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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 10:37:28 PM

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OMG I could never, ever ask anyone to do that. It hurts just thinking about it.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 11:12:14 PM

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"Masturbating with a tube of sandpaper", i think, will not work very well from a technical standpoint.
Better to have the penis either erect or pulled tight, then rub the skin with the abrasive... sandpaper is an option (go to an auto parts store and get the "wet sanding" paper, usually black in color- it's more flexible and won't shed abrasive particles as quickly as woodworking sandpaper). Other household items can work equally well... things like stiff hairbrushes, scouring pads (aka "scrubby sponges"), and even fast, repeated scraping with the fingernails.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 11:14:22 PM

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You're scaring me, and I am not even the person who this is being done to, petdave. I am probably gonna be one of those "softie" Mistresses. Except I do already know I can be "firm" (I really do).

But - how do you know if this sandpaper stuff won't really, like, damage someone for life? If somebody really started crying, for instance, when I was doing this, I think I would just come unglued. I know I can hurt someone, but geez - that is just such a tender area...not like whipping someone's ass. Then again, I am a "new" Domme. Maybe it gets easier, I don't know.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 11:22:34 PM

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next we will begin the ironing lessons with starch

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 11:23:16 PM

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Yay!! Seriously, I wonder if here is a risk of long-term damage w/the sand-paper, like some folks mentioned.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/4/2007 11:29:56 PM

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then the pencil sharpener

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 3:31:46 AM

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Heh, I don't think that's something realistic to do. There are some things that sound good but when tried...just don't work. Like my mistress trying to get her pinky finger up my urethra. Not a good idea...

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 6:24:51 AM

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Well, just to clarify, i (at least, can't guess at OP) am not talking about grinding away until you're left with a gooey red mass... i think that there are very few people that are going to enjoy extensive penile scarring in the long term! Abrasion play, like anything else, can be done at different levels of intensity. If you just get the area nice and reddened, i think it's very unlikely that you'll be doing any damage that the body isn't designed to heal, and it can make intercourse very interesting for the sub. When you start seeing trickles of blood, you're getting a bit riskier, but i've done it and suffered no lasting effects. When you get down to the "pulp", you're on your own!

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 9:12:21 AM

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Thanks for explaining that, petdave. I am a "newbie" Domme, and that sounds a little safer to me, the way you explained it.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 9:34:10 AM

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Oh my. I must be a real nut-job.

I HAVE masturbated with sand-paper, and enjoyed it. I did use the 'wet' sand-paper, and kept it wet, I was in the shower. I also did NOT use intense pressure. Light pressure. It was very interesting...and NO blood was shed.

As for the OP, my suggestion, instead of using a tube where it is difficult to see the results, have her use a small piece in the palm of her hand while you are in a bath tub...be sure to use the wet sandpaper as it won't gouge you to a bloody pulp. Be sure the water is clear (no bubble bath) so she can see the state your penis is in at all times. If she rubs too hard, let her know. But, if done carefully - not too much pressure, etc, it can be quite an interesting feeling. You might not achieve orgasm...but it is certainly worth a go if you enjoy some pain.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 9:20:17 PM

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There were some folks in England that engaged in this kind of play a while ago, as well as scrotal surgery and so forth. They did okay, but a lot of this play was apparently done with a doctor present who shared their interests.

I'd suggest talking to a licenced physician about this. One that won't think you're a danger to yourself and commit you. They'll be able to tell you how to do it as safely as possible, how to treat it afterwards, and how to deal with injuries. They can also prescribe something more suitable than alcohol and iodine to disinfect the area afterwards.

If you're looking for pain play, the "wet sandpaper" approach would seem sensible. Or coat a glove with a lubricant that you have put capsaicin into. Either way, she'll get what she's looking for, and you'll get to keep all your appendages.

On the other hand, if you're looking for body modification torture, people have been known to go as far as outright castration (penectomy and orchidectomy), so it's not as far out there as some posters have indicated. Definitely an advanced exercise, though, that requires thinking carefully about the consequences. An untreated infection, for instance, could get you unintentionally and intimately familiar with reconstructive surgery and hormone replacement therapy. Alcohol and iodine does not sound very encouraging in this regard.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 9:22:27 PM

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Yeah, I've done it...

It got a BIG laugh in the emergency room later on!

Have fun.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/5/2007 11:06:06 PM

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Sometimes I think some people are just coming out of the woodwork with these questions. Why hasn't the OP responded tho?

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/9/2007 11:54:07 AM

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OK, I'm about as extreme as some go (-crush that is) when it comes to CBT, but the important thing to remember about CBT is without a cock or balls, there is nothing to play with anymore.
True, that's the goal of some, but I think most want to keep those toys around.

You can't abuse what you lose.......

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/9/2007 1:04:42 PM

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Crush,

Might also want to remember that without those parts, there will be some serious hormonal issues to deal with, depending on whether you actually like the idea of the changes that will occur. Personally, I'd consider not using hormone replacement therapy after scrotal removal to be fairly equivalent to using prescription drugs to affect their mind.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/9/2007 7:28:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaded2005

I suggest a dremil tool.....multi-speed, A/C powered.
It would really add something to the saying....."Just polishing my knob"

And here I thought my dremel was only good for detailed sanding work and jewelry making.. *jots down new CBT ideas*

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/10/2007 10:08:16 AM

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If you do it ...
You have to report back. I want to read this.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/10/2007 11:43:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mysti

And here I thought my dremel was only good for detailed sanding work and jewelry making.. *jots down new CBT ideas*

I don't see why you need to jot it down. I found it pretty memorable, myself.

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/10/2007 10:27:25 PM

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I'm adding it to the list of all the other asinine things ive seen on this site. right below the original OP's desire to jerk off with sand paper at the will of his equally asinie "Mistress". maybe he'd like to finish it off with a floor buffer or have his bits and pieces run over with a paver

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RE: Masturbation with sandpaper - 4/11/2007 2:15:26 PM

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No kidding!
I'm already taking enough pills....seems like that happens at 50 for some reason.

Abuse 'em, misuse 'em...but don't destroy 'em.... They are the "family jewels" after all.

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