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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/22/2007 8:57:01 PM

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Don't have one. Have never used one from either side of things. Works for me.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/22/2007 10:36:21 PM

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Soup = yellow
Ministronie =red

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/22/2007 10:59:45 PM

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I am one of those who uses red as a safe word. I want something that has the association with stop in other facets of life. Honestly, I do not expect my sub to ever safeword. I love to take him to just the point where he'd need to use it and then back down just a touch so he doesn't. But if something goes wrong and he ever does need to use it, I dont' want to be left thinking.. "Huh? What does he mean by supercalifragilisticexpialidocious." I desire clear and concise communication.

Now the safeword that tickles me most is the one our Munch organizer gave his lil girl. She is to say in a loud voice.. "Dude, that's harsh." Since most of their play is done in a public dungeon, in front of other people, she says she thinks she'll be too embarrassed to ever say it.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/22/2007 11:42:11 PM

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Mine is Eclipse... something i would never say randomly. My partners is Care Bears, another word that isnt normally used. I have never used mine, we are both new to this, he has used his.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/23/2007 4:35:57 AM

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The one we use is Panera...where we had our first meeting. When he cries out panera I know it means slow the swats down.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/23/2007 6:29:17 AM

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Fox still has his safeword (Red) because even though he is my slave I cannot know what is going on in his body or mind at all times. Sorry, not a telepathic, I know my limits.

I don't think he's seriously used it in years. He teasingly uses it like when we are discussing tv shows or movies or when refering to social situtations that we might encounter.

Primarily we use basic communication and awareness built up over years.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/23/2007 6:44:21 AM

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We just use yellow or red, and if I recall correctly i've used the former, and not the latter.

I once had a Dom who requested "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" as a safe word (yes, seriously) because he felt that saying something that long winded would give me time to sort out my headspace ("Do I really need to stop?"). NOT because it was disgraceful or shameful or wussy to safeword, but to really sort in my head how I felt and what needed to be done about it. In those days I was a lot more shy and hesistant and nervous. Came in handy then, but dont need it now. If I started to say it, he'd stop and wait patiently for me to finish the word, but I HAD to finish the word to stop the scene.

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RE: What is your safeword? - 4/23/2007 8:02:42 AM

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I use red and yellow but as of yet he has not used either. Our communication is pretty good so all he has to do is tell me when things become a bit to intense.

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