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Finding little things - 4/5/2007 4:52:30 AM   
sydneypig


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Status: offline 		I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.
Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-)
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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 5:44:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sydneypig

I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.
Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-)


I've encountered this on a few occassions .  I don't think it should be posted in a profile, but it should be mentioned during the early stages of discussions so IF it's an issue, it can dealt with early on. I tend to judge a man on his OverAll Size not just the penis ... only once  I felt pity or disappointment ... and that was when I discovered the man's mind and attitude was smaller than his penis. 
 
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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 7:11:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sydneypig

I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.
Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-)

LOL you must have met my Ex husband.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 7:16:51 AM   
Solaise


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Status: offline 		Only a big deal when sizing for weenie toys.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 11:54:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Honestly, we've dismissed guys for having small penises before ... not, mind you, because of the size, but because that was all that they could talk about ... *rolls eyes* it was always about them and their little tiny dick - not about submission. 

Size doesn't really matter to us, overall - it can always be compensated for.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 12:00:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sydneypig

I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.
Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-)


sydneypig, are you into small-penis humiliation?

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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 1:01:27 PM   
MstrssPassion


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ORIGINAL: sydneypig
<snip>Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory?


NO... I don't think anyone, for any reason, is REQUIRED to place any info on their personal profile that they do not wish to share it in the first place.

If specifics are required by you in order to have interest or to ensure that you will have interst before you spend time on someone that would not meet your expectations... then you are required to ask this. (or make the specific criteria known within your own profile)


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RE: Finding little things - 4/5/2007 1:04:23 PM   
MstrssPassion


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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Honestly, we've dismissed guys for having small penises before ... not, mind you, because of the size, but because that was all that they could talk about ... *rolls eyes* it was always about them and their little tiny dick - not about submission. 


I totally hear you... & they say the sissy has the "all about them attitude"... they obviously haven't dealt with these guys going on & on about their tiny appendages.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 12:11:40 AM   
sydneypig


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone for your input.Although i was hoping to compare comments with another site ( measurection )and   (womens and extra small) forums.One example i found from a female who encounted a very small size stated she enjoyed the experience because she believed the male was vulnerable.Am i right to assume that this is a dominant trait?Any Dommes identify with this comment?

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 6:15:53 AM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		Based on your profile, and your comments here, it appears you are very interested in small cock humiliation.  For many dominant women, the size of a cock is irreleveant.  I don't care either way, they make chastity devices of all sizes.  If I desire to humiliate a penis, I can do so whether it's huge or tiny.

However, I do like to know up front if a male is going to to be one who is seeking nothing more than to fulfill his own  kinky desires (like having his small penis degraded by his Mistress), as this type of male is likely not what I seek in a partner.  Putting inches on a profile would be an easy elimination clue.




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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 6:22:09 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		OMG!!!!! only 4"?

I do not have sex with my subs so, penis size means nothing to me.


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< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 4/14/2007 6:25:22 AM >

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 6:42:05 AM   
sydneypig


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your comment.I am well aware that size is not the be all and end all of a relationship,just like every other topic in this forum.I totally agree that if you were searching for a partner who had only one self-interest that they would not be suitable.Cheers.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 6:59:19 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

OMG!!!!! only 4"?

I do not have sex with my subs so, penis size means nothing to me.


Diane



lol you're too much. I with you on this. I really could care less. If I want to get fucked its going to be something really BIG or the fist of a handsome butch. 

This guy I was watching once on cam (paid nite flirt call- I don't get off watching guys on cam for free) his penis was hard and still mini. I'm thinking that must be the worse thing that could happen to a man to have such a little dick. lol- how does a man with such a small penis conceive a child??? a turkey baster?

4 inches was big compared to this little dick.


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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 7:17:23 AM   
MissyRane


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but ahem yes from my point of view I think it's lame stating i got 2 inch dick on a profile..but yes button sizes don't really appeal to me so I would like to know if that was the deal before the dude took his pants off, personally I really want to be able to keep a straight face if I'm gonna fuck..

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 7:56:24 AM   
MistressLorelei


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If I am going to be potentially involved sexually (i.e. intercourse) with a male, like in the vanilla world, I would want that to be addressed as I get to know a person.  I am not looking to meet a penis, but a human being. 

As far as intercourse goes, sure size can make a difference, but I can't imagine meeting someone in public, chatting a bit, establishing an attraction, and as he hands me his phone number, tells me he has a 4 inch penis.   While it might be amusing once, I would certainly question his common sense.  I think this lifestyle can desensitize people a bit from expecting human decency in others, and perhaps in having enough of it themselves.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 7:56:53 AM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: sydneypig
I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.

Yes, though it was before I was a Domme.

quote:

Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?

I was curious, but the guy was self conscious so I kept it to myself and simply continued what we were doing. I would have liked to have a chance to talk to him later, but this was a wild and crazy college experience and I rarely spoke to the man after that. When I did, he generally blushed as I was one of his only sexual experiences.

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and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?

Erm...yeah. Ok so that was "when it was his turn to fuck me" - a boyfriend and I ended up having a lovely 4some with 2 of his good friends. :)

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Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-

Nope. I don't fuck my males subs and the things I DO do with their cocks I can do regardless of length. However, I think a sub should make it clear if little dick humiliation is one of his fetishes early on in the contact with a Domme.

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 8:55:40 AM   
TigressFL


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Status: offline 		 A non-sexual relationship, sure I would have no issues with it. When it comes to a long-term "monogamous" relationship, a tiny cock would not work for me. I would have to be poly or something.   Tigress~FL

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 2:57:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		while i understand your point about advertising a very small penis as perhaps a lack of common sense, i'd imagine someone with that problem would rather find out early than get to the point of intimacy and then be rejected

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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 5:02:42 PM   
MistressLorelei


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ORIGINAL: sting516

while i understand your point about advertising a very small penis as perhaps a lack of common sense, i'd imagine someone with that problem would rather find out early than get to the point of intimacy and then be rejected


Yes, I suppose, but there are so many variables in which a person might be rejected for later and they can not all be worn on his sleeve.  Otherwise, many males would have to say "Hi, I'm John.  I'm a jerk with an IQ of 85; I have no job, no goals, I'm a tad psychotic, and all I want is to go to bed with (or be dominated by) the first woman who will have me".  In that case, a small penis  might be his most desirable attribute.



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RE: Finding little things - 4/14/2007 6:51:43 PM   
HutchGarahl


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ORIGINAL: sydneypig
I  was wondering if any Dommes had encountered a male with a very small penis.
Small is defined as 4 inches in length or below.My question is related to the  emotion felt,example disappointment,anger, amused,joy or pity, etc. and was the emotion expressed?and at what period of  the encounter/relationship?Do you think that subs should state their size (amongst other things) in their profile if they fall into this catagory? Thank you in advance for your response:-)


Hmm...4 was big compared to what I married, even when he was hard. Size doesn't really matter, but wish I hadda known before we married though...least I would have been prepared. Couldn't help but to laugh a bit. Course he felt bad...but what he lacked in his size...he most definately made up in other ways.

A gentleman I was talking with a couple months ago who was vying for my ownership was upfront about his Little one. As I told him...that can be worked around providing everything I asked for was done. I can always bring in another to please me in that sense.

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