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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/13/2007 2:10:54 PM

Celeste43

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I also interpreted your post as you being married to a vanilla, and looking in another city in order not to get outed at home for a kinky sex partner . If you're not, I apologise but that's what it screams out to me.

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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/13/2007 2:13:31 PM

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I approached her with a short message, to the effect that I was working in her town several days a week, was often there on weekends and a frequent attendee at the loal munch.

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ORIGINAL: johntom571

I think that she jumped to some conclusions and pissed herself off. Her nasty replies simply means she was not worth your time in the first place. I would not worry about it. If you want to change your approach and leave out the part about being in town.... that might help the assumptions being made but ont he other hand it is great when people show their true colors up front!!

Good luck!

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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/15/2007 4:32:02 PM

losttreasure

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ORIGINAL: johntom571

A grateful thank to all for your candid view and opinions, albeit disconcerting that many would readily assume this is a case of the "girl in every port", "dish on the side" type of quest for me. But i look at it this way: when you have spent all day long knee deep in sewage, it's difficult to distinguish finer scents in other people. I can't really expect subs who have been chronically exposed to the predation of "weekend warriors" to conceive other motives, when they encounter something else.

First of all, you are welcome.

I must say that I was initially pleased to see your profile pending approval after your post here... until I looked just a little while ago to see what you had added.

You didn't catch those little hints in our comments about not being negative, did you?

And that disconcernment you felt at so many making assumptions didn't seem to help you put two and two together; I'd have thought it would have been a huge clue that you should put in your profile just what type of relationship you are looking for.

But hey, you did add to your profile and, what is it you said... "nothing ventured, nothing gained, if only to shut their traps"?

lol... Guess you were wrong there, too.

Best of luck.

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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/15/2007 4:36:04 PM

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Hmmmm..........24/7 attention sluts-gotta love em.

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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/15/2007 4:48:35 PM

MariaB

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Look I am really sorry to be blunt here but I have the excuse of being English and we are known for it so please don’t take offence.

My guess would be that she looked at your profile, looked at your picture and simply did not fancy you. The very fact that she got annoyed when you wrote back to her shows that the excuse she gave you was very probably just one she needed to stop you contacting her further.

Can I also just ask you if your name means the same in America as it does in English?

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RE: "Weekend Dom": Netiquette and Name Calling - 4/15/2007 4:52:01 PM

Mystique567

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Add another vote to the, "If I had gotten that message I would have asked if you were gonna leave a $100 next to the bed" catagory.

Tell them you live out of town, tell them that you want to get together to get to know them, but don't if you are single give them the time constraints, it sure looks like a don't call unless I tell you to call kind of person.

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