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RE: Dom/mes need safety too! - 4/5/2007 3:26:44 PM

DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

I don't feel any less safe meeting someone from our 'lifestyle' than meeting anyone else.
I have managed to extract myself from a potential rape situation twice in my life and they were long term friends.
Of course we Dom/mes get it wrong sometimes.
That's the risk we all take.
I believe I have to take risks in life to find what I am seeking.
But the emotional risk is far more of concern to me than the physical one.
I

When you end up with someone stalking you after a meeting that did not go well.
Then let me know how safe you feel.

Diane

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RE: Dom/mes need safety too! - 4/5/2007 3:33:53 PM

Mercnbeth

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The day I start worrying about my physical safety is the day I hang up my spurs. I have met naked women in hotel rooms, I have met them at their house, I have met them AND their husbands in my house, I have given out my address, my phone number and whatever else.

For some, it is something to be concerned about and goody for them but for me, I am too busy enjoying myself and them to worry about it.

DITTO!

PS -
Mike - Good luck Sunday with your "Grand Opening" at Lady Thorn/Fandango in SF.

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RE: Dom/mes need safety too! - 4/12/2007 11:10:19 PM

RowanJ

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You are certainly not the only one who thinks this. Though I am a sub, I have also trained in various parts of the world as a martial artist for fourteen years. And I know I'm not the only one like me. Someone before me mentioned military subs. Everyone has to be safe. Period.

~Rowan

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