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i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 6:06:23 AM   
slavedesires


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Status: offline 		i received this email this am:

We are extreme dominants...

[Edited form letter - M8]


my rant is this:
1. form letter
2. OBVIOUSLY they DIDNOT read my profile
3. if they paid any attention at all, my journal would indicate in some way, for someone, that i am probably NOT the kind of property they seek ... i am not live in existence material!! i have a fucking brain!

so why not find that human toilet in Florida that wishes to be sold to an African warlord (or whatever) who will only exist and if her profile is true...will get Africa's pandemic!!

WTF is wrong with people?

YES...i am aware that peoples do what they do and can solicit...but damn...read a profile!!

back to your normally scheduled lives where you do what it is that you do..

~~shy

edited - personal information

< Message edited by ModeratorEight -- 4/22/2005 9:10:54 AM >

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 6:13:35 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Feel free to read previous post from Nella's rant in regards to "if all of us wrote a public post in response to every bad email we got, we'd have no time for anything else."

Is everyone's delete button suddenly becoming dysfunctional?

Your email is a lot more tasteful and grammar correct than 80% of the emails I get (and it's bad form to post private corresponse ESPECIALLY with names attached in a public forum).

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 6:35:17 AM   
stormsfate


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Status: offline 		Geez, looks like a nice note to me. I saw nothing about "on your knees 13itch!" in there. So you aren't interested? Why not write a note back saying "no thank you". It would have taken less time than it did for you to post your rant here.


best regards,
fate

Edited to add: I read your profile and skimmed your journal. I didn't see anything in there that would specifically preclude your being interested. Why not just make a note in your profile that you would prefer not to be contacted...that way you can contact someone if you are interested and won't get so worked up when people send you a nice note to see if you are compatible with them.


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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 6:59:10 AM   
ProtagonistLily


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quote:

WTF is wrong with people?


Get over yourself for the love of God. There is not enough bandwidth in the universe for each and every one of us that gets unrealistic, annoying or innappropriate mail to start a 'rant' and complain about it.

Delete, block, be polite and say no thank you, or what ever, but realize this is the way of the Internet 'dating' sites.

L

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 8:50:30 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavedesires
so why not find that human toilet in Florida that wishes to be sold to an African warlord (or whatever) who will only exist and if her profile is true...will get Africa's pandemic!!

WTF is wrong with people?
~~shy

Yeah, WTF IS wrong with people?... and I don't mean just the ones that wrote yah. M

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 9:10:13 AM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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Status: offline 		personally, i don't find anything offensive with that email you got, but then again i'm not one to get offended easily....the "on your knees bitch!" and "will u be my slave?" tend to irritate me a lot more....but with that said....rant all you want dear, we all do it, i don't think there are any rules here against ranting, are there? i haven't read the tos so maybe i'm speaking out of my ass here...if so, sorry : )



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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 10:44:50 AM   
Kinkypupper


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From: Portland oregon
Status: offline 		Most of what you comment on is VERY true.
As far as a "form letter" I also admit i have one..
Yes I do read profiles, If I feel I want to reply to an "ad" then I send the canned "hello" letter.
It is often added to depending on the person but since 98% or more females do not reply anyway its more of a "introduction" from me to them "IF" they reply then its definately a one on one communication from there.
Its a "start" an "introduction that "I" am interested in knowing them further. If they decide to look at my "ad" and reply then Great. If not then thats ok to, I am the first to admit I do not "fit" everyone. but then I am not looking for everyone just one.


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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 10:49:34 AM   
lil1v


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Status: offline 		Well I want to rant too..

I just re-edited my profile so it doesn't show. But when I got the initial email this morning, my profile said clearly that I was not looking for anything but friendships.

So why after a couple emails and the normal "How are you" small talk.. Would a Dom ask me.. "So what are your limits?"

Maybe its just me.. but I don't discuss those with anyone that I'm not planning on getting involved with. (unless its part of a board post or some actual platonic informative conversation)

Just drives me crazy.

Like the guy who wanted me to stay in IM and tell him what to do to his sub and he'd do it. Ugh, dumbass its your sub.

Or those that ask you question after question of stupid crap and never answer it themselves.. "So do you like sex?" "Do you like anal?" "Do you shave?" "Do you have large breasts?" etc and so on.

There is much more stuff that pisses me off.. but thats enough for this rant.

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 11:51:23 AM   
ruffnecksbabygir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lil1v

Well I want to rant too..

I just re-edited my profile so it doesn't show. But when I got the initial email this morning, my profile said clearly that I was not looking for anything but friendships.

So why after a couple emails and the normal "How are you" small talk.. Would a Dom ask me.. "So what are your limits?"

Maybe its just me.. but I don't discuss those with anyone that I'm not planning on getting involved with. (unless its part of a board post or some actual platonic informative conversation)

Just drives me crazy.

Like the guy who wanted me to stay in IM and tell him what to do to his sub and he'd do it. Ugh, dumbass its your sub.

Or those that ask you question after question of stupid crap and never answer it themselves.. "So do you like sex?" "Do you like anal?" "Do you shave?" "Do you have large breasts?" etc and so on.

There is much more stuff that pisses me off.. but thats enough for this rant.



It's quite simple really.... they are horny and need some quick material to jack off.

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 1:17:31 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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From: Arizona
Status: offline 		We are not going to stop this, except with O/our own ability to delete and/or block. Sounds like you are having a bad day. W/we all do, from time to time.
Unfortunately, most of the folks who send out these form letters are not the ones reading the forums. And many feel that, by playing the odds, they are bound to get a few positive responses. Chances are they are not going to change their way of approaching this.
I personally consider it lazy,for the most part (not you kinkupupper, you're not playing the odds), and usually shows a lack of interest in Me in particular. I am selfish enough to think that matters! *W*
Yes, it can get quite annoying, but I would probably be more disappointed if no one ever wrote to Me!
C'est La Vie!

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 5:03:35 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		They sound kind of lame. It kind of hurts my feelings when people send me a form letter. It's like, "You read my entire profile and my entries and didn't find ONE little thing to comment on?"

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 5:52:30 PM   
Blk4u2


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Status: offline 		Yeah he\they were guilty of being ignorant. Still it should be known by now that people troll the net doing this. I've been guilty of it, and so have others. It comes with the territory...Take it or leave it as the cliche goes.

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 7:13:44 PM   
snmsub


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Joined: 3/12/2005
Status: offline 		My very favourite intro was "I am the Master. How big are your tits? Are you fat?"
I chose to delete and block that one.... there are always going to be people who send unsolicited mails, who don't bother to read profiles (I don't have a profile haha!) and who send ranting copy and paste letters. I just ignore them on move on.

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 7:27:00 PM   
slavedesires


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Joined: 3/2/2004
Status: offline 		oh Lily..i am not full of myself for the love of god...hehehehehe

i jsut had to rant. simple.

and i did reply btw.

and then he did lololol

and i dont care if no one esle liked my rant.



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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 7:33:11 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lil1v

Well I want to rant too..

I just re-edited my profile so it doesn't show. But when I got the initial email this morning, my profile said clearly that I was not looking for anything but friendships.

So why after a couple emails and the normal "How are you" small talk.. Would a Dom ask me.. "So what are your limits?"

Maybe its just me.. but I don't discuss those with anyone that I'm not planning on getting involved with. (unless its part of a board post or some actual platonic informative conversation)

Just drives me crazy.

Like the guy who wanted me to stay in IM and tell him what to do to his sub and he'd do it. Ugh, dumbass its your sub.

Or those that ask you question after question of stupid crap and never answer it themselves.. "So do you like sex?" "Do you like anal?" "Do you shave?" "Do you have large breasts?" etc and so on.

There is much more stuff that pisses me off.. but thats enough for this rant.



lolol v.........
i got one who wanted to "transform" me into his slave after 3 emails and i told him i had no interest cause i was taken.
he didnt care.
i told him ...trnsform waht you think i ma instead of who i reallyam?

guys like taht just either dont listen or they dont want to read.

ok.am ranting again! LOLOL

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/21/2005 9:02:35 PM   
GreyStorm


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Status: offline 		You people get EMAIL? lol.....clears out the cobwebs in his box.......

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/22/2005 5:27:55 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavedesires

so why not find that human toilet in Florida that wishes to be sold to an African warlord (or whatever) who will only exist and if her profile is true...will get Africa's pandemic!!



LMAO slavedesires, you've discovered Latrina too! A couple of us are convinced that she and her "King" are one and the same person, and that profile is as fake as the day is long.

quote:


YES...i am aware that peoples do what they do and can solicit...but damn...read a profile!!



I agree that people should read profiles, really READ them, before soliciting other people on this site. Mine clearly states that I am only looking for friends (platonic ones, thankyouverymuch) and yet I get solicited. I then refer them to my profile AGAIN, asking them to read it, and don't hear back. Sometimes politeness will beget politeness and that is heartening to see .

cello

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/22/2005 10:45:08 AM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK


quote:

ORIGINAL: slavedesires

so why not find that human toilet in Florida that wishes to be sold to an African warlord (or whatever) who will only exist and if her profile is true...will get Africa's pandemic!!



LMAO slavedesires, you've discovered Latrina too! A couple of us are convinced that she and her "King" are one and the same person, and that profile is as fake as the day is long.

quote:


YES...i am aware that peoples do what they do and can solicit...but damn...read a profile!!



I agree that people should read profiles, really READ them, before soliciting other people on this site. Mine clearly states that I am only looking for friends (platonic ones, thankyouverymuch) and yet I get solicited. I then refer them to my profile AGAIN, asking them to read it, and don't hear back. Sometimes politeness will beget politeness and that is heartening to see .

cello



you know, funny thing is tho, i swore i saw toilet girls pic on some really respectable profile tho...lolol

rarely do i reply distastefully...but that one i had to... it struck such a distasteful cord in me.... hehehehe !

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 4/22/2005 6:18:39 PM   
GreyStorm


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Status: offline 		I GOT AN EMAIL....YIPPIE!


Note to self, write slavedesires with some questions tomorrow. Include in the questions the words cheese, Brett Favre, and Korbel brandy.

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RE: i simply must rant!! - 6/20/2006 4:15:22 PM   
Catwoman69y2k


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Status: offline 		Sorry to burble this item to the top of the list again but I simply must agree.  I have found more and more IMs coming in that seem to make me wonder if my profile information is not showing or something.  Why? Because if you read my profile, I explain who I am and what I seek (just friendship and networking) very clearly. 

I appreciate people being nice and enthusiastic about talking with me.  Still,  it bothers me that no one takes time to read profiles anymore.  How are you to meet the right people if you dont read thier profile?

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