mp072004 -> RE: Domme/male sub.. more extreme lifestyle? (4/23/2007 6:20:54 PM)
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The bottoms I've played with who fall on the "heavy" side of "moderate" when it comes to masochism are all women. They are all, obviously, women who play with women, because they play with me. I enjoy hurting people. I'm a woman, and I play with women and men. I enjoy sensations that involve light SM or have focuses other than SM--especially bondage or mental play. I don't think that submissive men need or want stronger expressions of _sadomasochism_ than submissive women do. I do think that more submissive men want more overt expressions of _dominance_, and some consider those expressions a prerequisite for their bottoming in SM scenes. More women seem to be better attuned to or more desirous of subtle expressions of dominance, and some enjoy heavy SM, with the top running the scene (thus, some element of inequal power), but without d/s patter or manhandling. Monica
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