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Floggings4You -> RE: Does Being a Master mean you're also a Sadist? (4/29/2007 7:36:41 PM)
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I continue to wonder at the use of the word 'Master'. It's not a title I would ever feel comfortable using to describe Myself. I request that My current sub call me 'Sir', along with any subs with whom I come into contact, IRL or on-line.
But, I feel 'Master' is a title that should be bestowed by One's subs, or other Doms, not by one's own self.
As for sadist, I have had a hard time explaining to people that I'm respectful of limits, and fully adhere to (at least) the 'consensual' part of s/s/c--
--yet, I can be as sadistic as necessary, while always at the same time maintaining my sub's/play partner's comfort. There are some rather sadistic things I really enjoy doing (I love leaving marks on a lady's ass with a cane, for example) but I only enjoy doing them if either 1) the acts themselves, or 2) the fact that doing them brings Me pleasure, are turn-ons for the lady, too.
If she's not into it for at least one of the above reasons, then it's not consensual, and I'm not going to enjoy it, either.
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