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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 6:21:11 PM

patina

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Suzanne

Like LA i respect your opinion and when i wrote the post i was hurting and had just been told about my sons deployment so I was not in the best of mood. I should of waited another day. I would not really demand that of a dom i was in a scartastic nasty frame of mind.

I really honestly believe that a Master/sub-slave relationship is built on mutual trust and respect. He the Master is the one in control, i the sub-slave am the one who is told what to do. If i disagree with the instruction i have the right to question it respectfully but His decision is the final one.
I will always bow to His wishes. I intend to ask the One if i may just trim my self and explain the problem i had with shaving, if He says no he wants it clean then I will have to try waxing i guess but his decision is what will be final. I know and accept hat no matter how much i may joke about it otherwise.

Thank you Suzanne for your remarks.

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 6:49:34 PM

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Get a Brazilian wax instead. Tell the dom you can't shave due to ingrown hairs but you will trim instead or he can contribute to the waxing cost.

Without reading the whole thread..I feel this is the best answer to the issue. First off when you have a Brazilian wax, it lasts quite some time..also, after I believe about 4-5 times, eventually the hairs tend not to grow back, Thus you will never have to deal with ingrowns ever again! voila!..Tempting

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 6:57:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: patina
I have now decided to state to the next male that tells me to shave " I will shave when you shave your balls" Don't you feel it is only a fair exchange as i am tired of getting hair in my mouth when i suck your balls for you. If i must shave to keep hair out of your mouth then you can too.

You GO girl! :) I wish I had had the balls (hehe) to tell that to a couple of people in the past. As for now, shaven is my ideal, highly trimmed is the bare minimum before I even consider going down there.

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I have another question for the ladies on this area, maybe i should go to a diff forum for this but what the hell. Is it possible to not be able to shave due to causing hair to become ingrown.

What do you mean "not be able to" ? Of course you always are able to shave, even if it causes ingrown hairs, it's merely a matter of weighing the costs/benefits. I completely agree with you that you shouldn't have to shave if it causes you that much trouble, and if your dom wants the hair gone that badly maybe he'd pay for laser treatments. But by making it sound as though you are physically incapable of shaving I think it sounds kind of melodramatic. Best of all, find a dom who prefers women au natural or explore trimming without shaving.

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 7:29:08 PM

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Well again, the reason I can't shave more than once a week (and even that tends to be excessive, I tend to stay trim and do it about every 4-6 weeks), my pussy starts to really resemble raw hamburger.

If someone was ok with that look and the pain and risk of infection it poses, sure I'd do it if so ordered.

But it's really not possible for everyone to shave every day without adverse effects.

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 8:45:55 PM

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after reading another shaving thread awhile back, I've become a total fan of Coochie cream...it doesn't come off after a few passes with the razor and no ingrowns...and it's really really great on your legs if your skin gets dry there too.

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/27/2007 9:04:12 PM

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Ingrowing hairs.
These are haven! I love em. It taps into my inner teenager that picked my spots, I have a sterile needle and tease out the bent over hair. The hair is usually loose, so will just glide out. ie. it doesnt need plucking. A sterile wipe, and the redness and swelling is gone in 30 mins. I have access to medical supplies, but you can buy sterile needles from most chemists, they'll just think your a crack addict lol.

I once went to a waxer, who wanted to use her tweezers to do the same job. Er, the same tweezers that had been used on ?how many people before me, and i couldnt see no autoclave for sterilisation, i just said thanx, but NO thanx, ill do it myself.

And for the guys reading this. Rarely do us women like to tongue a hersuit guys ass/balls thankyou. Do the decent thing, and display the sort of trimness that you admire in your female. Coughing on a fur ball is for cats, not women. Sub/Domme/Switch or vanilla.

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RE: a rant and question on shaving - 3/28/2007 4:00:39 AM

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about 10 years ago I got talked into shaving my balls and I will never stop!!! It makes the whole ball sack sooo much more sensitive. It also makes clean up after applying lubricants much easier.
I will always keep my balls smooth by shaving almost everyday.

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