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GeekyGirl -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 6:04:39 AM)

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geeky girl.... once you go black...... YOU NEED A FUCKING WHEELCHAIR!~!!!!
you cant deny it.... youre secretly turned on by the inmates hostility towards you even though youre outwardly disgusted, youre craving the black cock inside...( and yes, your comments ARE racist.)
Awwwww shit... what did I start???


First of all, you're incorrect. I am not turned on by the hostility of the inmates. I find their attitudes very disturbing. They don't just treat me this way...they treat all the female officers this way, including women in their 60s. I find it rude and disrespectful. Do you have any idea how common aids and other sexually trasmitted diseases are inside the correctional setting? They estimate that over 50% of our inmates have a STD (this is among all races and both genders). Yeah I find it just SO hot and sexy when some asshole throws Aids-infested cum on my face. Yeah that's a huge fucking turn on, let me tell you. I'm just DYING to catch aids or hepatitis or something equally disgusting. Makes me just HUNGER for that cock. I don't care what color the guy is, if he's an inmate I treat like he's got aids. End of story.

If you want to think I'm a racist, go ahead. I don't know you,so your opinion doesn't matter. Over my lunchbreak last night, I spoke with 3 of my black friends about this conversation and they assured me that they considered me a true friend and did not find anything I said racist. These are people I have been friends with for 2-3yrs in REAL life, not over a computer screen. I am not going to tell you everything they said about the accusations being made here, because it doesn't matter. My black friends love me and know I love them, and really that is ALL that matters.




mnottertail -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 6:05:34 AM)

onyx,

That is really all there is to it.  Same can be said of girls.  Same can be said of homosexual couplings, transvestite couplings,  or any amount of 3 somes and 15 somes.  Thats just how folks will do you.  Folks  is  folks.

Now, for me there is a lot to be said to see  the  difference in skintones meshing together, that is  another awesome aspect to me.  Otherwise, why do people have all these garish sex colors in their clothing.  Reds, Whites, Blacks, so  on----

But girls---- lose the fuckin purple----instant erectile dysfunction, for me, at least.


Ron




soulKnife -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 7:00:38 AM)

she accused your comments, not you of being racist. Not saying they were or weren't just pointing that out.




littleonyx -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 11:26:53 AM)

Greetings, Master Ron...

First, that word should've been "bigger" and not "begger."  *laughs*I  Although, I've heard that a black penis has the ability to make a woman beg.  That, in my opinion, is debatable as well.  *grins*

You're right though...there are misconceptions about everyone, whether they're black, or white, or hispanic, or asian, or whatever...and male or female.  Some people think that all black women have these big 'ole juicy booties to match their lips and hips.  Some people think that any white women with big breasts has to have had implants.  And some people think that bi-racial children are all going to have super light, beautiful skin and long, gorgeous hair.  *shrugs* And when people act...and speak...on what they think that they know about a person based soley on what they've heard about them (in a stereotypical nature, I mean), then for me, that's when it becomes an issue.

Now you, like many others, like to see the difference in the contrasting skintones.  That's why they make movies that are nothing but black men and white women, and vice versa.  It's a preference, like anything else concerning human to human interaction.  And for me, even though I may think that it's a stupid preference, or a racist one, or an ignorant one, or whatever...it is still their preference, and I have to respect that.  Somebody I know once called that maturity.

Well wishes,

little onyx

P.S.--Master Ron, now you got me thinking about color contrasts!  *laughs*




hisannabelle -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:13:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleonyx
I quoted her because I agree, to a degree (look mom, I rhymed!).  I also think that it has to do with the person, as an individual.  Their sexual style, their experience, and how you feel when you're with them.  I've had some black men that I wish I could've completely erased from my memory...and yet, at the same time, there have been white men that I would collapse into a puddle for, and they've never even touched me.

Yup.  I be strange.

little onyx


you don't be strange, onyx :) i think your post described it really well.




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:45:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleonyx

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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

i agree that black men are awesome in bed. at least, the ones i've had sex with. however, i've also had sex with white men who were better, for different reasons. i think it has to do with the person, their experience, and their style, more than any racial stereotype ~snip~






I've heard that black men are unbeatable in bed.  I've heard that white men are better.  I've heard that black men have begger penises.   I've heard that white men make better porn.  *shrugs*  Whatever.  (lol)  I've never been with a white guy sexually (oddly enough, many times that's one of the first questions I get--"Have you ever been with a white guy?"  I'm like, "Does it matter?"), but I can say from experience that all black men are not awesome in bed.  I won't start with my first, as that was just too horrible to mention.  Or one of my others, as that was just...*sighs*  I don't even wanna go there.  Or one of my threesomes, where he just...he just...dag nabbit, I can't go any further.

I quoted her because I agree, to a degree (look mom, I rhymed!).  I also think that it has to do with the person, as an individual.  Their sexual style, their experience, and how you feel when you're with them.  I've had some black men that I wish I could've completely erased from my memory...and yet, at the same time, there have been white men that I would collapse into a puddle for, and they've never even touched me.

Yup.  I be strange.

little onyx


You go girl...for the record..white boys DOO make better porn...
mwahahahahaha[8D]




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:51:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

quote:


geeky girl.... once you go black...... YOU NEED A FUCKING WHEELCHAIR!~!!!!
you cant deny it.... youre secretly turned on by the inmates hostility towards you even though youre outwardly disgusted, youre craving the black cock inside...( and yes, your comments ARE racist.)
Awwwww shit... what did I start???


First of all, you're incorrect. I am not turned on by the hostility of the inmates. I find their attitudes very disturbing. They don't just treat me this way...they treat all the female officers this way, including women in their 60s. I find it rude and disrespectful. Do you have any idea how common aids and other sexually trasmitted diseases are inside the correctional setting? They estimate that over 50% of our inmates have a STD (this is among all races and both genders). Yeah I find it just SO hot and sexy when some asshole throws Aids-infested cum on my face. Yeah that's a huge fucking turn on, let me tell you. I'm just DYING to catch aids or hepatitis or something equally disgusting. Makes me just HUNGER for that cock. I don't care what color the guy is, if he's an inmate I treat like he's got aids. End of story.

If you want to think I'm a racist, go ahead. I don't know you,so your opinion doesn't matter. Over my lunchbreak last night, I spoke with 3 of my black friends about this conversation and they assured me that they considered me a true friend and did not find anything I said racist. These are people I have been friends with for 2-3yrs in REAL life, not over a computer screen. I am not going to tell you everything they said about the accusations being made here, because it doesn't matter. My black friends love me and know I love them, and really that is ALL that matters.


Oh SHHHH.. We all know you secretly crave the black cock... ohh sure youre racist self is HORRIFIED to even think that you could possibly want, desire, dare I say even CRAVE it... because lets face it you grew up in a racist home, and you are a racist girl. if you cant bring home a black man, because your dad would flip, and you would too, then you are a racist. youre sooo scared of the
"stereotype" that is black men...that you cant even handle anyone but your watered down black friends. Let Me guess, they dress, walk, talk and act like you? Mmhmm. Watered down black people. My guess is, if you had to choose between turning in one of those black friends for something they didnt do, or taking the blame, youd turn on them in a heartbeat.. why?? Becaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaause * sings* youre a racist, racist racist...racist!* But know what?? Thats fine, cuz while youre busy being scared of blacks, Im stealin all your squirrel...... Thats right.. I said it! IM STEALING ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL THE SQUI-RELLLLL~!!!
LOL[:D] Goddess I love this post.




hisannabelle -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:54:56 PM)

greetings madamemajidah,

your belief that geeky is a racist doesn't make your insinuations about her enjoying being sexually harrassed and degraded any less disgusting.

annabelle.




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:57:47 PM)

Ohh Im not insinuating that she enjoys that. Noone should have to put up with that. I certainly wouldnt. I am objecting to the fact that she only talks about "black men" who are horrid people..... There are plenty of horrid people in every race. My point is, she is making blatantly racist comments... thats not acceptable. What I am saying, is that she needs to find herself a good strong black man and have a  hay day in the bed.... that should shake those "nasty moments with black men" out of her head.




fairerthanshe -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 1:58:49 PM)

Greetings onyx,

Contrasting skintones...hmmm, bet that would look good in a ...photo shoot!!!

Make it happen sweetcheeks - you know you want it!

well wishes,

fairer than she

(removing all things purple from her wardrobe...smooches, Master Ron)




GeekyGirl -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:38:13 PM)

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Oh SHHHH.. We all know you secretly crave the black cock... ohh sure youre racist self is HORRIFIED to even think that you could possibly want, desire, dare I say even CRAVE it... because lets face it you grew up in a racist home, and you are a racist girl. if you cant bring home a black man, because your dad would flip, and you would too, then you are a racist. youre sooo scared of the
"stereotype" that is black men...that you cant even handle anyone but your watered down black friends. Let Me guess, they dress, walk, talk and act like you? Mmhmm. Watered down black people. My guess is, if you had to choose between turning in one of those black friends for something they didnt do, or taking the blame, youd turn on them in a heartbeat.. why?? Becaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaause * sings* youre a racist, racist racist...racist!* But know what?? Thats fine, cuz while youre busy being scared of blacks, Im stealin all your squirrel...... Thats right.. I said it! IM STEALING ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL THE SQUI-RELLLLL~!!!
LOL Goddess I love this post.



. Like I said, YOUR opinion of whether I'm a racist doesn't count.The only opinions that matter to me are those of my black friends. You're just a name over a computer screen. Just because my family is racist, I am too? Since when? My family is athiest too, does that make ME and athiest? My family doesn't want me dating black men and I respect their wishes. They also don't want me dating men over 40 or men who don't have jobs and I respect those wishes too.I believing in respecting ones parents *regardless of whether they deserve it or not*. As for sex with black men, I have no particular aversion to the act. I'd do Will Smith or Denzel Washington in a heartbeat, you better know it! I just haven't met many black men in real life whom I'm overly attracted to.

If I met a good black man whom I had things in common with *after my parents are dead* I would definately give him a chance.

Ebony magazine did an article awhile back (written by a black woman). It was all about how hard it is to find a good young black man because most of them are "playas" and jerks. No one found that article racist. Guess it's ok to say that kind of thing if you're a black woman.

The only other  thing I've got to say is that I didn't realize there were "watered down black people." Sounds like you're saying that black people have to act,talk, dress, a certain way or they aren't REAL black people.

Hmm...who's giving in to stereotypes here? I thought ALL black people were equally black regardless of how they talk or dress or act. My black friends have a good job in law enforcement. They come from good families. They are intelligent and educated. They do NOT dress like someone in a rap video. They speak proper english and come from middle class backgrounds. Are you trying to imply that these traits make them "less black" or that black people should not exemplify those characteristics? Wow, what a racist comment! I thought people were people and all had the same right to be decent human beings regardless of their color. I didn't realize black folks were supposed to act a certain way. Thanks for enlightening me. I'll have to tell Sue, Christy, and Rochelle that they simply aren't black enough but that's ok, cause I love them anyway!

As for taking the blame, I wouldn't take the blame for my white friends, my black friends, my hispanic friends OR my asian friends. I don't believe in dishonesty or lying. If you do something wrong, be an adult and fess up to it. I wouldn't associate with the kind of people I have to cover for. My friends are good, honest, decent people who don't do things they'd have to be ashamed of.




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:40:41 PM)

I am officially ashamed to call you a dork. You Sir..are a MOCKERY!




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:44:19 PM)

Ok kids, enough.

XI




GeekyGirl -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:44:32 PM)

Whatever...I've been around here long enough that folks know I"m a decent person and I just tell it like I see it. Sometimes I accidently offend because I'm not too good with words, but hell it happens.

But I'm ending this arguement because based on your comment about watered down blacks, you are obviously a racist who believes that black people have to fit a certain stereotype or they aren't real blacks.

See I don't CHOOSE to associate with racist people because they anger me. I may not be able to choose my family, but I CAN choose my friends and I choose to associate with a more enlightened type of person than you.




GeekyGirl -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:45:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

Ok kids, enough.

XI


Sorry Mod, I made my post before I saw this.

*bows out*




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 3:48:02 PM)

Goddess.... I AM a watered down black person. What part of that dont you get? And proud of it. im proud I dont speak ebonics, or wear saggy pants and go around calling people the N word. Whats wrong with that??? And Im not even arguing, Im just saying.... there are many different types of blacks..to be racist against one stereotype is just as bad as any other.




littleonyx -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 4:08:49 PM)

Um...Ms. Moderator?  Does that mean that we can't post anmore on this thread?  Or does it just mean to stop the "Tag, you're it" game?

Seriously wondering,

little onyx




MadameMajidah -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 4:12:07 PM)

It means that we arent allowed to play tag youre it anymore, and that this post is officially back to being about responsible comments.




velvetears -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 4:24:07 PM)

Having lived through the riots of the 60's and witnessing first hand with my own eyes, being caught in the mayhem and terrified for my life i can attest to racism in the north. The racism i saw was hate filled, violent and out of control. It's a different animal here - not just a bunch of ignorant rednecks at a BBQ making stupid comments about things they will never  have the courage to actually go out and do unless they outnumber a poor victim they happen upon a lonely isolated area. 

To say we don't have those issues here is just not true.  There are neighborhoods even today, Italian sections in the Bronx (i am not bashing Italians, i have Italian relatives), that if a black person happens to venture into, alone, may get their head bashed in.  It actually happened and the poor black man who was running from them ran out into a parkway and was run over and killed.  This wasn't that long ago.  NY and probably many other "northern cities" are very racially and ethnically diverse. You can have a 3 block neighborhood of one culture next to another 3 block neighborhood of a totally different culture - Irish, German, Italian, Jewish, Russian, Hatian, Cambodian, Jamaican, Mexican, just to name a very few.  And people understand what neighborhoods mean, many times danger if you're not the right ethnic group or color.  Why do you think gangs form and kill each other??   i knew people, a prominent business owner, who lived in Westchester, one of the richest counties in the country who told me it's just a secret sort of code that when you sell your home - you don't sell to blacks, it's illegal but there are ways to get around this sort of thing.  i don't like it, but thats the way things are here.  i have read more then one report about crosses being burned on peoples lawns.  One of the largest congregations of KKK is right in Danbury CT from what i have been told.  i have seen "skin heads" in my local HS.  You can read a lot about HS tensions surrounding racism.  Cops in NYC have been accused numerous times of using unecessary force and killing innocent black people, underlying racism within the police force.  It's alive and thriving up here.  But thankfully the good outweigh the bad and for the most part people embrace the differences more and more and to see interacial couples is pretty common.  Racism isn't just white vs black either - There is even racism within the black culture against other blacks having to do with skin tone - being lighter or blacker as well as jamaican vs hatian vs american born blacks - they fight against each other.  Big problems as well with koreans and blacks in NYC fighting for territory in sections of the city that were at one time predominantly black.  The list goes on and on. 

One other comment i want to make is to whoever said all white women secretly crave black men because of some sexual myth that they are bigger or better in bed - You sound like you should be in a gossipy high school bathroom, talking with your immature friends. Grow up.  Most mature. well rounded, intelligent people date and love the man not his cock. 




littleonyx -> RE: Black Doms (4/5/2007 4:26:44 PM)

Oh, okie dokie.  So back to the OP.  I think.

I've looked through a couple of profiles in my time here on the boards, and I haven't really seen a specific request for either white doms, or black doms.  Or hispanic doms, or asian doms, or whatever.  I have, however, seen specific requests for the subs and slaves.  And I figure that it's just preference.

So then my question is this: For those that are black doms, or white doms, or whatever...and like to see the contrast in the skin, my question is simply, "Why?"  For some reason, and I could be a total idiot for saying this (if I am, please don't agree--just laugh at me silently, thanks), but...is it like playing hide and go seek, or peekaboo?

Wondering if her question should have even been asked,

little onyx

(P.S.--I apologize, Ms. Moderator, if this wasn't quite what you had in mind.  I was just trying to start a fresh view on something.  Did I mention how fabulous you look today? *smiles*)




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