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RE: Trust - 4/4/2007 7:41:03 AM

littleone35

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Irish Mist was that to me? They were not people on the internet, they were people i had played with in real life. I don't do cyber.

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RE: Trust - 4/4/2007 10:29:29 AM

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If they say "don't tell" - I would ask them to put that shoe on the other foot.

Would you want your sub - to do this, or are you really looking for a poly lifestyle.

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RE: Trust - 4/4/2007 11:22:44 AM

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Poly means every one in the group is open and honest with each other. not telling is cheating, it's not poly

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RE: Trust - 4/4/2007 2:37:12 PM

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I stand by agreements whatever they might be. And my own sense of integrity. So we have an agreement that I cannot play with a dom until Daddy signs off. What that tends to me is that I tell him when I first begin to talk to another guy. So he knows what is going on. To get his buy-in. To ensure this goes as smoothly as humanly possible. It is my own sense of self and how I waat to live my life, who I wnat to be in this life, that guide my actions.

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RE: Trust - 4/4/2007 2:50:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I need to ask this question. Let me give you some background first. Between the death of my late Master and the time i met my wonderful Master i had several play partners.

Some of them still call me and Master does not share. They want to get with me and when i tell them no i have a Master the say don't tell him. I would tell him though, Master trusts me and i would not risk his trust or love for a fling. He is all i want or need.

My question is for slaves/subs that are not shared. Do you have problems like this? Does the trust between you and your Master prevent you from playing? my morals and respect for myself and the One i am with does not prevent me it, it is never questioned....love yourself and be able to love. although right now i am not owned/collared.

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RE: Trust - 4/5/2007 5:25:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Irish Mist was that to me? They were not people on the internet, they were people i had played with in real life. I don't do cyber.

Matt's littleone

sorry , I mistook the meaning of your thread...I thought you were referring to those who were emailing or chatting with you online

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RE: Trust - 4/5/2007 7:43:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I need to ask this question. Let me give you some background first. Between the death of my late Master and the time i met my wonderful Master i had several play partners.

Some of them still call me and Master does not share. They want to get with me and when i tell them no i have a Master the say don't tell him. I would tell him though, Master trusts me and i would not risk his trust or love for a fling. He is all i want or need.

My question is for slaves/subs that are not shared. Do you have problems like this? Does the trust between you and your Master prevent you from playing?

Matt's littleone

My Dom and i have a very trusting relationship where, so far knock on wood, there are no trusting issues about me going off with another Dom. Also because i know of the consenquence if i do. i have also asked my Dom if he would share me with another Dom, out of curiosity more than anything else, he said no.

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