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angelikaJ -> RE: I am so sick of this crap...are you? (12/10/2007 4:14:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyHugs
Dear ErusUxor, Ladies and Gentlemen;
When someone externally tries to upset you from your throne/nest/happiness/position/power base and or club/group membership-- it is because they want that spot and or what you have and they cannot have without dirty tactics, envy, jealousy and so forth but--mostly insecurity is what I find in people who have to attack others and do so towards everybody. It is an appearance 'thing.'
If a person and or persons wanted to get rid of me so much--I would stay, as I would really like to see why. If using old ammunition, its already known and the blackmail factor/power and potency is gone. New ammunition I would worry about.
Most times when a few are on the attack, its all political and or popularity motivated--nothing really other than jealousy, envy and insecurity against an established power and or reputation. Some thrive on upsetting people. Drama makers per se.
Now, if it was a person who rarely if at all spoke ill of someone--I would pay attention.
It is extremely frustrating, upsetting and puts a strain on anybody--let alone relationships and friends who are related and are suffering because of association. But, once you understand it is a bully tactic and a quest for power and control--you can thwart it by knowing what is happening and only control what is in your private world. One cannot control others how to behave and or think--only you can control yourselves.
Just some thoughts.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
Lady Hugs,
Your thoughtful replies make any thread worth reading.
sincerely,
jenn
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