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LadyAngelika -> RE: male subs wanting female subs to top them. (4/26/2005 4:48:13 AM)
quote: Why do male submissives ask female submissives to top them? Hmm... probably the same reason male Doms ask Female Dominas to bottom for them. I actually get more male Doms wanting to bottom to me then I get wanting to top me. - LA

LadyAngelika -> RE: male subs wanting female subs to top them. (4/26/2005 4:57:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 On topic comment: ... Part of it might very well be the added humiliation. This has come up a few times in this thread and I never considered it until now. But I can see how it can make sense. My ex-sub was often approached by mail subs but I just figured it's because she was socially dominant and sharp as a whip and had many of the qualities that a submissive man or woman would look for in a Domme... except that she didn't like being in control! quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 Off topic comment: ... I personally think most people should get their hair re-styled every 5 years at least to keep up with their own appearance and styles overall. It's very unattractive to me to see someone with hair to their waist but have the last 4 inches be nothing but a frizzy uneven split-ended mess. Not that people have to change their looks to suit me...I just think hair maintenence should be as important as clothes maintenence. Every 5 years? My gosh. I get a half inch trimmed off every 8 weeks. - LA

glassdoll -> RE: male subs wanting female subs to top them. (4/26/2005 5:11:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: nella Why do male submissives pester female submissives asking them to be a Dominant for them? What is realy the point in that, now if you look at my post on this board i have the often quite unpolular wiew that a submissive need not be a domestic servant and only think aboute his or her Dominant to be a sub, but even i think this is strange, this must be the one most blatant example of not caring aboute submitting just kinky sex i know of. What would a submissive woman get out of being a Dominant. Yet theese men do not seam to care, they continue to pester female submissives, i have only been asked this once, probably becouse i am not pretty, but i know of others that get tons of requests like this every day. Personaly i think it is rude. To ask a submissive woman if she would Top you is like asking a person to change their sexual orientation. It is uncosiderate. Oh well, just me coming whit an rant here. i am sorry for taking up forum space and your time. what would she get out of it? an exchange of power and experience.

darkinshadows -> RE: male subs wanting female subs to top them. (4/26/2005 5:20:33 PM)
But why? The only reason she would do that, unless she was exploring a switch side herself, would be for her Master. Submissives do not have to learn to be dominant over someone to exchange power, if the power exchange is not what they want? Why would a submissive submit to something she has no interest in? Peace and Love

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