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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/2/2007 6:51:36 AM

littleone35

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To me is sounds like the girls you are talking to have a fanasty about what thay think bdam is all about not the reality of it. I admit that i was the same way when i started my journy into the lifestyle (not that i wanted to be locked in a cage, not my kink). I had an idea about what i THOUGHT th e lifestlye was all about i learned how wrong i was. You said these girls you are speaking to are young? Maybe they don;t know enough about the lifestyle yet.

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/2/2007 7:38:00 AM

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Also, keep in mind that I have some fantasies.....which others have done....but I have enough sense to know that, for me, they should stay fantasy.

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/2/2007 7:40:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterDane

And so, at long last, my question becomes. Am I correct in my assumptions, or am I applying a dominants mindset to a situation, where it does not belong?

Any thoughts would be much appreciated.

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/2/2007 7:41:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

http://powerotics.com/lano/lano1.htm

this is a broken link

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/2/2007 7:53:38 AM

MsBearlee

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hmmmmmmmmm...

Try this one:

http://www.powerotics.com/powerotics/

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/4/2007 8:03:03 PM

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As a switch I see a lot of fatnasies which don't work for me. And that's it, they don't work for me. I'm clear about that. I want someone who understands the difference between fantasy and reality. And the cage all the time is one variation, I also see the cunnilingus all the time type as well. I look for an intelligent, active, engaged with life type. And ongoing caging doesn't really match that type. So on I go.

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RE: Fantasies vs. Realities - 4/4/2007 8:46:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mixielicous

my goal is to be useful, not USELESS.

One's usefulness depends entirely on the point of view of the Master in question. What you view as being useful, another may view as being underfoot.

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