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SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: The breakdown of communication resulted in the breakdown of the relationship. (3/29/2007 6:22:01 PM)
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Come across any stupid dom tricks you like to share?
Admittedly this is influenced by David Letterman's stupid pet tricks
I am sure We could also post those here also (pet = submissive)
I think it is just a matter of time that either it will be either flotsam or jetsam...
There is much power in the written word. A noble profession is wordsmithing.
The written word leaves much to perception and imagination.
I do not believe in setting a submissive up for failure for punishment.
That is a stupid dom trick.
I do not need a reason to discipline
I stand corrected (remember that group?).
What I left out is disciplining is done via training for the betterment of the submissive and My enjoyment.
What I left out was that I do not need a reason for My submissive to misbehave to get discipline from Me.
There is a method to My madness
There is the cause and effect.
Yes be it self reflection, inner awareness, endurance, stamina improvement, evelope pushing, or simply riding the wooden pony for My enjoyment it does all have meaning and that meaning is imparted to My submissive.
Being old school it is hard sometimes to undo the things I learned over twenty years ago.
I do not appologize for or to those to percieve methods of others to be different or wrong.
I have been using caps on pronouns and lack of caps on pronouns as to show and set mindset within messages.
Silly rabbit...would you rather he have all the subs up there with faces blocked?
Wouldn't that seem more like trophy displaying?
To Me it would.
Sometimes people who leave off head shots or show parts of the face do it for a reason.
True perception is everything but then maybe they are involved in a high profile job where that sort of stuff is political suicide.
Then again a profile is a listing of sorts. A quick snapshot, If one were to asscess people here..and We all do it..then we might as well go online looking for people the same way you do cars and houses..an ebay for doms and subs.
It is a postcard collection of sorts...you like it...write and find out if the person is indeed as shallow, self absorbed as your post here.
Then agian I have amny friends and associates that come from many wallks of life..to judge them on a one by one basis rather than how they outwardly appear is just not for Me.
The world is too quick for instant gratification...at least here in the DC area..cell phones, email..a microwave metality.
I hated what happened on 911 but I long for the effect it had on people I came in contact with. I made them human.
They started treating everyone like perople not numbers. People were concerned with each other. We all thought We were going to die for pete sake..how do I make ammends mindset.
Hell I even had a former lover / sub contact me and appologize for all that went down when she just walked out.
I often worry about the intentions of those that seem too critial of others. To Me it implies there is something missing from thier lives and they are angry. They impose or transfer that anger on everyone else.
So if you think someone is an asshole...before you label them for their profile or listings try and see just how accurate your perception or prejudice is....and it is prejudice as you pre judge before knowing all the fact...We all do it in some form...subtle or overt...
Ok you sick puppies..your still reading...getting darker here isn't it?
. Here's the question or scenereo.
You tell Me if I have crossed the line.
Your submissive claims to have limits defined scat, urine, blood, animals and children.
Other than that she welcomes all.
While bound and blindfolded you work up your nazi / Jewish scenereo with taughting hot verbage with fondling exams ect.
Then you tell her you are going to penetrate her.
You then insert a meat like substance and bein to fuck her with it.
she feins pleasure yet body reveals otherwise
You keep playing with her mind
You then tell her in a whisper much to her horror that you have been fucking her with pork!
Mindfuckery...have you crossed the limits?
In actuallity it is not..could be Kosher hot dog.
What have you done?
Well that could be one
or it could be My postings
or My profile
or the car I drive
or the fact that I accidentally wore one dark navy blue and one black sock and discovered it in a meeting with a client.<putting them on in the dark of morn can be tricking if not mated earlier>
I don't have a photograph, but you can have my footprints. They're upstairs in my socks
So anyway..just stick around..I am sure there is much more fun to be found here.
I haven't had this much entertainment since I use to run to B&D/S&M forums on two bbs (pre internet sites that you used dial up to get on) with all the vanillia people defending the lifestyle.
Then there was the text version of the internet where at least the debates were with Jon Jacobs or authors of Different Loving or Polly..covering the range of topics as "the true sub" the "true dom" the "true slave"...fun stuff..
So I love the smell of debate in the morning...do you want to have a socratict debate or surf???!
Well I just wrote about that in My book...yes if you look here www.dirtysockscannotbeseeninthedark.com it will tell yo uall about it
No need to appologize.
you should not be attacked for your inquires..the attacks come form the insecure..those unhappy with what they see inside..they have not evolevd thier self awarenss ..sort of like in high school..remember?...anyway...
did not do the presented posting but it was more of a MIND thing...something to get one to think....and the premise was she was Jewish and liked to play this taboo just as the emergence of Black women in B&D in My area are accepting the taboo of white master / black slave.
My understanding or lack of knowledge regarding the pork is that those of the Jewish faith do not partake in the consumtion of pork. My understanding (hope I do not have to preface all likes with a fucking disclaimer...sheess..)..where was I?..ah yes
My understanding is that food consumption is that of Kosher where it is reviewed and approved by said Rabbi in charge of such.
Please anone is is more in tune with this please feel free.
I am just a layman here..
a Roman Catholic in fact..
Which reminds Me of My bar days...remember thoses?
I was sitting there drinking My beer all decked out in full dress leather (riding days) when this guy was talking to these two woman trying to pick them up...this is the honest truth...so religion came around..
So they ask him what religion he is.
He tells them" I am a backsliding Morman"
"What?" they say.."We see you in here all the time drinking and trying to hit on women!"
To which her repelied...
oh ..I crack Myslef up...heheh
"I told you I was a back slidding Morman!...hehehe"
too funny...heeheeh
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And then again this might just be a simple prop to occupy their time.
It is what it is.
Perception.
Reality.
Get over it and move on if you have nothing constructive to say.
Any questions?
Those are my principles, and if you don't like them... well, I have others.
Ross
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