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tempest1961 -> What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 5:40:50 AM)
Instead of hijacking the thread over in "Ask a sub" I figured I'd start a new thread over here... What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? Me? I would: Give up my freedom to chase random bitches Give up my food to feed her Give up my spare time to train her and care for her Look for a better job so I could buy her nicer rewards (same hours worked, I'm just lazy about looking...) Give up my right to go to play parties (OUCH) Give up SOME of the time I spend with the whelps and packfriends Give up my dietary preferences to try the new things she prepared Give up my right to run alone....

velvetears -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 5:44:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tempest1961 What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? Give up my freedom to chase random bitches Well aren't you a catch, what a sacrifice! [&:]

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 6:03:01 AM)
i can answer this one for Daddy (because we discussed this last night) and He didn't have to give up anything to own me ...same as i didn't have to give up anything to belong to Him.

TigerNINTails -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 7:16:28 AM)
What I'd give up... Any chance of being vanilla.[:D] Peace. Tora

xBullx -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 7:21:45 AM)
Greetings, Set down the bong and slowly step away. If you are giving up things to own, you are owned, you surrendered your freedom to exist as the master, so enough said on that. If you have the girl for you, she will enhance your life and not detract from it, stop using the threads to troll for chickies and advertise yourself. Bull

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 7:37:17 AM)
Everything except my sense of self and the commitments we value together.

RythymMan -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 7:59:31 AM)
I gave up Normalcy, and about half of my closet space. I wasn't in there that much anyway. B.

Kinkypupper -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 8:18:59 AM)
(While I do like XbullX's reply...) One should NOT give up anything to own a slave. The slave however does give up "self". And Why do they do this: a. The inner desire to be controlled and to submit. b. To want more in a relationship then just a marriage. c. To trust and be trusted without reservation. d. To not have to worry or make choices. e. To serve anything else is just "stuff"

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 8:21:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper The slave however does give up "self". Actually I find that most slaves FIND themselves and become MORE of who they are in a fulfilling relationships. quote: c. To trust and be trusted without reservation. Ownership doesn't automatically entail this. quote: d. To not have to worry or make choices. HA most slaves WISH they had this sort of charmed life. quote: e. To serve anything else is just "stuff" If they are choosing to be owned based on their own inner desires, they aren't they staying true to themselves and actualizing their own selves by choosing to be in a relationship as a slave? And masters can and do give up a lot to own slaves- it's worse than having a baby in a lot of ways.

SimplyMichael -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 10:25:22 AM)
For me, I ONLY want a woman who can enrich and expand my life and I can only do that if I change to except that enrichment and expansion. I have given up meat, I have left my urban setting to live in deepest darkest suburbia, I have gone to church. I have never given up my core values but I have seen them mature, grow, and expand because of my involvement with my partners and I would have it no other way.

szobras -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 10:28:49 AM)
The fantasy for the reality.

SquirtMistress -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 11:20:14 AM)
I cant top the last guy! I totally agree.

N4SDChastity -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 3:39:19 PM)
HEY! Wait, She's a sub, right? Why should I, a DOMly Dom, give up ANYTHING?!?!?! Can't I just go over and TAKE her?[:D]

Suleiman -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 4:12:29 PM)
I prefer to take the slow approach and find someone who wants what I already have too much of. That way, I'm not giving up anything, and they still get what they want/need. Takes a while, but it can be done.

MadRabbit -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 4:18:58 PM)
I prefer to think of it in terms of "What do I have to sacrifice to make sure her best interests are preserved?" Much like a responsibile parent sacrifices things for the best interest of their child. However, if the quality of my life is deteriatoring, something is defiently wrong.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 4:19:26 PM)
That doesnt sound liek you are giving up anything to own a slave. It sounds more like you are settling into a mongamous relationship, Vanillas do this all the time when they pair up. The only thing I gave up to own Angel were my expectations of what a perfect slave might be. I have found that by giving up what I expected of the fantasy slave I had in mind, the hapier we have been at what has been allowed to grow and develop. So, I would be more than willing to give up my unreasliztic expectations as well as my assumptions about how things should go. There are other things I gave up after I had him, like my distrust of someone being out of contact for long periods of time. There are many negative things I have given up to own, and I would do it again. I have not had to give up anything positive in my life, Angel has been brought into my life to make me happy. I should not have to give up anything I enjoy in order to me a better owner. DV

MrTime -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 4:21:12 PM)
I didn't give up anything to own her, I don't consider moving 16,000 miles to a new country giving anything up. It made more sense and was easier than moving her to my country

AquaticSub -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 4:56:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tempest1961 Instead of hijacking the thread over in "Ask a sub" I figured I'd start a new thread over here... What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? Me? I would: Give up my freedom to chase random bitches Give up my food to feed her Give up my spare time to train her and care for her Look for a better job so I could buy her nicer rewards (same hours worked, I'm just lazy about looking...) Give up my right to go to play parties (OUCH) Give up SOME of the time I spend with the whelps and packfriends Give up my dietary preferences to try the new things she prepared Give up my right to run alone.... While I don't know if Valyraen would say he gave up anything to be with me, I would say that if someone wanted to own me, there is one thing they might have to give up. I refuse to be around illegal drugs or have them in my home, so if someone wanted to own me they'd have to stop using entirely. I don't care if my friends use them, but I won't be with someone who does.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 5:19:04 PM)
Daddy didn't give up anything to be with me. He gained everything and then some.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? (4/20/2007 5:25:39 PM)
Just for the record, you don't have to stop going to play parties or chasing other wenches, just find a girl who has no problem with that behavoir. quote: ORIGINAL: tempest1961 Instead of hijacking the thread over in "Ask a sub" I figured I'd start a new thread over here... What would you give up to own your sub/slave?? Me? I would: Give up my freedom to chase random bitches Give up my food to feed her Give up my spare time to train her and care for her Look for a better job so I could buy her nicer rewards (same hours worked, I'm just lazy about looking...) Give up my right to go to play parties (OUCH) Give up SOME of the time I spend with the whelps and packfriends Give up my dietary preferences to try the new things she prepared Give up my right to run alone....

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