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RE: Groveling - 4/21/2007 1:43:06 PM

MasterGremlin

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ORIGINAL: OedipusRexIt

What are the thoughts of other Doms (this being "Ask a Master") about grovelling behavior from a partner?

Like it? Hate it? Find it common or uncommon behavior?

...I'll offer my own thoughts later, so as not to hijack my own thread.

I have only groveled once. It was during an arguement and I was very angry and said something very mean and hateful and pretty much knew it was wrong as it came out of my mouth. When I saw the just anger in His eyes I fell to the floor on my belly at His feet and expressed my regret at having said what I did over and over for close to an hour. He didn't move, He didn't say a word.

Other than that, Master often encourages begging for things during a scene, but not groveling.

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RE: Groveling - 6/7/2007 10:43:59 PM

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I love groveling, especially if combined with begging and crawling.
If you enjoy humilation, I mean isn't groveling behavior amusing?

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RE: Groveling - 6/7/2007 10:51:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I love groveling, especially if combined with begging and crawling.
If you enjoy humilation, I mean isn't groveling behavior amusing?

I agree, as long as I'm the one being groveled too, and I'm not busy reading or something important, It's the bomb!

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RE: Groveling - 6/8/2007 3:42:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: OedipusRexIt

What are the thoughts of other Doms (this being "Ask a Master") about grovelling behavior from a partner?

Like it? Hate it? Find it common or uncommon behavior?

...I'll offer my own thoughts later, so as not to hijack my own thread.

Valyraen's thought when asked "What do you think of me groveling?" was "Nah." So I'm pretty sure he's not into it.

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RE: Groveling - 6/8/2007 6:54:39 PM

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i have to agree with most here. groveling isnt part of our relationship. however begging is another story and its used mostly in a playful setting. when we were 350 miles apart and i was planning to visit Master he would hint at something that might happen when i got down there, and that if i begged him correctly i might find out the answer. my 'begs " ranged from your typical expected things, to me getting extremely creative using word games, crossword puzzles, etc to present to him. it was a lot of fun for both of us. since neither one of us is into humiliation, groveling doesnt have an impact on our lives.

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RE: Groveling - 6/8/2007 7:03:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: OedipusRexIt

What are the thoughts of other Doms (this being "Ask a Master") about grovelling behavior from a partner?

Like it? Hate it? Find it common or uncommon behavior?

...I'll offer my own thoughts later, so as not to hijack my own thread.

For me, it depends on the context. Having a submissive beg for something she really wants, whether in play or outside of play, can be very amusing and I love the humiliation/feed-into-dominant's-control aspects of it. When she does it for something that she has been told "No" to and the only reason she is begging is because she doesn't want to follow my plan, she wants to follow her plan or have things her way, then I do not find it appealing.

Groveling is a different situation. I had a submissive who loved a particular type of play. Loved it, craved it almost. Knowing this, there were times when I would stop before she was ready...before I was ready...just because I knew she would not only beg me to continue but that the begging would become groveling. In that context, it was great. In a situation where it was used to try and build me up falsely or to try and "buy" her way out of discipline or punishment with no real remorse being felt by her and her only regret being that she was going to be disciplined harshly and hating that...no, it does not appeal to me at all.

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RE: Groveling - 6/10/2007 10:09:14 AM

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greetings oedipusrexit,

He doesn't like groveling or begging; that kind of behavior usually earns a faceslap and not the warm fuzzy kind. His philosophy on it is He'll do what He wants when He wants to do it; i'm expected to tell Him what i want/need, but not beg or grovel.

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