GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Gun Control And Tragedy (4/19/2007 12:11:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SusanofO I just think its depressing that the answer for many, seems to be that the answer to fighting gun violence, is to give everyone in sight their own gun. And I really don't see how in this particular case, it is really a pertinent issue, or an answer. The perpetrator in tis case was obviously un-hinged. For all anyone knows, he could have been believing he was shooting at anything except innocent people .when he did what he did. I appreciate where you are coming from Susan, and yes, I am sure we all wish that this had never happened. However, the innocent people who were killed are no less dead because he was un-hinged. quote:
These people exist, and they probably always will. It's not their fault, and unfortunately he slipped throught the cracks of the mental health-care system. It is also not the innocent people's fault that he slipped through the cracks of the mental health system. How much responsiblity must we all take for every single person's mental stability? He was having some serious problems that were worsening for the last year or more, according to various reports. Well, where were his parents? Why didn't they see it and try to get him help. School officials? Same question. Except that I think there was a certain awareness of the situation and we must remember that many hands are tied. No one, except by court order, can be forced to take medication or get help. quote:
I fail to see how arming every citizen with a gun even really relates to this larger social problem. This is a social problem? This is a case of a distressed young man who lost his coping skills and did not receive the guidance he needed to get help and keep him safe from doing harm to himself and others. These things are going to happen. It is tragic. I am completely sympathetic to the people who had such a loss. But there is no way, other than reaching for an impossible Utopia that these situations will not continue to occur. We are not saying we should arm everybody. We are saying that those who are comfortable and have the training should be able to arm themselves. This campus was already a gun free zone. So who had the gun? The one who was unhinged, didn't care about the law or the "rule" and proceeded to kill 32 people before taking his own life. Do you honestly believe that reinforcing this "gun free zone" policy, and making it even stricter is going to stop these situations? We will always have the people who believe with all their hearts that taking the guns away from everyone will stop all gun related incidents. I am not that naive. But I think there are also people who are hesitant about allowing guns on a campus, for instance, because this will only invite more troubles. I do not believe this, and I am willing to bet that the moment one of their own was shot and wounded or killed in such an incident, they would change their minds in a hurry. "If only somebody could have stopped him!" quote:
Maybe people should be able to defend themselves, but I know my (now deceased) grandmother went out and bought a gun once, after someone got into her car, and tried to over-take her from the back-set while she was driving. I know she was terrified, but she kept it under her bed, and she didn't even bother to learn to use it, really, with any sense of safety in mind. It was always loaded, and I couldn't help but picture some tragic incident occurring, regardless of whether or not she had a "right" to own it, or not. I cannot presume to know when this happened to your grandmother or how old she was at the time. But there is a personal responsibility with many things that most people refuse to take on. One of those very important personal responsibilities is to learn how to hande any weapon, especially something like a gun, if you choose to have one in your possession. For whatever reason your grandmother just went out and got a gun. I guess it made her feel safer. And, yes, there could have been an accident. But gun control? No... It is not difficult to get a gun as a law abiding citizen. You pass a background check and walk out of the store. It took Me about 12 minutes. In other places there is a waiting period, 3 days, 7 days, 30 days...whatever. I am okay with all of those stipulations. I am a law abiding citizen. There is no waiting period if you are buying the gun illegally. If someone is hell bent on getting a gun, they are going to get it. So perhaps, rather than saying, "get the guns!", which only leaves the law abiidng citizen unarmed and helpless, it would be smarter to provide regular classes on gun use prior to issuing a permit to purchase one. They do it for concealed. They could provide a modified na dless expensive class for simple ownership. *Shrug* Maybe...Just a thought. We no longer live in a time when Pa taught the kids how to shoot. And he made sure his wife knew how to load the rifle and point it too!. The guns are not going away. So perhaps people just need to have some confidence that every person with a gun is not out to indiscriminately shoot up the world. I learned to use a gun before I bought it. It is with Me on long trips, or in My house...loaded and where I can get to it if I need it. Police Officers have seen it in My car. They don't say a word. And when they ask Me if I have a weapon, I am honest and say "Yes, Sir!" Still not a word. I have never had to use it, except for target practice, and I hope I never do. But I do have it, I can use it, and I would use it, if the need arose. I completely respect people who are afraid of them and don't want anything to do with them. I hope they are never in a position where they wished they had a mutual method of defense, but if they are, I am sure they would be very grateful that citizen John or Jane Doe is ready at the rescue. quote:
No she didn't ever kill anyone accidentally, but I do know a family, where the father kept and collected guns as a hobby. He was very depressed, because he had six children, and didn't make a fabulous living as a Milk man (this was in the old days, when people still had things like milk delivery men). Well one day, he just killed himself with one of his own guns. Nobody can tell me, even though he may have done it anyway, using some other method, that it wasn't easier, because the gun was just there to begin with, for the taking and using. Also, one of his kids could easily have accidentally gotten into his collection, and shot themselves as well. His family was devastated, and never the same afterwards, either. And I know a man who quietly got up, as he had planned, got his gun, left the house, went to a local park, and then shot himself. He had lots of time to think it through, he made his decison and he did it anyway. It is an easier way out than other methods of suicide. But don't think that just because he had a gun available, he wouldn't have done something else. People run their cars off the road, wrap them around telephone poles..."no skid marks". They take overdoses of drugs, or they climb into a bathtub full of hot water with a razor blade. If someone is so far down that they decide this is the only way out, they are going to find some way to do it. My own daughter was always nervous about the gun I kept. She was younger then. She took the Concealed class last semester. She is no longer afraid of guns. And she told Me a funny thing, just last night. She said..."Mom, there were people who came in to take that class just because they wanted to give the instructor a hard time and convince everybody that guns were bad. Every one of them changed their minds by the end of the class." Knowledge is a powerful thing. Edited to add since more was posted while I was typing for way too long... A self defense class like Judo? Well it can be done...possibly if there were 4 or 5 who had the time to take that class and were all there, and one sacrificed himself..."I'll cover you guys by running at him while you others get into position and kick the shit out of him...don't forget to chop the gun out of his hand!..Here I go!" Okay, tongue out of cheek now. It is possible, Susan. But a karate chop is not the most effective way to disarm a unhinged gunman when he is 20 feet away. That bullet will travel faster than you can get to him. I believe in self-defense, and it is every effective when you are up close and personal. It is a little different if you are trying to face down a gun from a number of feet or yards away. And the criminals are not going to worry about whether or not you have a fighting chance. They don't play by any rules. It isn't hand to hand, it is hand to gun...The entire intent is to get you with as little consequence to themselves as possible. A good example would be...Can you stop the car carrying the "drive by" shooters with a judo kick?
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