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RE: need advice - 5/6/2005 6:49:47 AM

OrdinaryMaster

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I look at it this way, if you need to say something, say it. Don't beat around the bush. Be open and honest and say what's on your mind and in your heart. It's much better to be honest then to not let your true feelings be known. If your Master is doing something which bothers you, let him know. My feeling is that if all is well in your relationship, you'll have no problems approaching him in a respectful and honest manner.

Good luck.

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RE: need advice - 5/6/2005 7:43:29 AM

Mercnbeth

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As his slave do you give him the pleasing answer of no of course you do not have that fault or do you tell him the truth.

it has been this slave's experience that the "pleasing" answer IS the truth.

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RE: need advice - 5/6/2005 12:25:09 PM

Callgrl222

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need some advice , was talking to this so called dom , for what seams like months , hes in texas iam in va , well iam in texas visiting a friend , now hes making all kinds of excuses not to see me , only has his phone turned on at wild hrs of the nite , wants all this cyber stuff , and phone stuff , doesnt have anyintensions of meeting , Should i let this bother me or just blow it off , Dam shame this person is just using this site as a form of intertainment , sincerely ,, shayne

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RE: need advice - 5/6/2005 12:43:35 PM

Padriag

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Sounds like a married man not wanting to get caught. But to answer your question its fairly simple, what do you want? If you want real life and this guy is only offering online fun, then obviously he's not offering you what you want... next. On the other hand if you're happy with online fun, then what is the problem? Make it simple for yourself, break things down to what you are looking for, and if someone can't offer you that, either leave it at friends or just bid them a polite farewell.

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RE: need advice - 5/6/2005 12:57:45 PM

Callgrl222

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thanks ,

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RE: need advice - 7/7/2005 12:46:46 PM

SirDiscipliner69

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Communication...trust..honesty seem to be a good working foundation for any relationship...

To mislead may cause backlash when dealing with more important issues that may come to pass...

you could always say with a twinkle in your eye and a smile upon your face.. "do you want Me to sayw whay you want to hear or do you want the truth dear?" or something to that effect...

Be yourself and communication remains open with truth...

imho

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