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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/13/2005 10:20:45 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		OK LIKE THE ALTRENATIVE IS FOR THE MASTER TO SEARCH FOR NEW SUBS ALL BY HIMSELF AND THEN THEY NEVER NO THAT HE HAS ANOTHER SLAVE.

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/13/2005 10:54:20 AM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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ORIGINAL: allyC

I think it depends on the relationship. In an absolute TPE type of relationship, the "consensual" part happened when the slave surrendered. After that, the choices are the owner's. It may be non-negotiable at that point. If the slave doesn't like it, the slave can always leave.



That's how it is in my relationship with Master. i only submitted to Him once, when i accepted His collar...from then on it is completely His will, not mine...D/s relaitonships are all different, of course...just expressing how mine works... i trust and love Him enough to know that He won't put me in harms way, so no matter how much i dislike something He tells me to do it's never a matter of whether i will do it or not, it's only how i will get through it and then move on to the next thing.

As far as the OP topic goes...if the Master wants to use His slave/sub to search for others it's His right as Master, simple as that.

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/14/2005 8:19:09 AM   
SenorX


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Status: offline 		The true question herein should be where the intent of the actual seeker is and whether or not those who use their subs to seek out another sub are doing so as fakes, as an actual Couple, or as just seeking some extra-curricular sex.

I had My profile listed under Males, Dominant, before. I switched the profile to Couples, Dominant. I had My wife place her profile under females, submissives, but she got alot of disgusting messages from some very poorly trained and poor-mannered dommies who were either fakes, wannabes or just plain mental cases. So, I had her change her profile to Switches instead of submissives.

Although her profile says that she is seeking another sub to join with Uus, it is very plain, simple, and specific about what wwe are seeking, and lets the prospect know she can message either My bride or Me. My profile, in concurrence, is very specific, as well. I doubt that Aanyone could be justified in claiming that either one of Oour profiles would be vague, ambiguous, or misleading.

In so doing, and the above being stated, I have directed queries to, not only check My profile, but to also check My bride's profile also, in order for the prospective sub to get a better picture of what Wwe are about and what Wwe seek.

I sincerely doubt that there should be any problem with this, as that is what this site is purportedly for... to help those seeking find what they are seeking.

Yes, there are alot of fakes, psuedos, wannabes and mental cases out there on this site... just as they exist everywhere else. It is up to Uus... the individual or the Couple seeking... to weed out those fakes, wannabes, psuedos, and nut cases and also those who would not meet Oour search criteria. With patience and awareness, it can be done.

In so doing Myself, I have used My bride (My #1 sub) to help network and help in the process. Aany person who messages Me or her are discussed by Bboth of Uus. If a person writes Uus in a cordial and courteous manner, Wwe will appreciate that and take the time to reply in kind, since it is only proper to take the time to write back and respond in some manner to those who have taken the time to write Uus to begin with, as long as they have been courteous. People with attitude problems simply get blocked and deleted. Plain. Simple.

I have run across a good number of suspects herein collarme, and those suspects have been weeded out whereby I have been then left with fewer prospects than suspects. The prospects then have been weeded out even further to leave Me with just a few potentials. Out of those, I am now considering two, but I am leaning very heavily thus far towards a single one. When that comes about, then My bride will have just as much involvement in the process as has the potential sub being considered. Ultimately, I will be the final decision-maker, but the involvement of My current sub (My bride) throughout the whole process is of utmost importance to Me.

Therefore, My feelings are that, yes, there is no problem with a Dom/me asking His/Her sub to help in the search process. Why should it be a problem?

Best Regards,

X

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/16/2005 1:10:15 AM   
temptation


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ORIGINAL: MasterFuture

I was recently glancing through a series of profiles when I saw one that at 1st I didnt take heed to the question that was asked but over some time it became one that I have given alot of thought towards. It was asked by a sub and it was stated as it is above. "Why do Masters/DOMs solicit their slaves/subs to solicit other slaves/subs for them?" She questioned whether others see it as harmless or just a sign that there are too many who confuse laziness with dominance. An interesting question, atleast I thought it was interesting enough to post. I too grow weary of the increasing numbers of subs/slaves who post that thy are only here in search of a sister/brother as well as those who state that if you message them it will be deleted unread. My question is why? Why would you even create a profile if it is not to be used for anything other than a decoration? Why would a Master/DOMs place the task of uptaining and collaring another when that is clearly not their role? My feelings are balanced in the manner that I can understand both sides of the spectrum but im wondering if anyone else have asked themselves these same questions



I'd actually lean torwards "fake people, who pretend to have real lives to generate interest"

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/16/2005 5:49:03 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: temptation
I'd actually lean torwards "fake people, who pretend to have real lives to generate interest"

I find this surprising after reading your post about how many people email you to tell you that you have to be a fake and that your picture is a fake.

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/16/2005 7:06:58 AM   
Kiaban


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Status: offline 		First of all I have to say I find it suprising that it should upset so many that a dom would include thier sub in a search for what will be a poly relationship..I mean this is a bad thing?
Second to those people who say its just to generate interest..there are more subs looking for singles on every site than looking for couples so it would be self defeating to generate interest in this way if you didnt already have a sub.
And lastly I think most of the animosity comes from people who go to look at a cute girl's profile only to find out she is owned and looking for a third, they get upset and have to find fault with something..hell how else do you explain people getting upset over what someone does consentually with thier property?


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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/16/2005 7:43:54 AM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: Kiaban

First of all I have to say I find it suprising that it should upset so many that a dom would include thier sub in a search for what will be a poly relationship..I mean this is a bad thing?
Second to those people who say its just to generate interest..there are more subs looking for singles on every site than looking for couples so it would be self defeating to generate interest in this way if you didnt already have a sub.
And lastly I think most of the animosity comes from people who go to look at a cute girl's profile only to find out she is owned and looking for a third, they get upset and have to find fault with something..hell how else do you explain people getting upset over what someone does consentually with thier property?


I very much agree. It has surprised me this thread seems to refuse to just die, I wouldn't have thought so many would be concerned about what others are doing.

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/16/2005 11:52:52 AM   
SenorX


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kiaban

First of all I have to say I find it suprising that it should upset so many that a dom would include thier sub in a search for what will be a poly relationship..I mean this is a bad thing?
Second to those people who say its just to generate interest..there are more subs looking for singles on every site than looking for couples so it would be self defeating to generate interest in this way if you didnt already have a sub.
And lastly I think most of the animosity comes from people who go to look at a cute girl's profile only to find out she is owned and looking for a third, they get upset and have to find fault with something..hell how else do you explain people getting upset over what someone does consentually with thier property?



Very well stated. You would not believe the number of hateful messages My bride received by dommies that got all upset because they found that:

1. she is owned and very happily owned, at that,

2. she is Mine and it will stay that way, since those solemn and sacred vows Wwe made to each other were to be held to Uus, 'til death do Uus part'.

Yes, Wwe Bboth are seeking, and I have it stated in My profile and she has it in her's. In fact, Wwe even posted 1 same pic of Uus together in Oour profiles in order to let people know that Wwe are not fakes... far from it.

So, kudos to you for your comment.

Best Regards,

X

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RE: What are your thought on Masters/DOMs who use their... - 5/30/2005 5:48:15 PM   
WmMaster2004


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Status: offline 		If I wanted another woman I would find her myself. No ambiguity here. I suspect that many subs/slaves search just to pacify their Masters, or they are afraid of losing them, as poly was introduced After a time frame has gone by in their relationship.
Many subs/slaves have told me stories of just doing to keep their Master.

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