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Advice and opinions wanted from foot worshipers - 4/19/2007 12:33:15 PM

onestandingstill

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Hello All,
I'm volunteering to work at my local dungeon tonight for a foot fetish party.
It's not I'm into feet or foot worship, just scheduled at the beginning of the month.
Initially when I first found the scene I thought hey, maybe I'd let guys rub my feet as my feet are sore often and it would be a relaxing thing to get a foot massage.
One of the first guys who I spoke to about having him rub my feet explained to him touching a womans foot was much like screwing her to him.
That made me stop looking for free foot rubs right on the spot.

Well now a Domme friend of mine is saying she thinks tonight there will be a shortage of girls with feet to rub at this event and would I be willing to let these foot fetish guys do my feet.

Again for me it's only a massage and not sexual for me in any way.
I'm sort of torn as I'm concerned with the fact I'm now reflecting on this is a big deal and highly personal for these guys that my approach and theirs leave us under a much separated energy exchange.

How do you guys who are into foot worship feel about rubbing people who are just there for the foot rub?
Would you feel my approach disrespects the D/s exchanges since I'm not a top in any way and I'm not into feet or foot worship?
Would you be happy rubbing a strangers feet who's not interested in anything other than friendship?

For those who are not into feet how would you feel about someone who views foot massage as a sexual stimulant and them submitting to you in their mind, while you're just getting a foot rub in yours?
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RE: Advice and opinions wanted from foot worshipers - 4/19/2007 12:43:58 PM

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How do you guys who are into foot worship feel about rubbing people who are just there for the foot rub?

My partner prefers when the other person is into it- shows that they are enjoying it and feeling good, but otherwise that's fine. He'd enjoy the usage and it's not necessarily sexual for him.

"Foot fetish" is actually a very varied kink, with tons of possible motivations and turn ons.

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Would you feel my approach disrespects the D/s exchanges since I'm not a top in any way and I'm not into feet or foot worship?

No, most foot guys aren't NECESSARILY into the kink part or Ds part. If you have to give permission, that's more than enough for them to play with.

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Would you be happy rubbing a strangers feet who's not interested in anything other than friendship?

People who come to a foot night? Absolutely. There are parties all over America JUST for foot play.

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For those who are not into feet how would you feel about someone who views foot massage as a sexual stimulant and them submitting to you in their mind, while you're just getting a foot rub in yours?

That was pretty much my entire situation with my partner for our first year together. I liked that he was pleasing me, but wasn't really into the foot thing. Over time I grew to feed on HIS energy from it and he's really good with his fingers and tongue.

Just be clear with boundaries and feel free to be demanding with what they said they would give. Foot fetishists can be really pushy and really BAD at actually making feet feel good. Wear shoes that make your arch curve nicely but are easy to get on and off.

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RE: Advice and opinions wanted from foot worshipers - 4/19/2007 12:58:30 PM

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Thanks for the response LA.
I appreciate the words a lot.
It helps me with the concern I'm disrespecting their kink I have .
suzanne

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RE: Advice and opinions wanted from foot worshipers - 4/19/2007 1:08:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill
Thanks for the response LA.
I appreciate the words a lot.
It helps me with the concern I'm disrespecting their kink I have .
suzanne

Versus going to a party they have to pay $60 just to get in the door, then pay $20 for every ten minutes after asking a super hot girl they know is only there for the money just to get her to put her feet in his hands while she gabs with her girlfriends...most guys find this option an absolute dream come true :)

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