:57:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hereyesruponyou

I read all the links from the beginning of this thread and i STILL can't figure out exactly what NLP is....i learned alot about how is it helpful in all parts of your life (uh huh), but what is it?  Anyone who actually understands want to explain it in simpler terms for the rest of us.

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Neurolinguistic programming.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/25/2007 11:58:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subtexxxt

Hello,

i'm not sure if this post belongs here, i found posts that kind of touched the subject but not enough so i'm placing it here so at least it could be directed to the correct place if not.

i've been discussing with my Mistress the real - not fantasy -- idea of being kept in a fiberglass box  for days and weeks with NLP training only to be bought out to be used and to void waste.  Most feeding would be from a dildoe "tube" that i would get liquid and some semi solid nurishment.  This would be ongoing until it became a 24/7 life of slavery not leaving the home and leaving the box for brief periods [stretching ect.] unless Mistress so desires it.

Let me assure everyone i consider myslef sane, level headed and a decent, caring human being, it's just that my life as a submissive and now slave has led me to this place -- being grounded in reality i would like to see this done safely but with with the level of daily torment that my Mistress and i both desire.

i would like to know everyone's thoughts on the subject, if anyone has undergone something like this? -- does anyone know of someone that could build such a box?

Thank Y/you A/all for Y/your time.

Humbly,

subtexxxt


I'm sorry...I can't seem to understand why yow would want to do something like that on a permanent basis...however on an engineering perspective I like the challenge of designing such a box

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RE: kept in a box - 3/26/2007 7:57:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subtexxxt

CreativeDominant

I have to be honest...personally I DO wonder about your level of sanity or at the very least, just what you consider to be level-headed.

I am going to assume that you want to be a pleasure slave...and not just a pleasure slave but a kept pleasure slave.  If your mistress has a fantasy of someone being kept locked away that she never has to deal with except to feed and toilet and that she can use whenever she wants for pain and pleasure, then it sounds perfect...except:
What happens to your mental health with no interaction with anyone besides your mistress and then, only for pleasure and for toilet breaks?
What happens to your physical stamina and overall physical health with no use of the muscles and ligaments and joints except for occasional pleasure?  Do you honestly think that your body will remain in the state it is in now with no use?
While at first glance, this seems like a sacrifice on your part and you make it sound as if you have reached some deep level of slavery, let's look a  little closer...as others have done more nicely than I will

You will not have to do a thing except act as a sextoy or a paintoy.  If you are in a box all day...at your request and in fulfillment of your fantasy...how is that slavery?  Unless, as noted earlier, there is some mistress out there who has the fantasy of wanting to go out and work to not only support herself but a human toy.  This sounds to me...more than anything...like some self-indulgent, moronic-in-that-it-has-not-been-thought-out scheme to fulfill your fantasy only.  Maybe you are thinking that those female supremacists who have little use for males most of the time anyway would jump at this chance...I don't pretend to understand female supremacy and the entire thought process that goes into it but from what I have read, I just don't see any of them hopping on your little bandwagon soon.  Finally...where is your drive, man?  Where is your motivation to do something in life besides indulge yourself?  You say you are caring...what level of care for anyone but yourself does this kind of life that you propose show for anyone but yourself?  Now...you might think I have something against male submissives or male slaves because I am a male dominant but you'd be wrong.  I would have the same thought process regarding a female submissive or slave who desired this.

But then...I have a hard time admiring people whose brains and character seem to have got stuck in a fantasy novel.  A few days...a week...maybe.  A lifetime?  Horse.......................................feathers.



wow.

i appreciate Your honesty but You're making alot of presumtions and may not have read my first post fully.

i have said i will be outside of the box  to maintain healthy physical activity it's just that the box will be where i am when not doing what Mistress desires and will interact with some others.  imagine it is something that would in many ways reflect the US penal system, are not inmates kept in their cell for most of their day and allowed out for certain activities?! 

To make the wild presumption that this is a moronic self indulgence and not thought out is simply foolish on Your part Sir.  You have no idea of O/our level of means, my personal drive and accomplishments or character for that matter.  How do You know this was my fantasy and not a shared vision by Mistress and i??  Once again all presumtions.

However You are entitled to Your opinion and i respect that, if not Your obtuse manner.

Humbly,

subtexxxt



Oh, I read your first post fully.  Once I figured out the spelling and grammatical errors, it was pretty easy.

Let's see, according to your post, you would be:
"kept in a fiberglass box  for days and weeks with NLP training only to be bought out to be used and to void waste.  Most feeding would be from a dildoe "tube" that i would get liquid and some semi solid nurishment.  This would be ongoing until it became a 24/7 life of slavery not leaving the home and leaving the box for brief periods [stretching ect.] unless Mistress so desires it."

Yes, I missed the part about stretching.  My error...mea culpa.  Yes, most inmates are kept in their cells for most of the day.  However, they are able to move around within their cells, use a toilet, and eat their meals like everyone else does, not through a tube.  According to your own post, you would be fed through a dildo tube and would have to come out of the box to use the toilet. 

As for your level of drive and your character and self-indulgence...it seems that I am not the only one who questions those.  To sit in a box doing nothing, to come out to stretch and use the toilet and be used and experience occasional interactions with others, then go back in the box speaks to me little of drive.  Your past accomplishments can be set aside...while nice, they don't have much of a place in a situation such as you describe.  

Self-indulgence.  I have a right to my opinion.  Personally, I prefer a submissive who does something besides reside in a box and acts as my pleasure toy.  To my way of thinking then, for a submissive to want something like that from me would be self-indulgence on her part.  Even from your side, it speaks to me of self-indulgence on both your parts and if that is what works for you...fine and dandy.  I reserve the right to see little of character building and a lot of indulgence in this.  

Finally...tolerance and acceptance.  Sorry...I am not one of the most politically correct people on here.  I can go a long ways towards tolerance of something..."it doesn't affect me and they are happy with it...go for it" but acceptance of everything?  No.  To me, things that raise mental and physical health red flags are not things I have to accept until those red flags are brought down for me in intelligent discussion and with clear reasons why those flags should not be there.  Calling me obtuse doesn't do much to bring those flags down.


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RE: kept in a box - 3/26/2007 8:51:43 AM   
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ok i am game....lets say you are really going to do this....have you given any thought as to what you would contemplate that whole time?
 
 

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