stella40
Posts: 417
Joined: 1/11/2006 From: London, UK Status: offline
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There was one very essential quality missing which I feel is the most important - ACCEPTANCE. You cannot serve or submit to someone you don't accept. This alone is the key quality which serves as a catalyst for the entire relationship. I accept my Domme, I accept who she is, I accept her feelings, her thoughts, her wishes, her needs, her desires, I accept her interests. I accept her nature, her moods, her anger, her opinions, and when I don't understand her or agree with her I accept her. I accept that my life and future is with her. I accept that my submission has to be to the degree she requires, demands and expects. And because I accept her, she need never have to live to fulfil my criteria or expectations but is, and always will be, free to be the person she really is. This is the basis of my submission.
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I try to take one day at a time, but several days come and attack me at once. (Jennifer Unlimited) If you can't be a good example then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
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