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slavekal -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/7/2007 3:11:48 PM)
I won't do it. I will not be rude to a male dom, but I have no motivation or inclination to submit to him in any way. I would treat him the same as I would any man.

Dancingzira -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/7/2007 4:48:19 PM)
personally, I'm very bi-sexual, but I'd much rather top a female, than be topped by a female. There are, of course several exceptions to my bendy little rule. I've had friends who would bottom for same sex partners, but it would not involve sex. Some of us are just sensation players, and it doesn't matter who is invoking the sensations upon us. Some of us are very strictly heterosexual in that we can't even swallow the thought of being topped by same sex, even without sex involved. it takes all kinds.

iwearpanties -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/8/2007 8:55:32 AM)
i agree too this subbing too same sex even with being sexual is a great turn on i think for all both male and female

aidan -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/8/2007 12:31:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavekal I won't do it. I will not be rude to a male dom, but I have no motivation or inclination to submit to him in any way. I would treat him the same as I would any man. Word-for-word what I was going to say. For me, D/s has an inherantly sexual energy, even if it's not necessarily about sex. The two are just tied together. I could serve drinks at a party or something similar at the order of a Lady I was under, but nothing more and not of my own volition.

brightspot -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/8/2007 12:37:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sublizzie On one of the threads I was reading there was a mention that someone who submitted to a Dominant who was the same gender meant the submissive was bi-sexual. Sexually I am very heterosexual. To be sexual with a woman is not something I can do. But I will submit to a female Dominant in non-sexual ways and enjoy the experience. I thought it might be interesting to explore how other people dealt with this. What are some of your thoughts? My thoughts; Well I am a submissive lesbian so I wouldn't have it any other way[;)]. *I could never* be submissive to a male though. All my relationships with men are with men that are easily submissive to me or men that are content with being on a equal level based on mutual respect. None of this makes me Bi. Missy. P.S. What the heck is "very hetrosexual"[sm=confused.gif], to me it says slightly homophobic.**

sublizzie -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/8/2007 10:57:31 PM)
Missy, I apologize. I didn't mean to infer that I was in the least homophobic. There are lesbians, bi-sexuals, and gays who would affirm that I'm not prejudiced about them in the least. My "very heterosexual" is just that I am not in the least sexually attracted to other women. If we meet at a local munch or party sometime I'll explain in more detail if you wish. I've got a very funny story about that particular topic that is not appropriate for the entire web.

littleone35 -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/9/2007 3:00:44 PM)
I could not do it i am hetro and to me (maybe not everyone) serving includes sexually serving and since i am not interested in women that way i could not serve a Domme. Matt's littleone

brightspot -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/10/2007 12:31:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sublizzie Missy, I apologize. I didn't mean to infer that I was in the least homophobic. There are lesbians, bi-sexuals, and gays who would affirm that I'm not prejudiced about them in the least. My "very heterosexual" is just that I am not in the least sexually attracted to other women. If we meet at a local munch or party sometime I'll explain in more detail if you wish. I've got a very funny story about that particular topic that is not appropriate for the entire web. No offence taken....just wondered your thoughts on the expression[;)]. Missy.

peterK50 -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/10/2007 12:49:22 PM)
I have served Masters, I never thought of myself as bi-sexual, just submissive.

Archer -> RE: submitting to same gender Dom/mes too (4/10/2007 3:44:29 PM)
Currently have in service to me a bi sexual slave and a lesbian boi, under the idea that it would make a Dominant bi to have someone in service to them of the same gender what would that mean in my case is my boi no longer a lesbian because she is in service to a hetero male? LOL Besides I have at various times have short terms of service from gay men, bi men, straight men, lesbians, bi women and straight women. The plumbing of the people has little influence on my own expressions of D/s relationships.

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