RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore

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Celeste43 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/28/2007 7:01:53 PM)
Do you seriously expect people to respond proudly admitting that they are lying game players? Come on now, nobody will do that. As far as things I do with him, that I wouldn't do with anybody else. Of course. It's like someone saying that they would relocate. What they don't spell out in their profile, because it should be obvious, is that they would only do this if certain requirements were met. The fact is that most of us will do things with one person whom we trust implicitly does not mean we will do those things with every stranger on the street. So if someone refuses to discuss doing something with you that they list as an interest in their profile, take it to mean that they won't do it with you, not that they will never do it. And ask them what they need to feel comfortable to do this instead of running out calling them liars.

curiouspet55 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/28/2007 9:54:19 PM)
To put it simply, No. I may put something on there that I think I would enjoy, if I haven't tried it yet, to give an idea of my desires - but I wouldn't lie purposely on anything like that. Trust is a key aspect of any D/s M/s relationship, and I can't see how starting out with lies could benefit anyone involved.

liljoy -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/29/2007 5:12:52 AM)
Again i don't see the point even if one doesn't plan on meeting. If one pretends to be something that they are not it sounds to me like they aren't comfortable in thier own skin. Seems to me that if you aren't happy with who and what you are and pretend to be something else you only increase those feelings quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Then again perhaps they never get to the point of meeting..or if they do it never gets to that point hoping that by their actions they can change the dom's mind. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

myobedience -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/29/2007 5:19:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Does being submissive conflict with your expression and devotion of being a devout christian? How can you serve another when religion imparts another path? Sincere, real time, experienced open-minded Christian submissive Christianity (Expert) Ross ©º°¨¨°º© This is an EXCELLENT question for another thread.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/29/2007 5:27:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myobedience quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Does being submissive conflict with your expression and devotion of being a devout christian? How can you serve another when religion imparts another path? Sincere, real time, experienced open-minded Christian submissive Christianity (Expert) Ross ©º°¨¨°º© This is an EXCELLENT question for another thread. It hasnt impacted Angel's ability to serve. Simply his hard limits, which I respect. He and I have not taken part i anything that would go against his beliefs. But thats just how we manage our realtonship, I am sure there are otehr takes DV

viperess -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/29/2007 6:41:08 AM)
Greetings SirDiscipliner69, No i did not post anything in my profile that was not true. At the same time i did not fill out all the likes and dislikes mainly because as a slave, to me it means doing as my Masters wishes. i will not get into the whole my hard limits are those in which my Master sets because well that is my belief but not everyones. i can not see why people lie on their profile unless it makes them feel like a bigger person, they have no clue what they are talking about and so they want to play like they do, or because they are scared if they tell the truth no one will speak to them. Whatever their reason, most the times people end up being caught in the lies they tell. Respectfully,

starshineowned -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/29/2007 8:30:43 AM)
quote: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it with the intent of luring new dating material by looking like something you really are not? No Well Wishes starshine Happy slave of Master Delvin

littleone35 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/29/2007 9:14:12 AM)
nope why lie?

heartfeltsub -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/29/2007 10:05:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myobedience quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Does being submissive conflict with your expression and devotion of being a devout christian? How can you serve another when religion imparts another path? Sincere, real time, experienced open-minded Christian submissive Christianity (Expert) Ross ©º°¨¨°º© This is an EXCELLENT question for another thread. It has been the subject of many a thread.

desertdancer -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/29/2007 10:26:57 AM)
It would be silly to post something that your not really wanting, dontcha think? My answer is NO. No because I didn't come here looking to snag myself a Dom/Master so I didn't feel a need to overly talk myself up. If I were here to snag a Master, I would not wanna lie, 'cause if I were to find the man of my dreams, he'd expect me to do all those things I'd posted I'd wanna do, then he'd be dissapointed that I didn't want them after all, and where would I be then? Sad 'cause he'd leave and find a girly who DID want all those things I'd lied 'bout. Luckily, I found the man of my dreams and he showed me all thing yummy things I've learned that I'm wanting to do. ~dancer

sunfleur -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/29/2007 10:28:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunfleur i'm hearing some hurt here? keep in mind. this is the internet.. like the song by Savage Harvest goes... "on the telephone line i am anyone, i am anything i wanna be.. i can be a super model, or Norman Mahler, and you wouldnt know the difference would you?" Correction... Savage Garden.

SimplyTrue -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/30/2007 5:55:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it with the intent of luring new dating material by looking like something you really are not? Ross ©º°¨¨°º© Silly - A fun game for some, but a waste of time. Why be false? It's like the needy child- all attention is at least attention - whether good or bad.

DixieAngel -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/30/2007 7:49:13 PM)
No I haven't done this but i am sure there are many that do sadly

Urza -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/30/2007 8:05:56 PM)
I liked viewing my profile after 4-6 months and realising how some of my interests have changed :)

Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/30/2007 9:32:20 PM)
I'm as honest as possible in my profile mainly because its to much trouble to keep lies straight. besides why lie and say im interested in something im not? I dont want to pretend to be interested later. I could see the lying about the age but really i think its more of insecurity. Many women prefer older men and many men prefer younger women. but yet some younger men prefer older women and some older women prefer younger men but yet again some men prefer women their age but most older men and younger women seem to be the most common. How this works in same sex relationship i have no clue. im sure their is some women that like men in their 60's most are retired have plenty of time to spend with a sub and i would hope knew what they wanted out of life. If i found someone i was talking to had lied on their profile it would definately take me longer to trust them. Honesty is very important to me.

MsKatHouston -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/31/2007 3:03:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it with the intent of luring new dating material by looking like something you really are not? No

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore it w (3/31/2007 3:08:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sillygirl09 I think if you were going to put false things in your profile you really never have any intention of meeting someone. I try to be completely honest at all times so there are no surprises when we meet. Many feel that they can "win over" the person when meeting them as to their "embellishements " or "fabrications" might be over looked as a slight error or typo. For some it is just staying behind the computer as life has nothing in store for some as they feel it has treated them unfairly. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/31/2007 3:10:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle no. i'm not in such need of new partners that i have to misrepresent myself in order to attract someone. what would be the point? then i'd have to keep up this facade of whatever attracted them in the first place. too much time and energy, in my humble opinion. It seems the energy spent in maintaining the facade would be better suited for more positive things in helping rather than re inventing the past. In the end the truth always surfaces. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/31/2007 3:12:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplySubmissive quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Does being submissive conflict with your expression and devotion of being a devout christian? How can you serve another when religion imparts another path? Sincere, real time, experienced open-minded Christian submissive Christianity (Expert) Ross ©º°¨¨°º© wonders why you think one can't be submissive, slave, in the lifestyle, and also be a Christian? (thinking this is a great thread on it's own, I was under the impression that a devout may only serve one and it was not of the earthly It was not an attack but an honest inquiry to mindset and philosophy on the subject. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: So do you ever post something in your profile fully knowing you have no desire to do or explore (3/31/2007 3:14:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire Kinda defeats the purpose of having the ability to direct someone to my profile and tell them to look closely and pay attention when contacting me. Though, I see it constantly. People do it with their interests, they do it with their sexuality and their relationship status too. Why should interests be any different? I have been known to look past the facades and see right to the core of the person which is very unsettling to a subbie when she can not hide or play games. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

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