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RE: Trawling - 4/12/2007 6:38:48 PM

CandleInTheWind

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I average 10-15 emails in a day usually they are 2-3 HNG making commnest about how i should be on my knees and nekkid waiting for them with my mouth open...as if....LOL sharpening teeth everyday ya know just in case i should decide to go along with one of those demands

5 from local submissive ladies that have read a post of somepart of my profile or journal has caught their attention
the remainder usually from Dominant men who are courteous and flirtacious offering me all sorts of goodies....as if i would actually fall for that stuff....thank goodness i am no longer recieving the hate monger emails i had been recieving.

as far as viewing i just discovered that feature and i was amazed at how many people view me I believe it is because Im a short submissive girl in my location. not that I am anythign spectacular simply i meet a search parameter. It isnt the quantity.....it is the quality. I would truly love to trade all of this attention for the ONE that I could mesh with body mind and soul...I know it is possible i had it once...so if lightening can and does strike twice why not something good??

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RE: Trawling - 4/12/2007 8:29:37 PM

ownedkitten

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You know, I don't get that much mail and most of it is very nice. I have no idea how many people view me in a given day - I suppose it's not that important to me since I'm not seeking anything from this site in terms of a relationship outside of friendship. Although now that it's been brought up I am curious...how do you find all that stuff out?

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RE: Trawling - 4/12/2007 10:50:27 PM

RowanJ

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When online, I usually get about ten hits, depending on how long I'm online. I firmly believe that no one is "stupid" or "indecent" because everyone does what they do for a reason. I do my best to reply to everyone, even if it is just to let them know I read their message and to have a nice day.

There being an exception to every rule, there was only one man who kept messaging me, insisting that I am a fake. He most certainly did not know me, and I was quite offended. I am not sure if he did that to make me interested in him, or if he is just a jerk. But there's my one.

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RE: Trawling - 4/20/2007 11:01:46 PM

venuscoffee

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Well let's see, I just went back to seeking mode on Sunday or Monday and between the guys who....

want to cut off my hair
chain me naked in their yard
move to Sweden to be a sex slave
commit to them on the first email
who want to know why I'm no longer owned
ask me 3 times if I like some band I've never heard of
if my 130lb Akita will eat their domly asses if they touch me

and my current favorite - the guy who said there was no way my pictures were of a 44 year old woman (they were just taken in November) because women my age don't look this good.

I have gone through about 30 aspirins and have a bruise on my head from banging it against my laptop.

And that's just a drop in the bucket.

I get way too many of these jerks bothering me. I can't believe how many of them I actually met who got past the dork meter to start. One, squicked me so badly with the most disgusting senario, that I literally WENT AND SHOWERED for the second time that morning. I wont even repeat it, MAJOR HIGH SQUICK factor here, ladies. <shudder>

This is the latest of the rude insolent idiots who have written to me this week.
This idiot from the eastern side of Washington state said, and I quote: Maybe you are still searching because you're fat and ugly!

To whit was my reply:
Obviously you have confused me with someone else. Someone who hurts with jabs like that, someone who lets any man hurt her with his words, his judging gazes and jibes. No, I do not let men like you treat me like that. You see, there's this definition for men like you. Its called an ASS. IF you would just look in the dictionary under the word ASS, I'm most certain you will find a picture of yourself. This is precisely why you are still trawling and will never have any real face to face time with any woman worth submitting to you.

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RE: Trawling - 4/21/2007 8:07:50 AM

ScreamerGirl

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I actually don't get many emails. I'm not surprised. My profile isn't built that way. I try to be as straightforward as possible because that's what I appreciate in others.

I think to go in and look at my profile views maybe once a week, and I usually have a good amount, but rarely do I see names on there from people who either a) aren't on the forum or b) aren't very local to me.

/shrug

If I were looking hardcore I might feel differently. Luckily, I'm not looking very hard.

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