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RE: Too hard and too fast - 3/31/2007 5:56:57 PM

Rose4Mistress

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Thank you Master Fire!! I see so many subs that get themselves in trouble treating a collar like any minor relationship, when really, the choice to accept a collar should be as meaningful as accepting an engagement ring. A collar is a symbol, like the ring, and if you wouldn't marry someone who was pushy and deceitful (pulling their profile off and putting it back on), why would you collar yourself to them?
Just my thoughts. Best of luck!

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RE: Too hard and too fast - 3/31/2007 6:24:59 PM

frazzle121

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Just escaped from similar, met within a month, we did click and had been chatting on phone etc everyday. Warning bells went up, when after first meet he said he loved me.(first meet because of distance, meant i was there 4 days). It has taken 4 months for me to realise that i was manipulated into something i didnt want. I thank god, didnt move, which is what he wanted. Personal circumstances didnt allow.
When the warning lights go up, heed them, they are noramlly right. I'm now living with a barrage of nasty messages and emails, he's managed to copy my email address book going back longer than i can recall, and is threatneing to send stuff to all. I'm lucky my friends and family know what im into, and will just delete not read. (lol, or never admit theyve looked).
Instinct is there for a reason.

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