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Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 9:22:01 AM   
shedreamz


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Status: offline 		I am going to spend some quality time with a Master who loves being spoiled by a slave.  I've already had a few nice ideas on how to "spoil" him -- like picking him up at the aiport in a limo, and having some amazing body wash to bathe him with, and also this incredible shaving kit -- clearly I need no help with the sexual ways to spoil a man... I think I have a good idea of what he likes there... but I am wondering if anyone has any other ideas or any stories of things subs did for you that made you feel spoiled?  Thanks!
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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 9:26:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's pretty personalized unfortunately.  My ways of spoiling my partners would be boring as hell to others.

Frankly since he isn't even YOUR master yet, I'd take it slow and easy.  If things work out there's plenty of time to wow with the spoiling later.

For now just bring a dozen roses and some truffles.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 9:26:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: shedreamz

I am going to spend some quality time with a Master who loves being spoiled by a slave.  I've already had a few nice ideas on how to "spoil" him -- like picking him up at the aiport in a limo, and having some amazing body wash to bathe him with, and also this incredible shaving kit -- clearly I need no help with the sexual ways to spoil a man... I think I have a good idea of what he likes there... but I am wondering if anyone has any other ideas or any stories of things subs did for you that made you feel spoiled?  Thanks!


There's some general things I think that I do that can help my owner feel spoiled (he's jokingly said I've spoiled him for any other woman/slave).  Home made meals, a relaxed environment, and attention to the details.  By details I mean not just the home made meals but specifically foods that he likes, the drinks that he likes, the body wash he likes.. those kind of details can make the difference.

C~

Edited to add: if he isn't your master yet, then I agree with LA I'd focus more on getting to know each other.


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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 9:27:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just having stuff 'ready to go'... showing him you've thought carefully, planned and prepared for as much as you can think of, without him having to give you a great long 'To Do' list.

I dunno about anyone else, but being the top sometimes feels like hard work... and having it all handed to me on a plate like that, gives me the chance to just lie back and enjoy.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 9:47:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		What else is the Master for except to be obeyed,spoiled and pampered?Diane and the girls have spoiled me beyond the need and I still tell then not near enought I need more....A spoiled ol" master..bounty

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 11:52:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Have you bothered to ask HIM what spoiling means? He might not like being shaved by someone else...or put in a bubblebath, etc. Ask.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 12:28:59 PM   
shedreamz


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Status: offline 		Thanks C -- those are great ideas.  I think you are right about the details.  That always makes me feel special. 

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 12:30:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Brutal! Honestly I had never even thought of that.  It must be nice to have everything just taken care of for you -- everything pre-thought out so you can just relax and take over.  Appreciate it! 

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 12:34:03 PM   
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Have you bothered to ask HIM what spoiling means? He might not like being shaved by someone else...or put in a bubblebath, etc. Ask.

Master Fire




Yes, I have.  Those are things (the shave kit & the body wash) I got because they were things he expressed an interest in.  And he is definitely very excited about those things.  They are things he enjoys and loves and has now spent awhile looking forward to.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 12:40:27 PM   
shedreamz


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Status: offline 		Hi Lucky --

Thanks for trying to help.  But just to be clear -- I'm not proposing here "saying hi to someone" and giving them a bath!  So sorry that you misunderstood. 

I'm meeting him at the airport because he's in the Navy. 

I'm asking for ideas on how women or men spoil their owners.  And I am aboslutely prepared to go through the list of ideas people have, based on the man I know and the woman I know myself to be, to select the ones most appropriate for us, and to do the ones that would work, in the timing that would work for us.

So truffles no.  He's a health nut. 

Roses, no.  He'd think that was kinda goofy.   

But it really has been hard for me to think this up on my own because previous to this -- well, I didn't want to spoil anyone I was with like this!!

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 1:33:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree Bounty Sir.  Masters should be spoiled in every way we slaves can think of. :)


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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 1:37:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		shedreamz,   Would he like a full foot massage.. his feet soaked, washed, exfoliated, rubbed with mint lotion( so they tingle) then a good massage.  I know Master does. :)
  I get little things i know Master likes, like his favorite kind of chocolate, or coffee or herbal tea. Things like that.


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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 2:07:13 PM   
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shedreamz,   Would he like a full foot massage.. his feet soaked, washed, exfoliated, rubbed with mint lotion( so they tingle) then a good massage.  I know Master does. :)
I get little things i know Master likes, like his favorite kind of chocolate, or coffee or herbal tea. Things like that.




I had forgotten that massage idea.  He mentioned once that he loves massages.  And  a foot massage is something I can definitely do!!

And I like the idea of having all his favorites on hand.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 2:26:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		my idea of spoiling is bringing me a beer then giving me a blowjob while i watch a hockey game on espn. but hey. thats me

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 2:42:15 PM   
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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/7/2007 3:30:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Myabe these suggestions will be a bit prosaic but here goes...have his favorite music on hand, his favorite movie that he has anticipated wanting to see,you as pretty as a picture in an outfit that he prefers,soft materials on hand..like a fur throw,you in satin,a chenille covering etc..feeding him by hand,maybe you dancing as he watches,reading a book he is interested in out loud to him,reading up on a subject that he is highly interested in so that you can have an interesting discourse about it......have fun!..Tempting

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/8/2007 2:43:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Myabe these suggestions will be a bit prosaic but here goes...have his favorite music on hand, his favorite movie that he has anticipated wanting to see,you as pretty as a picture in an outfit that he prefers,soft materials on hand..like a fur throw,you in satin,a chenille covering etc..feeding him by hand,maybe you dancing as he watches,reading a book he is interested in out loud to him,reading up on a subject that he is highly interested in so that you can have an interesting discourse about it......have fun!..Tempting


All are very good ideas. My former slave knows how much music is a part of life so one of the things she first spoiled me with was a thirty gigabyte iPod which I still use to this day and has etched into the back of it "girl loves You my Master, nalani" Bet the fellas at Apple had a trip engraving that

I also collect swords and she surprised me with a Roman Gladius as well.

It really falls on finding out what he likes and going from there. Doesn't work to buy a man  body wash when he hates loofa's (or whatever those things are called now)


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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/8/2007 5:50:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks Creative!  It definitely reminds me that sometimes it's the simple things.  He's been away awhile and he keeps telling me how incredibly good I am to him because I send him hot emails! Laughing.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/8/2007 5:52:45 AM   
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Sharing the most open heart possible, with the greatest intimacy. Giving unconditionally, with honesty and integrity, without expectation and attachment. Form does not make substance.


That is a good thing to remember.  And it all made sense to me except one part -- giving unconditionally without attachment... what does that mean?  I've never heard that phrase before.

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RE: Spoiling a Master - 4/8/2007 5:53:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Myabe these suggestions will be a bit prosaic but here goes...have his favorite music on hand, his favorite movie that he has anticipated wanting to see,you as pretty as a picture in an outfit that he prefers,soft materials on hand..like a fur throw,you in satin,a chenille covering etc..feeding him by hand,maybe you dancing as he watches,reading a book he is interested in out loud to him,reading up on a subject that he is highly interested in so that you can have an interesting discourse about it......have fun!..Tempting



These are wonderful ideas -- really sensual and also very tender!  Thanks. 

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