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Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 8:49:06 AM

Rose4Mistress

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I often hear the phrase "brat" in reference to a sub, usually myself, for not complying with a specific Dom/mes online wishes.
But if a Dominant tells you to do something online (in my case, perform a cam show to prove i am real), and I have no real interest in them and tell them so, and they start responding with comments like "oh, you must be a man." "turn on that cam."
I tell them no thank you, I am not interested, but they persist. To me, this persistance and badgering is a mark of a bratty Dominant.
Have any of you run across this sort of behavior, and do you find it acceptable?

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 8:59:22 AM

hisannabelle

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yes, i have run across this sort of behavior; i usually just ignore them.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:06:37 AM

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Yes I have definately run across it and no it's not acceptable. They just get to pretend it is because they are the almighty master so their word always goes and is always correct.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:10:42 AM

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But a spoiled princess dom can be more than fine :)

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:14:31 AM

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But a spoiled princess dom can be more than fine :)

Great... now I've got to head off to art class picturing a dominatrix dressed in large amounts of pink sparkly tulle and a flogger that looks like a fairy princess wand. Question of the day: Can you be intimidating while wearing large pixie wings?

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:32:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
Great... now I've got to head off to art class picturing a dominatrix dressed in large amounts of pink sparkly tulle and a flogger that looks like a fairy princess wand. Question of the day: Can you be intimidating while wearing large pixie wings?

Not just yeah, but hell yeah. I've even got pictures :)

Granted, the pink satin platform boots help.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:35:25 AM

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haha now THAT is hot

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:39:39 AM

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Hehehehe. I LOVE this term. I have encountered meany bratty Dom's.

Most people who demand to have your cam turned on (with out knowing that person before hand) aren't worth a pile of snot in the lifestyle. Granted, it's hard to tell if anyone is who they claim to be online but I suppose people will just have to trust other people until they're proven wrong.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:50:28 AM

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why do you think I never bought a cam

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 9:51:00 AM

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Yes I have had many brats ask Me the same...

Many so called doms haven't a clue and need some reassurance as to their fragile ego...

No still means no in My book but I tell them to substitute the word "pizza" instead.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 10:09:03 AM

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To me, this isn't being a brat. This is simply exhibiting inappropriate behavior that crosses emotional boundaries. I've been called a brat. I simply stuck my tongue out at them.

Thhhhppppt!

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 11:28:35 AM

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That's not a brat, that's a horny net geek.

I know a self proclaimed brat dom. He and his sub, who is also bratty, have been together for years. They miss no chance to score witticisms off each other, even in fora posts. And their affection and enjoyment of the game is fun to see.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 11:34:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rose4Mistress

haha now THAT is hot

Having been spanked with a sparkly fairy princess wand, I assure you -- it is indeed intimidating.

ow. ow. OW DAMMIT.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 11:37:09 AM

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I agree. That is just adorably hot.

As for "bratty Dommes". Yes, I've met a few. I tried being polite. Then I just laughed and made confusing nerdy jokes until they left. Fun times for all. :)

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:05:40 PM

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Yes, the "cam-thing" is a common problem, and I assume they would call me bratty as I tell them they should taste the cane.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:07:37 PM

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About the cam...you could ask if they have one...you know...to prove they're real. *chuckle*

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:17:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

About the cam...you could ask if they have one...you know...to prove they're real. *chuckle*

Master Fire

The bad thing is, they are usually more than ready to flip their own cam on, because what they were after from the beginning was a webcam wanking session.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:38:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nyrisa

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

About the cam...you could ask if they have one...you know...to prove they're real. *chuckle*

Master Fire

The bad thing is, they are usually more than ready to flip their own cam on, because what they were after from the beginning was a webcam wanking session.

Yes, but all you want to know is if they are real. Once they verify they are (i.e. turn on the cam), you say, "Thanks! Bye!"

Although, it the end, this doesn't really solve anything.

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:44:41 PM

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Ah, but they may be real....but are they twue?

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RE: Brat Dom/mes? - 4/10/2007 12:45:38 PM

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Personally I don't care. their behavior don't affect me and just prooves to me their not the one I'd want anyway.

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ORIGINAL: Rose4Mistress

To me, this persistance and badgering is a mark of a bratty Dominant.
Have any of you run across this sort of behavior, and do you find it acceptable?

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