SenorX
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This is a great topic in My opinion, and I appreciate it being brought up in here.
1. There seems to be herein some folks who list that they are willing to relocate, but then again, they drag things on over long periods of time.... those appear to be just people who are either fakes, or just have some pipe dream fantasies about being able to relocate somewhere to fantasyland.
2. There have been some I have run across that say they are willing to relocate and seem so desperate that they wish to relocate immediately. They are either desperately wanting to get the hell out of whereever they may be... OR... CAVEAT EMPTOR.... they are looking to pull a fast con game on you... asking you to pay for their travel and there may be a very good chance that you never see them.
3. Then you may find those who are not happy where they live, feeling that they would be happier if they move somewhere else. What many of those fail to realize is that when they get to where they finally agree to move to, they find they are the same person, just with a change of geographic location. Those folks need to change themselves before they change their scenery.
4. And then there are those who wish to come to the USA. Nothing new. It has been happening since the U.S. Colonial Period, whereby throughout history (including modern day history), people have crossed over to the U.S. as what used to be known as indentured servitude... contract slavery. Today, many of the Indians (from India), Middle Easterns, Hispanics, and other foreign people have found that they can 'sell' themselves into slavery (3-yr BINDING contract) to move to the U.S. and become a live-in housekeeper/domestic under BCIS (used to be INS) regs. My office does alot of this type of paperwork and assistance. It is a long process, but it is legal.
5. Then there are some folks who have had some recent trauma in their lives, such as a break-up, bad divorce, loss of a loved one, or some other emotional trauma. They may not have anybody near them to be able to find someone to comfort and guide them, so they seek to move and perhaps begin their lives anew.
Personally, I might actually enjoy an indentured servant coming to My House and serving My House (My bride, Myself, and whomever else I take in as a sub to train to become a slave). At least, this way, if I brought someone over, I would have one guarantee... that the person sponsored would be in a contractual situation whereby if s/he wanted to be released within the 3 year period, s/he would be required to immediately report to BCIS for deportation, since permission to be in the US would be based on the fulfillment of the 3-yr contractual period.
I have had a few quickie messages from female subs interested in relocating. I have entertained the thoughts of several, even through some limited flexibility. I had one with whom I communicated by telephone, whereby she appeared so desperate that she wanted to move from CA to SC right away (but of course, she didn't have the money to move). she said it would take about $350 for her to be able to drive her car here. That immediately pops up con-game in My mind, so I tested her and told her that if she really wanted to move here, I would be happy to fly out and drive back with her. Guess what??? That ended that. Apparently she conned a few others instead, and I still have My money. $350 is really not much. I have wasted $350 and more on alot of things before, but it's the principle... and one has to be cautious.
I had another one recently who was sooo very nice on her e-mails and instant messages, calling Me her Master, Sir, and telling Me that she loved Me and My bride. She/it made a grave mistake or 2, though. It sent Me a pic of itself, and then later on, sent Me 2 more pics of itself. The 2nd set of pics wasn't of the same person as the 1st set of pics. It stated that it was willing to relocate, but there were some things that really didn't ring true. One needs to be cautious.
If someone writes Me or approaches Me to become Mine, I do have some inflexible requirements. 1st, is a telephone interview within 7 days from the date of initial contact. 2nd, is a requirement that the sub seeking come to ME for a weekend or week-long visit within 30 days (or some other negotiated time frame, dependent on work, etc.), but the arrangements must be made within the 30 day period. Once I have made the decision whether to choose her to live in MY House, she shall be required to move here within 30 days from the decision being made. Now, don't misconstrue My comment here and think that I want someone to move in within 30 days... as this is not what I have stated herein. Once MY decision has been made, then I would expect a person to move in within 30 days... this is different than wanting someone to move in within 30 days from initial contact. Patience is one element wherein I am very strict.
I require a prospective sub to send Me a resume. It amazes Me that someone looking for a job that may be a temprary stepping stone in the world of work will take so much time and make such an effort to type and send in a resume, cover letter, and even fill out an application for employment, and then set aside everything else in her/his life to appear at an interview... not only on time, but show up 15-30 minutes early and sit and wait... yet that very person will state that s/he is seeking a full-time, permanent, 24/7 x 365 LTR, and then only send 1 or 2 lines, at best and sometimes just a 3 word partial sentence. And they then expect Me to give a positive response and be willing to relocate them to MY House? NFWIH ( No f***g way in hell)!
Basically, in essence, it is important to Our sanity... to Our preservation of Our decided principles and protocols, to remember Caveats in searching for subs, and to have and exemplify that very discipline Ourselves that We claim We will expect and teach Our subs... and hold back the reins on Ourselves... taking that very same medicine that We so freely give out to subs.
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