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what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:17:16 AM

boxofglass

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what's the point of saying "hello....i'm new here" if no one responds?

i came here because b.com has gotten so cold... didn't realize this is even more frigid.

go ahead... tell me i'm wrong.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:19:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boxofglass

what's the point of saying "hello....i'm new here" if no one responds?

i came here because b.com has gotten so cold... didn't realize this is even more frigid.

go ahead... tell me i'm wrong.

Silly goose, you can't make a demand in a forum full of Doms, Masters, Mistresss, willful subs and slaves.

Jeepers. If you made a nicer post people would probably smother you in good will. And NOT the poor people thingy.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:28:23 AM

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my original post was more polite.

i don't care if you call yourself a dom, slave, jackass... whatever.. aren't we all just people?

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:46:30 AM

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Yes we are all people, but what we chose to call ourselves is based on what we feel inside, either something that we just recently discovered or have known for years about our selves. On your profile you state you feel that you are more of a bottom than a submissive, but this place does not offer you that choice. I think that it is impossible for a site to offer a category for each individual. I do not have a category that fits me perfectly, but that is ok. If a category were made to cover each preference, I would bet that only a couple of people would fit into each category. Unfortunately I did not read your original post, but how about a welcome even though it is late coming? Hang in there it is very frustrating at times on these types of sites, a person will look through thousands of profiles, and then wait patiently for the right connection to happen, and it does not come, as soon as we would like, that is just how the world works.
To answer your question in your subject line “What’s the point?” The point is to get people to see you, to know you, to read your profile, had you not posted here, I would not have seen your profile. There is a tab on the left side of your home page that will tell you who is viewing you, take a look at it from time to time, and I bet you will notice that your profile will get more views after you have been active in the community and people are seeing you out and about so to speak. I look at it like a party, if I go and stand by the back wall all night long, I am not going to meet people and have any fun at all, but if I am out talking (using the message boards) than I am improving the chances of me having a good time.
Take care.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:56:04 AM

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i wasn't looking for a big, huge 'connection'... just a little polite 'howdy'

not too hard

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:56:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: boxofglass

my original post was more polite.

i don't care if you call yourself a dom, slave, jackass... whatever.. aren't we all just people?

We are all people, but we are people who's orientations, kinks and/or sexual choices play a great role in our lives.

And we act in a manner we deem fit.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:58:13 AM

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yeah... i'm clearly in th wrong neighborhood.

ego is king here.

i'll take my ball and go play elsewhere.

thanks, anyway.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 8:58:34 AM

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 9:00:01 AM

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Boxofglass. I have looked at your intro. There wasn't much there....sometimes the effort put forth is the effort you get back. I also looked at your profile. There is not much there either.

Tell folks a little about yourself. This site is actually pretty good...sometimes a little cliquish but pretty good. However if you don't warm up the crowd, your reception will be a little cold. Don't depend on the default choices collarme gives you to choose from. Put some personality in your profile describing yourself. You come off a little disinterested and if you are not interested, then you can't expect anyone to find interest in you.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 9:04:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boxofglass

what's the point of saying "hello....i'm new here" if no one responds?

i came here because b.com has gotten so cold... didn't realize this is even more frigid.

go ahead... tell me i'm wrong.

Boo hoo. Have a tissue.

Perhaps if you had posted something with a bit more substance than "Hi, I'm here" you might have recieved the response you were hoping for.

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 9:18:06 AM

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*waves good-bye* since you've deleted and/or deactivated your profile

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 9:24:48 AM

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Wow, some one was having a bad day?

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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 1:19:28 PM

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maybe if only you could break out of your boxofglass, you'd feel more free to express your feelings and not keep them so boxed in....
w/We would all welcome you.
release yourself.... you are free yay!
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RE: what's the point? - 3/27/2007 7:09:27 PM

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Nobody ever freakin' said hi to my introduction either, damb it, but I am not letting you A/all off as easy as box did.......................oh no, not that easy............

*goes to round up the flying monkeys*

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RE: what's the point? - 3/28/2007 10:53:25 AM

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hahaahahaa waits to see where Luci's flying monkeys head off to and whom they hit in the butt

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RE: what's the point? - 3/28/2007 10:55:02 AM

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*goes to round up the flying monkeys*

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RE: what's the point? - 3/28/2007 11:19:43 AM

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.......hmmmm, out of your own bottom?..............now that would be convenient!!

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RE: what's the point? - 3/28/2007 11:38:34 AM

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...........oh, or extremely uncomfy..........

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