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cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:04:06 AM   
knowshisplaceCT


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Status: offline 		since we are on the small penis topic...there seems to be a fair amout of interest in a couple of previous posts.....how do You Dommes feel about cuckolding if there is a real relationship and the sub has a tiny penis?

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RE: cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:26:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't cuckhold him just because he has a small cock, this would have to be something he would feel comfortable with, and may even, if he choose to, participate in by either watching or prep and cleanup

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RE: cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:31:56 AM   
knowshisplaceCT


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Status: offline 		i think the prep and cleanup would be the best part:)

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RE: cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:40:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have met quite a few guys with small cocks who have this as a fantasy. Maybe it's because it is all they think they can get? or just a part of their inner kink, i don't know.  I do know alot of males who think they are "small" when they are 5-6" which i personally would call good average and very comfortable for me. Bigger is not always better especially in anal!  I've also found that cuckholding is something you get or you dont. I know alot of males that just don't get it at all if a sub wants to serve but not sexually, kinda like chastity.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:44:45 AM   
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I have met quite a few guys with small cocks who have this as a fantasy. Maybe it's because it is all they think they can get? or just a part of their inner kink, i don't know.  I do know alot of males who think they are "small" when they are 5-6" which i personally would call good average and very comfortable for me. Bigger is not always better especially in anal!  I've also found that cuckholding is something you get or you dont. I know alot of males that just don't get it at all if a sub wants to serve but not sexually, kinda like chastity.



Alas most men are more worried about their cocks than anything else. Hence their worries, leading to insecurity like this.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/14/2007 9:58:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		i think cuckolding for some men is the ultimate act of submission, especially if they are involved.  If they are in chastity and have to accept that a more endowed, more handsome or more masculine (if feminization is a large part of his servitude) man satisfies those particular needs of his Domme, then he has completely surrendered his masculinity to Her.  Obviously it would create a good deal of dependence on his Domme after surrendering so much.  But i also believe that it can be very destructive to a relationship if it isn't done carefully.  i think the cuckolding is the last step in a great deal of love and conditioning. 

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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 10:47:33 AM   
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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 6:48:49 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Cuckolding does not appeal to me simply because I'm not that promiscuous.
Cuckolding fantasies seem to demand that the Mistress be screwing around, going out to pick up men, and that the men are willing to be watched. Or they assume that the guy cums inside the Mistress to be licked clean.

I am poly, but not promiscuous. I am not interested in going out to pick up men. I'm not interested in letting anyone other than a committed partner cum inside me unless it's in a condom. I don't think many men really would feel comfortable coming home so another guy could watch him fuck me, especially if the guy watching wanted to suck him hard to start or suck him clean after.

I think cuckolding is a great fantasy. It would ~not~ work in my world, for me.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 6:54:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think one needs to be promiscuous to be able to take part in cuckholding.  It could be done in a poly situation if the members agreed. 
If I'm already in a sexual relationship with someone and meet a sub that is into cuckholding, who is to say we couldn't form some type of relationship if the other person was willing?

Psy,,, who hopes this made sense



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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 8:09:52 PM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
I don't think one needs to be promiscuous to be able to take part in cuckholding.  It could be done in a poly situation if the members agreed. 
If I'm already in a sexual relationship with someone and meet a sub that is into cuckholding, who is to say we couldn't form some type of relationship if the other person was willing?

Yes, it makes sense. I do have a partner currently who would not object to having a sub of mine in the same room while we had sex. If that was enough, that'd be fine.

Overwhelmingly, though, I find that the cuck wants to participate - wants to eat the cream pie, be humiliated and forced to play fluffer (suck the guy hard before) or clean up (suck the guy clean after). None of those activities holds any interest for me whatsoever.

I am generally turned off at the mention of cuckolding because of my experiences in the past with those who said they wanted cuckolding, but despite the turnoff I will still talk to someone and find out what exactly they are looking for, and whether I'd be able or willing to provide it.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 8:49:10 PM   
idroolchicksrule


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Status: offline 		I admit it. I'm small. But being a cuckold doesn't appeal to me unless it's something she wanted. I don't think i would watch or clean up. But I would understand if she wanted more of what I lacked and toy's didn't offer.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/16/2007 8:57:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Cuckholding has no appeal to me. It does seem to be a fetish that goes along with the idea of small cocks. Which just shows that men really are way too focused on one thing.

I don't understand how cuckholding would appeal to a Domme. Unless she was being paid as a professional, what does she get out of it really? I've never cheated on anyone, even when I had good reason.


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RE: cuckolding - 4/17/2007 5:57:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Laura

Cuckholding has no appeal to me. It does seem to be a fetish that goes along with the idea of small cocks. Which just shows that men really are way too focused on one thing.

I don't understand how cuckholding would appeal to a Domme. Unless she was being paid as a professional, what does she get out of it really? I've never cheated on anyone, even when I had good reason.


Well, I almost did it once, and not with someone who wanted to be a cuckhold...more to show that it wasn't about his do-me list, it was about what I wanted.  And it wasn't a small dick thing, it was a "whiny sub" thing.  Whining to me is like fingers on a chalk board and the best way for a sub to get ignored or worse.
I didn't actually do it though, I let him go instead.  Because I knew that for him it would have been one of the worse things he could have experienced, and to do it out of spite would have made me a really shitty domme.  (although for the 5 minutes I thought about it, I felt just fine)

Psy

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RE: cuckolding - 4/18/2007 9:47:58 AM   
solvr70


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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

I wouldn't cuckhold him just because he has a small cock, this would have to be something he would feel comfortable with, and may even, if he choose to, participate in by either watching or prep and cleanup


i honestly do not know if this would work out in rt, but the variations You mention of preping (being a get-em-up boi i assume, and clean up are big things that spin in my mind for a Woman to have me do for Her. but, with the REAL need to be safe, so far, the cleanup has only ever been my own in rt. blew my mind when it was made to happen the first time and have not been able to get it out of my mind since then.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/18/2007 3:50:21 PM   
mp072004


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Status: offline 		Lovers with small penises don't bother me, because penetration is not very significant in my sex life. Submissives with small penises don't bother me much--if under 3" fully erect, it can be difficult to do electroplay with pads, and it's more impressive looking to cover an 8" penis in clothespins than to cover an average 5" or 6" one, but those are minor points.

However, I think that it's entirely okay to have multiple sex and play partners. It's especially sensible to *ethically* seek additional partners if you have an existing relationship that is good in many ways but you would be happier if you had some specific, narrow thing that your current partner can't or won't offer, but will agree to your getting elsewhere. (Like, say, my primary relationship, in which we would both need to be able to change genders at will, and be much more enthusiastic and gracious about bottoming to one another.)

If having multiple sex and play partners is not only a convenient or fulfilling relationship structure, but a turn-on in itself (as it seems to be for people who call it "cuckolding,") all the better!

Monica

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RE: cuckolding - 4/18/2007 4:29:14 PM   
sting516


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Status: offline 		i've never understood the appeal of being a cuck...but then...i don't fall into the small penis category (i'm a somewhat normal length, or so i believe)...not that anyone really wanted to know...to me, if you care for a person, it's hard to watch someone else satisfy them because you can't.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/19/2007 5:28:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: solvr70

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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

I wouldn't cuckhold him just because he has a small cock, this would have to be something he would feel comfortable with, and may even, if he choose to, participate in by either watching or prep and cleanup


i honestly do not know if this would work out in rt, but the variations You mention of preping (being a get-em-up boi i assume, and clean up are big things that spin in my mind for a Woman to have me do for Her. but, with the REAL need to be safe, so far, the cleanup has only ever been my own in rt. blew my mind when it was made to happen the first time and have not been able to get it out of my mind since then.



condoms dear boy and cleaning her juices not so much his, and if you want more detail msg me and I will explain exactly what I mean


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RE: cuckolding - 4/20/2007 10:26:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

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ORIGINAL: solvr70

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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

I wouldn't cuckhold him just because he has a small cock, this would have to be something he would feel comfortable with, and may even, if he choose to, participate in by either watching or prep and cleanup


i honestly do not know if this would work out in rt, but the variations You mention of preping (being a get-em-up boi i assume, and clean up are big things that spin in my mind for a Woman to have me do for Her. but, with the REAL need to be safe, so far, the cleanup has only ever been my own in rt. blew my mind when it was made to happen the first time and have not been able to get it out of my mind since then.



condoms dear boy and cleaning her juices not so much his, and if you want more detail msg me and I will explain exactly what I mean



ok here is what I am emailing (and I hope it doesnt break any rules)
point 1: the definition of a cuckold is
cuck·old /ˈkʌkəld/ Pronunciation[kuhk-uhld]
–noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife.
so generally you would know the female she would be your life partner.

but what I meant on the board about clean up and prep was cleaning a prep the female such as eat her until she is nice and wet for her lovers cock, so if he was going to fuck her ass if would be your job to lube it however she wants it lubed and possible even guide the cock in. yes using a condom but sucking his cock or giving him a handjob to make him hard so he can pleasure your mistress better.... then cleaning up with your tongue her juices.

get the idea


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RE: cuckolding - 4/20/2007 11:06:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Penis size really doesn't matter to me regarding cuckolding. After all size doesn't necessarily equate with being able to pleasure a woman either way. It's more the point that I'm going to do what I want, with whom I want, when I want. I can't imagine having a relationship where it isn't involved.

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RE: cuckolding - 4/21/2007 1:18:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		I just...just can't get cuckolding.  It sounds horrible.  I could never deal with having sex with another person while my partner stayed chaste, or vice versa. 

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