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I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:55:39 AM

Spar

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"Do you want to be a toilet slave?" said the man - I mean, does it get any better than that? I guess I can finally sympathize with all the ladies on here who get their mailboxes flooded with these types of messages.

Ahhh... collarme.

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:57:17 AM

BOUNTYHUNTER

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NOW don't you just love it smiles..bounty

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:59:10 AM

MstrssPassion

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yeah & just guess how well that will look on your resume

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 7:07:35 AM

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Hey...at least, it was a question... I always get "You are going to be blah,blah,blah." You have an option!

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 7:13:53 AM

BBBTBW

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Spar,

Not only slaves get those kinds of inquiries. Us Female Dominants get them too.

The worst one I have gotten is, "can I be your menstrual toilet slave?"....*GAG**GROSS**YUCK*

Why no profile?

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 7:23:41 AM

Spar

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My profile is under the nickname "barnone" - I used to have a profile under "Spar" but I cant change it on the forums.

Hence my signature :)

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 7:37:16 AM

curiouslyseeking

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Spar

"Do you want to be a toilet slave?" said the man -

I mean, does it get any better than that? I guess I can finally sympathize with all the ladies on here who get their mailboxes flooded with these types of messages.
Ahhh... collarme.

hmmmm, I don't consider that a message per se, or statement, but a valid question ...

To each his own kink .....next meeting in the bathroom of the toilet slaves

Always,
~curious~

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 8:24:02 AM

MstrssPassion

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why not just post with the name barnone now & save all of us the confusion?

The only thing you lose is the credit of 11 posts... is getting rid of that cone really that big a deal?

To be honest, when I saw the mention of a different screen name in your OP I thought it was your way of sneaking in the name of the person that wanted you to be a toilet slave.

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 4/12/2007 8:25:35 AM >

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 10:18:01 AM

Spar

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I cant change it, MstrssPassion. The email I used for both accounts is the same, so the forum only accepts the first account, which was under "Spar". Now when I go to Login as a new user, it asks me what nickname I want and when I put "barnone" it says already taken.

It would probably be wise to get help for this on the tech forum... if there is one...

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 10:22:13 AM

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There we go!

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 11:07:03 AM

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Congratulations! This is a big point in your dating career and a turning point in life! Be sure to screen shot the message and make a couple backups.. your grandchildren will want to see it someday when you tell them about it.

(You can tell them, right?) My kids are going to know all about this stuff, 'cause their mommy's not getting off of her leash, unless you take it a bit more metaphorically. I just know I'm going to get some calls when they're in elementary and scotch tape other kids to the jungle gym. I'll be so proud!

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 12:06:42 PM

barnone

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Makes you shed a tear, doesn't it?

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 2:24:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: curiouslyseeking

quote:

ORIGINAL: Spar

"Do you want to be a toilet slave?" said the man -

I mean, does it get any better than that? I guess I can finally sympathize with all the ladies on here who get their mailboxes flooded with these types of messages.
Ahhh... collarme.

hmmmm, I don't consider that a message per se, or statement, but a valid question ...

To each his own kink .....next meeting in the bathroom of the toilet slaves

Always,
~curious~

bingo, give the girl a prize. It was a question trying to get some response. He only comes out on the short end if you ignore him. Any other response from you and he got a winner.

K

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 2:28:49 PM

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Reminds me of an IM i got yesterday.........

Some one requested i view their web cam about a humdred times... each time i declined..... finally they IM and say

Them "plssssss"
Them "accept"
Me "no"
Them "me Master, you slave"
Me "nooooooo"
Them "No?"
Me "No"

i thought it was pretty amusing. hehehehe

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 2:49:38 PM

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So, girls.

Do you even have to bother messaging anyone at all? Seems to me you can just pick out guys from your full inbox of messages.

Just once I'd like a girl who isn't 40 to message me and say "hey, you sound like a nice guy, lets chat!".

But with girls. Their profiles are all like, "your messages have to be interesting! It takes alot to get my attention!". High standards! How can I meet them!

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 3:38:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KaineD

So, girls.

Do you even have to bother messaging anyone at all? Seems to me you can just pick out guys from your full inbox of messages.

Just once I'd like a girl who isn't 40 to message me and say "hey, you sound like a nice guy, lets chat!".

But with girls. Their profiles are all like, "your messages have to be interesting! It takes alot to get my attention!". High standards! How can I meet them!

Seriously... If that isn't the case, it at least seems like the case.

The first message I got from anyone (After being on the site for a year) was from someone demanding tribute, I was like, "Yes." and by yes, I mean, I didn't bother responding... In any case, it'd be nice for someone to randomly want to just talk, or whatever, but it seems that's an unreasonable hope, heh.

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:10:48 PM

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To KaineD and FnordStrum: Been there, done that, got the T-shirt, moved on, and stopped bothering. The only time I ever send a first contact anymore is because I'm making a very specific comment about something in the profile, and thats pretty rare. By and large, I suspect a new sub on this site starts to completely ignore the mailbox after the first few days attemping to sort through it all if they havent found one of the initial ones appealing. Basically, I refuse to join the crowd of stampeding morons everytime a new sub pops on the site. But, I've got 3 peices of advice I've gotten the seem to work, if you want to increase your visibility and maybe, just maybe, get them to start talking to you first.

1. Do posts on the message boards, but your already hear doing that.
2. Use the journal entries to put down on whatever peices of yourself simply are too long to explain in the basic profile.
3. Login every day. If your lucky, your profile might be at the top and catch the subs eye when they pop into their profile.

At the very least, I do get to talk some interesting people

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:27:17 PM

Fnordstrum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

To KaineD and FnordStrum: Been there, done that, got the T-shirt, moved on, and stopped bothering. The only time I ever send a first contact anymore is because I'm making a very specific comment about something in the profile, and thats pretty rare. By and large, I suspect a new sub on this site starts to completely ignore the mailbox after the first few days attemping to sort through it all if they havent found one of the initial ones appealing. Basically, I refuse to join the crowd of stampeding morons everytime a new sub pops on the site. But, I've got 3 peices of advice I've gotten the seem to work, if you want to increase your visibility and maybe, just maybe, get them to start talking to you first.

1. Do posts on the message boards, but your already hear doing that.
2. Use the journal entries to put down on whatever peices of yourself simply are too long to explain in the basic profile.
3. Login every day. If your lucky, your profile might be at the top and catch the subs eye when they pop into their profile.

At the very least, I do get to talk some interesting people

Well I don't tend to send a "first contact" anyway, I tried a while ago on a different site and after getting maybe one or two responses out of all of the messages I sent, well, I figured that it probably wasn't worth trying anymore, then here I figured it would be the same, so yeah.

In any case, logging in every day doesn't really work (As far as I can tell), I log in a bunch of times every day (mostly to check if there are any new people or if I happened to get a message since the last time my mail was checked -- which is very unlikely since I have a mail notification thing that checks every 15 minutes, but, hey -- even though neither of those things happen much), and, yeah. I've been wanting to start posting on these forums for a while but just haven't really checked it enough to find topics on which I would have something to say.

But yeah, it just seems like on one hand, any female is going to have a ton of messages already and therefore be less likely to care about yours if you were to send one, and on the other hand, because they have so many messages they're less likely to go looking for other people to send messages to.

But you know, that's life, heh.

(Of course that probably doesn't apply to everyone, but, hey)

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 6:59:36 PM

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quote:

But yeah, it just seems like on one hand, any female is going to have a ton of messages already and therefore be less likely to care about yours if you were to send one, and on the other hand, because they have so many messages they're less likely to go looking for other people to send messages to.

IMO, probably makes her more prone to go look for the few Doms that havent joined the email crowd. After all, why would an otherwise=compatible Dom not have sent her an email first? Never underestimate the power of pure bloody-minded curiosity.

Any subs want to make a comment on me and Fnords different opinions. I'm actually curious is to which is the more typical one of the two

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RE: I'm so proud! My first offer for slavery... - 4/12/2007 8:08:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BondageTopJere

quote:

But yeah, it just seems like on one hand, any female is going to have a ton of messages already and therefore be less likely to care about yours if you were to send one, and on the other hand, because they have so many messages they're less likely to go looking for other people to send messages to.

IMO, probably makes her more prone to go look for the few Doms that havent joined the email crowd. After all, why would an otherwise=compatible Dom not have sent her an email first? Never underestimate the power of pure bloody-minded curiosity.

Any subs want to make a comment on me and Fnords different opinions. I'm actually curious is to which is the more typical one of the two

hmmmmm, interesting debate...

The last 2 people from Collarme I met, I initially sent one line zingers without the intentions of meeting....how does that enter into the mix?

Always,
~curious~

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