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First Time - 4/17/2007 3:47:15 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I was talking to my Master and we thought back to our first face to face meeting (14 months ago).  I had talked to him for 2 months by phone.  When he first walked up to my table and said littleone i looked up from my book smiled got up and gave him a hug.  I was not sure what the would look like  he gave me a description but he did not have a pic.  I was pleasantly surprised  he was just what he said.

So my question is what did you do the first time you saw/ met your Master/Daddy/Dom?

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 3:50:10 PM   
NakedGirlScout


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Status: offline 		Hi littleone,
I only spoke to my Master on the phone for 2.5 months, just like you. When I met him getting off the plane it was weird, I didn't feel at all like it was the first time meeting. We came together so naturally and without any discomfort that it felt like I was reliving some past life where I'd been his for years. And for the most part it's been that way with us ever since!
~Molly~

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 3:53:58 PM   
OedipusRexIt


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35


Please new answers only not old links.

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First times are very special.  I'd say those where you know right away are the ones that really count.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 4:09:52 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Um...there was no book, lol.  I looked up at him from my place of kneeling on the floor as he tilted my head up, and I thought, "I'm home."

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 4:17:00 PM   
angeleyez1983


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Status: offline 		He and i mailed for a few days, and then he phoned me, asked when we could meet, i felt so very comfortable with him on the phone, we met that afternoon (we live 20 minutes apart)…and i  knew immediately…this is Him…the one i want to learn to give up control to.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 4:28:19 PM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		well for our first meeting he picked me up from my home and took me out to dinner, then we were to spend the night together at a hotel (separate beds) as he lived nearly 2 hours away. we met as good friends and Mentor/mentee only...there was not even the faintest hint of a potential D/s relationship. quite the contrary, i would often make comments as to how he was sooooo not my type, lol.

so he pulls up in this big SUV, i step out of the house with my little overnight bag and scurry over to the truck and hop in. He's just looking at me and smiling really big, almost laughing, so naturally i assume he must think i look funny or some other negative thing. but he goes "damn, you're so adoreable!"...i just smile and mumble a thanks...and he drives us to the restaurant.

nothing very dramatic happens over dinner, but afterwards in the hotel after it's about bedtime and i'm all cozy in my flannel teddy bear jammies, watching CNN, he looks at me and says totally out of the blue, "come over here and suck my cock"....i was like WTF??! lol. but as my mind was reeling, my body was instantly moving to obey. not because i was so hot for him (had never even considered him in that context to be honest), or because i wanted to "play"...but simply because it is my nature to do what a man tells me. i remember being disappointed, thinking that he was a typical man after all, just wanted some *ss, didn't care about me, didn't really want to be my Mentor, etc. i never expected to hear from him again after that night, unless he happened to be in my neck of the woods again and wanted a quick easy booty call.

it was the fact that he did call me the next day and the next and the next, and continued on as my friend and Mentor the same as before, that made me realize that he really was something very different.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 4:38:36 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		it was His first message to me on another site that i knew i've found the person i was searching for. Daddy's note was long and detailed ...i had to read it 3 times before i replied back to Him. our first online chat lasted for hours upon hours chatting like we were old friends who haven't seen each other in years.  Daddy was very addictive and i couldn't get enough of Him during our early days - our constant chats brought us closer and closer together. our first phone call had me blushing on the bus that i missed my stopped while talking to Him. when we finally met about a month later, i instantly knew there was my Daddy ...He looked exactly like His picture. oh there's something about VA men i find so attractive *sighs*

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 5:06:06 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Hmm first one:
He came to see me at my dorm, we talked, I sat on his lap, we got lost, went to a fast food place for dinner, had a very light scene in his hotel room, slept together, talked in the car for a few hours, I cried because he was leaving and then he was gone.  I didn't see him again for about 2 months.

Second one:
My aunt and her second husband...well I met my aunt when I was born, but her husband I met when they came down for my grandmothers 70th birthday party and I took them to the Crucible for some fun.  Next week I was moving in with them

Third one:
He came to my apartment, caned me, THEN gave me a dozen roses, went to the Fetish Warehouse in NYC, put on a show with another woman for the guys there, went to a porn store and fooled around with another couple, went home and to bed, had brunch at a diner the next day, then he left.  Saw him again a few weeks later.

My current partner:
He saw me at BR04 as I was talking with Princess Kali after their scene and he was cleaning up, but we first really met at a Firefly Meetup group lunch meeting at a Mongolian Grill.  He was so shy I had to practically force him to where I was sitting and get him to talk.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 5:08:16 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I was talking to my Master and we thought back to our first face to face meeting (14 months ago).  I had talked to him for 2 months by phone.  When he first walked up to my table and said littleone i looked up from my book smiled got up and gave him a hug.  I was not sure what the would look like  he gave me a description but he did not have a pic.  I was pleasantly surprised  he was just what he said.

So my question is what did you do the first time you saw/ met your Master/Daddy/Dom?

Please new answers only not old links.

Matt's littleone


I walked past him.  I didn't realize and wasn't sure it was him (though at that point we had only been chatting online for about a month so he wasn't my owner or anything at that point).

Edited to add: after I sat down he came over to the table I was sitting at and I don't remember what we talked about at all (it was over nine years ago) and I remember eating soup and spilling it on my white sweater because I was nervous.  Then I got into his car and we just kinda talked and he put me in some thumb cuffs and [I think] seduced me a little bit and then we went to my dorm room and played (he was in fact the only person that went into my dorm room when I was in college).

C~

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 6:51:58 PM   
Squeakers


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Status: offline 		     Hugged him back.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 8:51:19 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		Um...he walked into my house while I was still getting dressed and said hello to my grandmother.  I think when I found some of my favorite songs on his IPOD in the car, I knew we were going to have something interesting.  He didn't kiss me on the first date either.  I thought that was interesting.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 8:58:36 PM   
Elorin


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From: San Antonio, TX
Status: offline 		I e-mailed M on bondage dot com, and he e-mailed back. I believe we met in person along the lines of a month or so later.

His wife was on a business trip. I brought my daughter and fiance. We met in the lobby of a Mexican restaurant, and got along very well. He came back to my house afterwards to hang out or watch movies or play a board game, I can't remember which, and he met my mom.

(At the time, he was a fellow dominant, not someone I ever thought I'd submit to.)

Fast forward to now, and 1) my divorce finalized 2) his marriage fell apart and his divorce has finalized 3)I'm no longer with the ex-fiance and 4) I'm His.

~E

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 9:12:29 PM   
temptressofsouls


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From: Toledo, OH
Status: offline 		Jinx sent me an a very nice, thoroughly detailed heartfelt unsolicited mail here on collarme, and i remember thinking that he was something special and that i would love to get to know him more.

We started talking on yahoo and I was pretty dissappointed for the most part....We werent clicking nearly as much as we did at first and didnt have much to say. It was usually just casual conversation. (I didnt notice it then, really, but I did love the random bouts of silly playfulness I saw in Him, and there was something about His eyes and grin that i found very attractive). I called him once before class, and he kept talking about anime and i thought "dear god, so much for this one." We continued to talk online as casual friends, and I had no desire to take it further and I really didnt think he did either.

But then, one day, I had to cancel a meeting with a Dom from Ann Arbor that I was really looking forward to, and I was so bummed out about it and was in the frame of mind where I wanted to meet someone new and wanted to hang out, and I told Jinz about it and he offered to come hang out the next day, and i accepted. I woke up nervous, and just got more nervous as the day wore on. He called me from his phone a few miles from my house to get directions, and even as I cheerfully gave him directions I began to freak out majorly inside. "What the hell was i thinking? Why did I accept? What the heck are we even going to go do?"

I could tell he was nervous, too, when he got there, and we sat down to talk a bit....Within 15 minutes I was leaning on Him, His hands in my hair, and relaxed into the next dimension. Im not sure how it happened, and neither of us were looking for anything that day, but I turned to putty in His hands. I realized it and was so relaxed and happy I didnt care, and He realized it and realized how much He enjoyed it....we've been together 6+ months, now :)

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 9:21:13 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		Well, I flew from New Orleans to Portland. I visited with my brother for a few days and then drove up to Olympia...those days with my brother had me on pins and needles. I was sooo freakin' close, but just not there yet.
 
I drove the hour and a half to Olympia, and He had to give me the final directions to His place so I was on the phone with Him when I caught my first glimpse.
 
I parked the car, and He is always happy to remind me that I got stuck in the seatbelt in my hurry to get a hold of Him. He was more than I could have imagined. I wish I could tell you what I was feeling, but I can't remember...it just was.
 
We spent those couple of days in some sort of cloud, because I can't remember most of it. It was wonderful.
 
When the plane landed in New Orleans it didn't feel like home anymore. That was the strangest thing...I've lived there all of my life, but I suddenly felt like an alien. Sooooo, I packed up my stuff and here I am. The luckiest little girl in the world...or, so I like to think.

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 9:39:17 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		In a few weeks it will be a year since Daddy and I met. I have stated many times the events of that in different ways... but... I did not describe setting my eyes upon him the first time.

He was sitting in the enterance of IHOP (you know, the place where people wait for a table). and he leaned forward to rubberneck to get a glimpse of me, and I saw how handsome he was immediately.. I was like "Wow, this time I really scored!" I am more into inner beauty than the outer kind, but he is really a very attractive guy.  And when we hugged I could tell he was more than satisfied with what he saw too, I could just see it in his eyes. I had to go freshen up because meeting him had a very odd reaction for me, I began to sweating profusely, and that has never happened to me before. I met him back at the table.


When I sat across from him, looked into his eyes and could not concentrate on anything he said because I felt hypnotised. I told him that I was having a hard time concentrating on hearing what he was saying, and all he said was "I know". There was just this immediate reaction to each other... it was the perfect day.

After breakfast we went shopping and picked out some clothes for him because we wanted to go hiking and he needed appropriate clothing for the purpose. There was this immediate feeling of intimacy in doing that...

We had been talking on the phone for two months prior to meeting

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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 9:47:23 PM   
lovewithoutfear


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Status: offline 		"So my question is what did you do the first time you saw/ met your Master/Daddy/Dom? "

Encountered him at a costumed Halloween party and fell into incredible blue eyes.  We had a few conversations that evening, one in a private area of the house where he simply held me tightly and talked to me about me and him and Dominance and submission, which I'd never considered as a relationship choice for myself. 

It's been a learning process ever since, but he had me at hello.

Smiles
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RE: First Time - 4/17/2007 10:30:00 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I opend the door and I flew down the driveway strait into his arms right in front of his sister in law's car, I didn't see her, she fortunatly saw me. I scared the bejeezuz out of her tho.
quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35



So my question is what did you do the first time you saw/ met your Master/Daddy/Dom?

Please new answers only not old links.

Matt's littleone


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RE: First Time - 4/18/2007 5:17:37 AM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		I knew what Master looked like before we met, but what I didn't know whas how he felt, and I don't mean his physicality. His presence has a feeling all its own - sexy, in control, comforting, commanding, little bit dangerous, little bit intimidating. It added a new dimension to what I already knew.

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RE: First Time - 4/18/2007 5:55:01 AM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		i was in the process of moving from miami to orlando and Master lived up closer to orlando.  So, for some reason, after talking to him on the phone one night at the hotel - i decided to drive out and meet him.  At 2 am.  At his house.  And my license was suspended.  And i didnt know the area very well.  But screw it!  So i drove out to his house and picked him up.  Except i scooted over to the passenger seat before he came out.  When he got in the car.. i just got this feel from him of a big cuddly teady bear.  As we drove back - i'm trying to look at him and not look at him... and he just seemed so sweet and soft.  Then he hands me handcuffs.  Doesnt say a word, just hands me handcuffs.  i remember thinking "hrmmmmm"  i put them on, cuffing my hands behind my back.  He told me to open my legs (skirt and all) and i remember thinking - isnt this abit too fast to be in my pants already, but again - i didnt say a word.  Just sat there thinking.  So we needed gas and at the gas station he uncuffed me.  i got out the car as he filled up the tank and i hugged him.  Wonderful hug.  He asked me what i thought of becoming his collared slave and i said something along the lines of it sounding good to me.  Poof i was collared.  Of course, thinking in the back of my head that if things didnt go well - i could "poof" uncollar myself.  i was new to the whole "collaring" thing and obviously didnt take it too seriously.... 

So we're back on the road to my hotel and i get lost.  i for the LIFE of me couldnt remember how to get back to the hotel.  New area, first night there.. can we say "uh oh???"  I hate being lost so at this point i'm riddled with anxiety and thinking i was covering it well.  He told me to smoke a cigeratte to calm myself down.. eventually we found my hotel....

The next day he tied me and whupped my ass.  i remember thinking then......... "uh crap!!  i've just let a stranger tie me up and i am now rendered helpless"  Didnt occur to me until that point - thats specifically what being tied up does! Yet, i lived through it and all was well.  The rest of the day and the next day were awesome.. we had a good time and i fell head over heels for him.  Its now been 2 1/2 years. 


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RE: First Time - 4/18/2007 6:31:54 PM   
sweetstorm


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Status: offline 		I met my Dom as a vanilla hook-up off a website. We had a casual lunch, I thought He was cute and polite and He tried not to stare at my breasts too obviously despite the extremely low-cut top I wore on purpose (hey, I was just trying to get laid) which I thought was cute too. I LOVED His voice and listening to Him talk throughout the meal. He was intelligent and gentle and polite.

I was a submissive, He was curious about the Lifestyle but hadn't really dabbled much. We continued to hookup on a regular basis and I loved His confidence and His curiosity. He had the AIR about Him of a dominant and I found myself submitting to Him and encouraging any dominant traits that I saw (I LOVE it when You tell me what to do...) I gradually introduced Him to kink and He took off running like He was born into it.  Nilla to Dom in three months. The best Dom I've ever had. 

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