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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

I agree, if you don't want to give gifts or tributes move on.

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This seems to be a topic that really bothers many men on here.

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Perhaps it does bother men,but if the situation was reversed and it was male Doms that demanded payment in some form for their services perhaps more females here would be asking the same questions.

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ORIGINAL: Wickad

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

Perhaps it does bother men,but if the situation was reversed and it was male Doms that demanded payment in some form for their services perhaps more females here would be asking the same questions.

I think this very thing does happen.  The difference is in the tender being discussed.  It has been my experience that women Dominants are more likely to demand $$$ and male Dominants are more likely to demand sex.  Either way there is the idea of paying for what you get.

Wickad

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We now have to move to something more tangible. All you have done so far is do some writing on a keyboard and carry out some basic training, not in My presence. Not very much and many can make promises when they don’t have to deliver. you will follow my instructions precisely without deviation. This is important and will show that you are genuine and ready to move forward to make this lifestyle a reality and not just something to masturbate to. you will send me a tribute. For now I do not want new shoes or clothes as you might choose the wrong things and I wont be happy. you will send a cash tribute. Reasons for you to send it are obvious. It shows you are genuine and not a small minded masturbator on the intenet, which most are. If you dont wish to send then all you have said is meaningless, you are just playing and not actually serious or worse still just plain selfish. If you can obey this most annoying of orders then you will have a passed an important test which I suppose this is as much as anything else. I expect you to be generous and not selfish or short sighted. Remember you are nearly selected to become not just My slave but My life partner so if you fail in this then unfortunately you will have lost the opportunity. This is not negotiable I am afraid, I have thought hard about this and realise that it could put you off but if it does then it would have done its job. Talk is cheap and actions speak louder than words.
Report to Me when you have sent it. Remember it is in your interest that I receive it as there is no way I will meet you if it doesnt get here.
Do not let Me down slave and have a good day.

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Well, sadly, I knew this was coming.

I was assuming that you were going to hit me up for money to fly back to the states because you're wallet got stolen or something along those lines. But this is fine too.

If you are even interested in my opinion about the subject, I wrote this the other day:

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=929061

From your first letter, I was 95% sure you were angling for something, but played along in case that 5% chance was legit. Alas, it's not, and you are obviously either full of shit or not the person for me.

Simple fact of the matter is that I would never be with someone who required some sort of tribute, let alone someone I never met and required it to continue on in a relationship.

You may see it as insincere, if you are in fact a woman and/or Domme, but sadly that's the way it is. You will simply never meet someone more sincere or who wants this more than I do.

It's too bad too though, I'm the only single guy I know who gets the Tiffany's catalog. I was picking something out in case you were real and I ever did meet you. I was thinking this: http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?sku=18411504&cid=96659&mcat=148204&menu=1&page=4

I love making a woman's face light up with a nice piece of jewelery or a nice Coach bag or something like that. I have no problem taking someone out for a $400 dinner or buying a piece of jewelry for someone, but wouldn't give you $5 for some supposed tribute.

Hopefully you will find what you're looking for, obviously it's not me.

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Perhaps it does bother men,but if the situation was reversed and it was male Doms that demanded payment in some form for their services perhaps more females here would be asking the same questions.

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ORIGINAL: Aneirin
Perhaps it does bother men,but if the situation was reversed and it was male Doms that demanded payment in some form for their services perhaps more females here would be asking the same questions.

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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

My profile is so long because I had to resort to spelling out what I want in a msg... How many do as I ask, very few, also a lot seem to think, because I put in there I want them employed (outside the home) that I will be expecting a tribute. I am not. I find unemployment a sign of laziness and I do not intend to support someone finacially who is capable of supporting themselves. But if you mention being employed subs seem to assume you mean that you will want them to pay tribute.

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Also what I should have added was I personally do not believe in asking a boy to give me cash, I do however expect a boy to contribute, for example if we are meeting at a hotel room he can pay half,
I like gifts, I do not deny this but I would rather something the boy chose himself as opposed to something I tell him to buy me, it shows more of his inner personality and also shows what he knows about me.

Angel

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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky


I mean come on, put some work into it. If you're going to try and basically extort money out of someone, at least make it reasonable or something. Anyone can put together a form letter and send it out. Do something to earn the money,  make me fall in love with you and then take me for my 401k and baseball card collection or something. Whatever.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky


I mean come on, put some work into it. If you're going to try and basically extort money out of someone, at least make it reasonable or something. Anyone can put together a form letter and send it out. Do something to earn the money,  make me fall in love with you and then take me for my 401k and baseball card collection or something. Whatever.

Did she ask for $5? I didn't see it but maybe I didn't look close enough. I was wondering what the amount was. In cases like the one you listed, I tell subs to respond and offer to make a donation to the femdom's favorite charity in the amount they asked for and send proof of it as an alternative and see what the woman says.  If a woman REALLY wanted to "weed  out" the lazy ones, there's no difference between sending the money somewhere else (to a person/organization who really needs it) than to her own pocket.
Akasha

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky


I mean come on, put some work into it. If you're going to try and basically extort money out of someone, at least make it reasonable or something. Anyone can put together a form letter and send it out. Do something to earn the money,  make me fall in love with you and then take me for my 401k and baseball card collection or something. Whatever.

Did she ask for $5? I didn't see it but maybe I didn't look close enough. I was wondering what the amount was. In cases like the one you listed, I tell subs to respond and offer to make a donation to the femdom's favorite charity in the amount they asked for and send proof of it as an alternative and see what the woman says.  If a woman REALLY wanted to "weed  out" the lazy ones, there's no difference between sending the money somewhere else (to a person/organization who really needs it) than to her own pocket.
Akasha