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angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:34:03 PM   
TantricOne


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Status: offline 		I see I upset a few that prefer their online fantasies lol, that wasn't meant, was hopefully meant to give reason to have someone in more than a "cyber" way. Yes there are people behind the keyboards, no there's nothing really "wrong" with being online only, just a waste of good asses for spanking and other things lol, which can only be done virtually with words, not actual contact, not online.....I suppose that if some are satisfied with that, more power to 'em.
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:38:39 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:40:37 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:41:38 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:42:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I was thinking more momentary amusement myself.


We all need a good laugh. I prefer this clown, personally: http://www.ouchytheclown.com/

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:43:12 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:43:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TantricOne

I see I upset a few that prefer their online fantasies lol, that wasn't meant, was hopefully meant to give reason to have someone in more than a "cyber" way. Yes there are people behind the keyboards, no there's nothing really "wrong" with being online only, just a waste of good asses for spanking and other things lol, which can only be done virtually with words, not actual contact, not online.....I suppose that if some are satisfied with that, more power to 'em.


OK.. since you play guitar.. I do myself and this is how I'm going to make it relate.

Just as there are many different styles of music, so are there styles of relationships in BDSM.   There are many different Techniques.  Some songs/scenes played can be Heavy and Hard.. some are soft and sweet.   Painful, Happy, Dark.. just as many moods in music.. so comes to play in BDSM scenes.   For some interactive fantasy and interactive long di relationship work.. others not.  The important aspect of any relationship is Communication.   It's simply easier now for people to communication now days.   This helps bring people together and closer to one another.    Many people do long and desire for a Physical relationship.  However, they can spend time getting to safely know and feel out each other online or over the phone.   Also, if two people can be faithful to each other long di... you know without question they will be in the Real time as well.  WHEW....

< Message edited by WhiplashSmile -- 4/16/2007 2:45:22 PM >

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:46:22 PM   
Stranger1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

quote:

ORIGINAL: TantricOne

I see I upset a few that prefer their online fantasies lol, that wasn't meant, was hopefully meant to give reason to have someone in more than a "cyber" way. Yes there are people behind the keyboards, no there's nothing really "wrong" with being online only, just a waste of good asses for spanking and other things lol, which can only be done virtually with words, not actual contact, not online.....I suppose that if some are satisfied with that, more power to 'em.


OK.. since you play guitar.. I do myself and this is how I'm going to make it relate.

Just as there are many different styles of music, so are there styles of relationships in BDSM.   There are many different Techniques.  Some songs/scenes played can be Heavy and Hard.. some are soft and sweet.   Painful, Happy, Dark.. just as many moods in music.. so comes to play in BDSM scenes.   For some interactive fantasy and interactive long di relationship work.. others not.  The important aspect of any relationship is Communication.   It's simply easier now for people to communication now days.   This helps bring people together and closer to one another.    Many people do long and desire for a Physical relationship.  However, they can spend time getting to safely know and feel out each other online or over the phone.   Also, if too people can be faithful to each other long di... you know without question they will be in the Real time as well.  WHEW....


Exactly. It can be a wonderful door to real things-and no matter how many never get past 'just cybering" I'll always value it for what it can do that goes beyond that.

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:50:47 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 2:57:43 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 3:05:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile
OK.. since you play guitar.. I do myself and this is how I'm going to make it relate.
Just as there are many different styles of music, so are there styles of relationships in BDSM.   There are many different Techniques.  Some songs/scenes played can be Heavy and Hard.. some are soft and sweet.   Painful, Happy, Dark.. just as many moods in music.. so comes to play in BDSM scenes.   For some interactive fantasy and interactive long di relationship work.. others not.  The important aspect of any relationship is Communication.   It's simply easier now for people to communication now days.   This helps bring people together and closer to one another.    Many people do long and desire for a Physical relationship.  However, they can spend time getting to safely know and feel out each other online or over the phone.   Also, if two people can be faithful to each other long di... you know without question they will be in the Real time as well.  WHEW....


Very well put Whiplash. I never really understood or could grasp the concept behind long distant relationships before coming to Cm. But after and explanation from LadyAlbatross, reading others and now yours...i'm finally starting to understand and begin to think maybe it's a bit better going ld as opposed to right out facings. It can be safer.

I guess now that I think about it...i've been doing just that over the past several months now with my new potential. I've never been to online dating places till Cm and this is where I have met my new potential. We are finally getting to meet in just a few weeks. We've gotten to know a lot about each other and what we both are looking for. We've been doing real good online and talking on the phone. Now it's a matter of whether or not we actually click face to face. If all goes right, and he's asked the same....if the click is there when we meet, he will be collared.

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 3:09:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TantricOne

I see I upset a few that prefer their online fantasies lol, that wasn't meant, was hopefully meant to give reason to have someone in more than a "cyber" way. Yes there are people behind the keyboards, no there's nothing really "wrong" with being online only, just a waste of good asses for spanking and other things lol, which can only be done virtually with words, not actual contact, not online.....I suppose that if some are satisfied with that, more power to 'em.


Saying you made people angry would definately be giving yourself too much credit in this case. Looks you gave everyone their daily dose of laughter.

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 5:11:30 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		enjoy your fantasies and "toys", little man, i have a real relationship with Daddy. if it was possible to pack up and move myself as well as my 2 UMs to where He lives i would however we ...yes, i said WE - prefer this type of relationship due to current circumstances and are very successful with it. mock all you want about cyber relationships at least i'm loved, owned, and protected from "doms" like you.

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 5:49:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

enjoy your fantasies and "toys", little man, i have a real relationship with Daddy. if it was possible to pack up and move myself as well as my 2 UMs to where He lives i would however we ...yes, i said WE - prefer this type of relationship due to current circumstances and are very successful with it. mock all you want about cyber relationships at least i'm loved, owned, and protected from "doms" like you.


I'm not sure I would consider TantricOne a Dom....to me, a Dom/me is qualified by posessing a certain self control and quiet self confidence.  They don't need to be cocky, overly self confident or disrepectful of others the way this person obviously needs to in order to feel better about himself.   
But that is just MHO.

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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 5:52:11 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 6:42:45 PM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/16/2007 8:34:40 PM   
TigressFL


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Status: offline 		I am not going to give you any shit, everyone else has that area covered lol. Long distance relationships have been around for as long as I can remember and while I do not think it is something I could do, I cannot say "never" because sometimes things just happens. I can relate to you on the level of not understanding "online only" relationships where the people involved have never met in person yet they are devoted to each other. My brain cannot seem to wrap around it. I enjoy chatting with people online and interacting in these forums but for me the only way I could be in any type of  M/s relationship is if I also have the person face to face with me. The only online relationships use to bug the hell out of me (I cannot even begin to tell you how much). I would be disgusted if someone told me they had 3 years experience and then followed it with "online". I used the following analogy...My brother is a huge NASCAR fan to the point that he spends endless hour playing games, watching it on tv, going to the races, researching it and talking about it online and with friends, buying all the NASCAR stuff, etc. If he were to go to a driving school for NASCAR and put on his application that he had 3 years of experience doing all of or any of the things I mentioned above, they would laugh him out the door. The same held true for me for online only relationships. My mindset on this subject has changed a lot in the sense that it does not bother me anymore. I have learned from asking around that people really have feelings for each other even when they have never met and that for some it “feels” as real as if they were together. While I still cannot logically understand it, I have stopped trying to understand and just “let it be”. I really do not have to understand it and I certainly do not have to be in that type of relationship but similarly, why the hell do I care what the hell everyone else in the world does with their personal relationships, the answer is simple…. I do not care. If people find some happiness in their lives, I say good for them!! It certainly does not have to be the same happiness or in the same manner as I find it. It truly is in this case…. To each their own.

Tigress~FL


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RE: angered a few? - 4/17/2007 12:12:57 AM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/17/2007 5:08:22 AM   
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RE: angered a few? - 4/17/2007 5:21:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stef

Here's a friendly tip for you; when people are laughing, they're usually not angry.

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& when they laugh during an appology it devalues the sentiment

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