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RE: What Do you want??? - 4/29/2005 7:00:47 AM

EmeraldSlave2

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ORIGINAL: ginger21

i want Him to need me like i feel i need Him...

i want to know that there are things that only i can do that noone else can do for Him... is that an unrealistic expectation?

The needing you like you need him probably is. What we need is unique and special to ourselves, don't feel inferior just because your dom needs you in a different way. After all, you fulfill different things in eachother so naturally you need eachother in different ways. Also...I hope you WANT to be with eachother more than you NEED to be with eachother.

Are there things that only you can do for him and no one else can? Probably yes, because you do things in a unique way. I know I give awesome blow jobs to the Owner, but I know there's very likely people out there who can give better if given the opportunity.

Remember the ALanis Morissette line "Did you just call her amazing? Surely we both can't be amazing"

Just be you. You can be amazing and have others be amazing too. As long as you are secure in who you are and that your dom wants you as who you are and whatever he wants to do with you, that's what matters.

We all want to be special and unique and irreplacable, we have to realize that we ARE, and it's because of the WHOLE of who we are.

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RE: What Do you want??? - 4/29/2005 7:33:30 AM

DreamWeaverAz

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1) the ability to be all of Me and not just part. to be free to be Myself
2) the depth of trust to know that when things arent so good the door is not the answer but working through to grow
3) and mostly the time to experience the above with a girl who is freed enough with Me to be completely herself because of the experience

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Honor and Trust and Respect before anything other

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RE: What Do you want??? - 5/1/2005 4:03:09 PM

dmarc

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I want the feeling of completeness, for to journey life and not fore fill who we are.

How shattering that would be once lived a life full of age and experience. D/s can be many things to each one of us, though for me the bond of D/s is that completeness I seek.

That is what I want!!

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RE: What Do you want??? - 5/9/2005 8:26:34 AM

fourpeas

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I want to be able to serve fully in all aspects of service, from the mundane and silly to the kinky and sexy...

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RE: What Do you want??? - 5/9/2005 11:48:41 AM

BobcatsLilMinx

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I want to know that he cares enough to make me be the best that I can be, even on the days I don't feel I can be that...
I want to be able to show him how much I care for him by striving to please, and to be able to trust him enough to know that that instinct won't be abused or taken advantage of...
I want stability, consistency, a definite "this is how things are" without sudden surprises, but possessing room for growth...
I want to know that I am safe with him, that I can take him my problems, my fears, and know that he will look after me...
I want to know that he won't shun me for mistakes I make, but instead will teach me how I can do things better...
I want the freedom I get from just being myself... a slave.

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RE: What Do you want??? - 5/9/2005 12:28:00 PM

Mercnbeth

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what do you really want in a D/s relationship...

to please Him, honor Him, serve Him and obey Him without doubt, question or fear

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RE: What Do you want??? - 5/10/2005 3:28:57 PM

Mia1978

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Guidelines. I want to know exactly what he wants and expects of me, and how I can provide it. and when he wants something, I want him to just come and get it. I want (from him) assertion, confidence and a bit of selfishness. But, tie it up with love, passion, lust and adoration.

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