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ORIGINAL: minnetar

You were the one who said you are a slave yet in the same breath you are talking about your needs.  Do you understand that a slave has none?  Your basic argument with her is about wanting your needs fulfilled as she has said she has none.  How can you argue the two?

minnetar

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Or maybe it's the only place where men are educated enough to admit to it. This idea was expressed by all the men in my sexuality class. Their proweress as a lover was validated by the number and quality of their partner's orgasms.

Personally, I prefer to let my partner comment on my prowess as a lover, but I digress.

I don't seek validation, whether in terms of orgasm count, or anything else. I do aim to have a content, fulfilled and happy partner, but whether that relates to my prowess as a lover, or something else entirely, will depend on what that partner wants.

In daddysprop's example, orgasms don't factor into it. In yours, it does (IIRC).

I don't dispute that many men need that for validation, though. Just objecting to the idea that all men do, or that all men are wired the same. Just like I don't think all women are wired the same. No more than two kinds of people? There's a depressing thought...

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

 I can't tie a cherry stem into a knot with my tongue, but I can take a hint, and I'm nothing if not persistent. That usually does the trick, or so I hear.

Else, I'm not at all adverse to learning to do better. I'm a perfectionist, after all. [:D]

The ED puts a clamp on any attempts to go the missionary route, though. [:(]

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing.

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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

you can corner me if you want....thats fine...i wasnt trying to insult anyone...i am merely stating how i feel...and that is ........in my opinion .......if my partner was not caring about my sexual response i would consider him selfish and uncaring and would look for a different partner...if that makes me bad or wrong then i guess i am....

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing.

Wow. If you display that level of respect out in the real world, at least you won't have to worry about being invited back to a second munch.

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing.

Wow. If you display that level of respect out in the real world, at least you won't have to worry about being invited back to a second munch.

thanks bubbles, I don't live to eat, I eat to live - you can have my portion :)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing.

Wow. If you display that level of respect out in the real world, at least you won't have to worry about being invited back to a second munch.

thanks bubbles, I don't live to eat, I eat to live - you can have my portion :)

Uhh... you do realize that a munch doesn't really have anything to do with food right? It's a gathering of lifestyle people.

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

Again, you can have my portion.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

Again, you can have my portion.

Charming to the last. Fortunately, I'll happily take your portion of socializing with lifestyle people off the internet in the real world. From what I've found, they tend to be more grounded then those who carelessly fling insults around. 

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

Again, you can have my portion.

Charming to the last. Fortunately, I'll happily take your portion of socializing with lifestyle people off the internet in the real world. From what I've found, they tend to be more grounded then those who carelessly fling insults around. 

Oh Aquatic, I don't think she is doing it carelessly. It seems as though she is working hard at trying to insult & snark her way through the forums [;)] .

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

Again, you can have my portion.

Charming to the last. Fortunately, I'll happily take your portion of socializing with lifestyle people off the internet in the real world. From what I've found, they tend to be more grounded then those who carelessly fling insults around. 

Oh Aquatic, I don't think she is doing it carelessly. It seems as though she is working hard at trying to insult & snark her way through the forums [;)] .

*chuckles* Generally I consider insulting someone who just defended your position effectively careless, even if they did just point out some bad behavior. Frankly, I would have expected that comment to come our resident troll, not her.

Edited to add: Darn it, I didn't notice until after I posted. Think it's too late to go play? [:)]

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5


Charming is important.

You both could use some :)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5


Charming is important.

You both could use some :)

Considering I didn't tell someone "You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing."

I think my charm skills are fine.

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5


Considering you didn't think it either rude or insulting, and saw no reason to comment when the waitress slave attacked higher education as drivel or when the male agreed with her, you effectively condoned that sort of thing.

My observations stand... ALL males, including yours are nothing without female validation. This is why I'll continue to associate in r/t with hardcore women rather than confused flakes. At the same time your needs  are real too and so I'm more than willing to cede my portion of any munches to you.

If your unwilling to serve justice to all, your just another partisan commentator who lacks charm.

Behave :)

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ORIGINAL: peepeegirl5

You and the waitress should get together and discuss the horrors of education in the privacy of your own home.

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Your DNA screams for validation slave. Without a woman you are nothing.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

To tell you the truth, it really is the trick. I've been with a fair number of partners (probably more then my fair share! [:D]) and I much prefer a man who is persistent and can take a hint.

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Shame about the missionary, but from what I hear I'm in the minority of women who prefer it. Ahh well... at least I'm happy in my minority! [:)]

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

If you feel that being a slave is something intrinsic to my nature, you're welcome to drop by and show me any time you decide to go for a vacation in Norway. Can't promise to make it easy, though.
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ORIGINAL: cjenny

Oh Aquatic, I don't think she is doing it carelessly. It seems as though she is working hard at trying to insult & snark her way through the forums [;)] .