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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 7:48:55 AM

viperess

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Greetings,
For me i don't want a trainer as i hope i have been trained already in the basics to where my Master only needs to fine tune me to His liking, i don't want a handler as i have been handled enough by those who do not own me, i don't want a top as it is much more to me than just sex, i don't want a daddy as i had one at birth and one is more than enough. What i want is my Master, One who molds me as He wishes me to be, One how handles the world around us, One who corrects me when i do wrong, One who owns my heart, mind, body , and soul.
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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 8:30:40 AM

asiandoll27

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I think for me it is actually a trainer, especially since I always seem to need/want to learn more than just the basics. I think that anyone can be molded into what a Master or Mistress wants, but that process is slowed or made easier depending on how trained in the basics that the one to be molded is.

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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 10:14:53 AM

MistressDoMe

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I prefer the term Dominant woman, I do not consider myself a Domina or Dominatrix.
I am Mistress, to only those that are lucky.

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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 10:29:47 AM

Elorin

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As a submissive I want a masterful Dominant Owner. I want him to take control and have some form of control over me every day, and engage that control each day. I want him to have the ultimate say in our relationship and what we do. I want to know that whether I throw a temper tantrum or not, things will happen the way that he says.

At times, he is my Daddy - nurturing, spanking me for being wrong, indulging my childish whims, taking me to the fair.
At times, he is my handler, working with the animal within me. Molding, guiding, and whappin' me on the nose w/ a newspaper if I pee on the carpet.
He has been my trainer, training me to do things to his liking.
He is often my top, doing delicious things to me for mutual enjoyment, and sometimes just his enjoyment.

I would have no problems meeting a trainer and working with them at a skill set I do not have - tea service, leather care, and giving men's haircuts all come to mind.

But for a permanent relationship, what I said first.
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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 10:56:09 AM

SilkLaceNPearls

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At this time, I prefer my Mentor but someday I envision being with a Dominant who in time is comfortable in being an Owner/Master as I am a submissive who strong slave tendencies.

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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 11:10:29 AM

notlooking2

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I've always prefered naturally dominant men. A title means nothing IMO. You either are dominant or you aren't, placing Sir or Master in front of your name doesn't change that fact.

My preference would be to meet a Dominant who is interested in taking it to the Master level in time. I couldn't give up total control right from the beginning, that would be foolish. As time passes, trust in each other deepens, and the natural step is for the relationship to become more intense.

As far as being with a Trainer, I see this as a waste of time. Each relationship is unique, nothing is written in stone. Each person has different preferences, what may be a turn on for some, could be a turn off for another. And the fun lies in getting to know what those preferences are. To me it's a bonding process getting to know what my Dominant prefers. Besides, I can't see a man wanting to lose out on seeing his submissive's reaction when he introduces her to something new.

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RE: Do you prefer a trainer, handler, Dominant or Master? - 4/15/2007 11:26:28 AM

Wyldheart1969

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Prefer a dominant man myself.

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