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RE: Verbal humiliation - 4/26/2007 7:08:52 AM

tsatske

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Someone mentioned that verbal humiliation sometimes comes in the form of what the sub is made to say, as well as what the Top says.
In my last relationship, there were certain words that were, by his definition, reserved for use by 'free women'. The polite, euphemistic or scientific names for body parts, bodily functions, and sexual acts. I was not allowed to use those words, and had to find coarser words to communicate those things to him. Not, "Can we make love?" but, "Please, please fuck me." Not, "May I masturbate?" but, "May I please fuck myself?" Not, "May I go to the bathroom?" but, "May I please piss?"
I love most names -- slut, whore, ect. That Master in particular never called me whore because he didn't like the term. Which is surely a Master's right.
I do not mind being called 'fat' or 'pig', ect, in a scene environment. I find it deeply humiliating, but that works. I have, in the past, negotiated with a Top to have play sessions built around rather I was successful in my dieting on a given week, using those terms and other humiliation play that went with them.

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RE: Verbal humiliation - 4/26/2007 7:46:20 AM

MellowSir

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For some it's all they have known as a child, so it's the only kind of attention and "love" they've known.....

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RE: Verbal humiliation - 4/26/2007 2:22:28 PM

IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

There is always the classic "you are so fucking stupid, you vote republican", works on some.

LMAO that one got the chuckle of the day award

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RE: Verbal humiliation - 5/4/2007 1:32:58 PM

solvr70

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there are probably as many flavors of this as there are colors in the spectrum.

what this brings to mind to me is a great degree of name calling when in private. bitch, whore, slut, cocksucker, etc. as well as having the sub agree and return admitting that would be what they are.

in public, the same verbal & name-calling would be there, but more a whisper in the sub's ear, and possibly extending to having a sub-m excuse himself from a table, fill, or as full as possible, a shot glass with cum, then return, and then in front of a Domme, drink it down. the sub and Domme knowing what the sub was doing, but it not being known to all around what the sub-m was doing.

just some thoughts...

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