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MiladyAngelique -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/29/2007 9:46:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MsCameron

One word :)

Waxing!


MC... the sadist :)


hehehe I was thinking that exact same thing, and I am not a sadist




Mysia -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/29/2007 10:00:24 AM)

For purely visual attraction, I prefer them with some meat, not too much fat, and never bone thin.

For reality, and relationship--not a scene...Tone is good because I'll work your butt off (non-sexually). Body builders and weight lifters do nothing for me.  My sub is bone, bone thin. Can't keep weight on him it seems. He is fit and strong and tone.




MysticFireTopaz -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/29/2007 11:28:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: needDomme
Do Femdommes enjoy dominating a male slave more if he is muscular and has an athletic body? I would think so, but I'd like to hear what the Femdommes have to say about this subject. Thanks.
need


No, not really.  To me, the mental and emotional connection is much more important than the physical.  Of course, it is important that the slave practice good grooming and hygiene, but his physical appearance isn't of paramount importance to me.  I am more attracted to honesty, loyalty, intelligence, dependability, respectfulness, emotional stability, and compatible interests than physical appearance.
 
True, I do have a preferred physical type.  I do prefer dark hair and dark eyes, from 2 - 6 inches taller than myself, and some meat on the bones.  However, most of the subs I have owned were not of this physical type and it really didn't matter. 
 
Also, I am not particularly atheltic or toned myself, so I don't think it would be fair for me to impose standards on others that I don't meet myself, though this isn't uncommon.
 
Lady Topaz




DianeB269 -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/29/2007 3:52:51 PM)

My subs and ex-subs know better then to come for strapon training without shaving
their butts.
If they are not shaved, I bend them over my knee and pluck the hairs with tweezers.


Diane




Unrepentant1 -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/30/2007 2:05:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

My subs and ex-subs know better then to come for strapon training without shaving
their butts.
If they are not shaved, I bend them over my knee and pluck the hairs with tweezers.


Diane



Diane, I know have a picture in my head of you doing that and cant stop chuckling, thanks for that, just what I needed after a bad day! lol




Calandra -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/30/2007 2:33:55 PM)

I honestly don't care how a slave looks outwardly so long as he is clean and neat and makes the most of himself. If he is underweight, I may place him on a diet to boost his body weight.
 
If he is overweight, I may place him on a diet and exercise regimen designed to help him lose weight and/or strengthen his heart and lower cholesterol.
 
For Me, it isn't about sexuality as much as it's about health and their flexibility in being able to serve Me in any way they can for as LONG as they can.
 
A healthy slave is a happy slave




MistressRouge -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/30/2007 4:04:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Unrepentant1

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: TigressFL

I want the option to play rough without thinking I am going to damage them easily.


Same here. Although I would say that muscular definitely fits the bill, as well. Muscles do a very good job of absorbing and distributing the impact of a blow, while not affecting how it impacts the skin. Fat mostly cushions the blow, which reduces the impact (force equals mass times deceleration; deceleration is velocity divided by time; cushioning extends the time, like an airbag).

When we do martial arts practice, we do a fair bit of work on the muscles, particularly the supporting muscles and the ligaments, but also the bulk musculature. The reason for this is that we go full-contact (some call it "hard contact") during practice, and when taking a blow (whether bone clusters, wood or something else delivers it) the muscles serve to prevent injury.

Of course, it does nothing to prevent half your lower arm from swelling and bruising if someone gets a decent hit in. [:D]



I train in martial arts too. I can crush a brazil but between My thighs lol.




Cringes at the thought of my nuts between your thighs, lol.


A whole new meaning to the nutcracker lol [:D]




Unrepentant1 -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (4/30/2007 11:38:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Unrepentant1

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: TigressFL

I want the option to play rough without thinking I am going to damage them easily.


Same here. Although I would say that muscular definitely fits the bill, as well. Muscles do a very good job of absorbing and distributing the impact of a blow, while not affecting how it impacts the skin. Fat mostly cushions the blow, which reduces the impact (force equals mass times deceleration; deceleration is velocity divided by time; cushioning extends the time, like an airbag).

When we do martial arts practice, we do a fair bit of work on the muscles, particularly the supporting muscles and the ligaments, but also the bulk musculature. The reason for this is that we go full-contact (some call it "hard contact") during practice, and when taking a blow (whether bone clusters, wood or something else delivers it) the muscles serve to prevent injury.

Of course, it does nothing to prevent half your lower arm from swelling and bruising if someone gets a decent hit in. [:D]



I train in martial arts too. I can crush a brazil but between My thighs lol.




Cringes at the thought of my nuts between your thighs, lol.


A whole new meaning to the nutcracker lol [:D]



Yes, but this idea is far more interesting, scary but fun, lol.




LadyPact -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 2:31:40 AM)

I've always tended to prefer the non-muscular types.   Must be something about the type of sub I attract.




Unrepentant1 -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 1:18:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I've always tended to prefer the non-muscular types.   Must be something about the type of sub I attract.


Do they seem easier to control to you?




Action -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 2:01:52 PM)

I have some basic looks Im atrracted to.

Males:

Dog - My close friend is a dom, but becuase of our close friendship and becuase I am quiet small and girlish yet a very confident Dom, he enjoys letting me make him my Puppy. He never lets anyone do such a thing except me so he's not a conventional Sub so to say. He loves the idea of being my partner in crime, joining in my sessions under my command and letting me collar him. He's big, ex military and very laid back. I adore having him becuase he's so big and mean looking, perfect looking on my dainty little least on my small girlish hand.

Pony- My lean lanky boy, he's not a "horse" he's basicly my show pony. He is sensative about his size becuase he would love to be more muscular and works our regularly playing tennis and volleyball a few hours a day, I love how lean he is, yet he is much taller then me. He feels elated when I show him off to my friends and yet again I like that he's smaller then me.

Kitten- A pure sissy boy, one I've yet to find acceptable, but one I hope to have someday, an utterly girlish boy that I can conviningly make into a girl, dress him up and have him dress me up in turn, an utter toy. Lithe, little, and dispite my small size I could probably physicaly overtake him.

Girls:

Curvy: I ADORE big chested girls, not terribly round, I love a little pudge to slap around and pinch and cuddle, I like to think of these girls as my bunnies.

Petite: My other favorite girl type are the ones with little to no curve, small little chest to slap hard and lean little body so I can wrap her up in an assortment of leathers and outfits to suit my tastes, one I can physicaly overtake, and have ride my lap on my strap on, to be my utter little fuck kitten. And one I can cross dress with.


I don't know if all this fits, but these are my favorite tastes, maybe others will see some similarities.




Rose4Mistress -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 2:12:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Action

I have some basic looks Im atrracted to.

Males:

Dog - My close friend is a dom, but becuase of our close friendship and becuase I am quiet small and girlish yet a very confident Dom, he enjoys letting me make him my Puppy. He never lets anyone do such a thing except me so he's not a conventional Sub so to say. He loves the idea of being my partner in crime, joining in my sessions under my command and letting me collar him. He's big, ex military and very laid back. I adore having him becuase he's so big and mean looking, perfect looking on my dainty little least on my small girlish hand.

Pony- My lean lanky boy, he's not a "horse" he's basicly my show pony. He is sensative about his size becuase he would love to be more muscular and works our regularly playing tennis and volleyball a few hours a day, I love how lean he is, yet he is much taller then me. He feels elated when I show him off to my friends and yet again I like that he's smaller then me.

Kitten- A pure sissy boy, one I've yet to find acceptable, but one I hope to have someday, an utterly girlish boy that I can conviningly make into a girl, dress him up and have him dress me up in turn, an utter toy. Lithe, little, and dispite my small size I could probably physicaly overtake him.

Girls:

Curvy: I ADORE big chested girls, not terribly round, I love a little pudge to slap around and pinch and cuddle, I like to think of these girls as my bunnies.

Petite: My other favorite girl type are the ones with little to no curve, small little chest to slap hard and lean little body so I can wrap her up in an assortment of leathers and outfits to suit my tastes, one I can physicaly overtake, and have ride my lap on my strap on, to be my utter little fuck kitten. And one I can cross dress with.


I don't know if all this fits, but these are my favorite tastes, maybe others will see some similarities.


sounds like you are pretty much an equal opportunity employer! ^.^




Action -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 2:16:22 PM)

:3 Almost, I will say I've handled overweight and unhealthy individuals before and I am not a fan. There is a difference to me, from chubby to overweight, and lithe to underfed. Also I do have one older sub in his mid 40's but I generaly don't like older subs of either gender. Since I am young I like to have younger less experinced slaves, becuase I don't claim to be a fully educated Mistress yet so I like to learn and grow with my pets.




Mustardseed -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/1/2007 5:23:58 PM)

Meh. I find looks important, but not that particular type of look. I want to want to touch the person. If I have to try to find ways to make myself want to, there's something wrong. I actually perfer long-haired fat geeks -- tall if they're men -- I like the hedonist look. [:D] I'm open to persuasion, but the personality really has to click with mine before I'll be swayed much.




DesireDeeva -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (5/5/2007 6:06:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: needDomme

Do Femdommes enjoy dominating a male slave more if he is muscular and has an athletic body?


Yes, I enjoy dominating tall,well groomed, athletic males, it's a huge turn-on 4 me.




switchsecrets -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (6/23/2007 7:40:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Action

I have some basic looks Im atrracted to.

Males:

Dog - My close friend is a dom, but becuase of our close friendship and becuase I am quiet small and girlish yet a very confident Dom, he enjoys letting me make him my Puppy. He never lets anyone do such a thing except me so he's not a conventional Sub so to say. He loves the idea of being my partner in crime, joining in my sessions under my command and letting me collar him. He's big, ex military and very laid back. I adore having him becuase he's so big and mean looking, perfect looking on my dainty little least on my small girlish hand.

Pony- My lean lanky boy, he's not a "horse" he's basicly my show pony. He is sensative about his size becuase he would love to be more muscular and works our regularly playing tennis and volleyball a few hours a day, I love how lean he is, yet he is much taller then me. He feels elated when I show him off to my friends and yet again I like that he's smaller then me.

Kitten- A pure sissy boy, one I've yet to find acceptable, but one I hope to have someday, an utterly girlish boy that I can conviningly make into a girl, dress him up and have him dress me up in turn, an utter toy. Lithe, little, and dispite my small size I could probably physicaly overtake him.

Girls:

Curvy: I ADORE big chested girls, not terribly round, I love a little pudge to slap around and pinch and cuddle, I like to think of these girls as my bunnies.

Petite: My other favorite girl type are the ones with little to no curve, small little chest to slap hard and lean little body so I can wrap her up in an assortment of leathers and outfits to suit my tastes, one I can physicaly overtake, and have ride my lap on my strap on, to be my utter little fuck kitten. And one I can cross dress with.


I don't know if all this fits, but these are my favorite tastes, maybe others will see some similarities.



I'm trying to figure out what type of woman would most appreciate me. yeah, i know, maybe it's being selfish. but, you need that chemistry. i'm a switch and have an  androgynous  look (been called "pretty boy") kind of a cross between a pony and kitten based on your description (which is interesting to read) .  5'10"  170lbs.  lean muscle.  i work out but not to build up. just lean muscular dance type body. i used to be alot thinner and about 2 yrs ago i was 160lbs and  i decided to bulk up alittle because i was feminine looking. even kind of have a round little femine butt. and it doesn't grow hair on it either. i have a light amount of hair on my body and chest. i did shave my chest, but decided that i better try to look more masculine. i've had women cashiers accidently call me ma'am. i used to get embarrassed about this, but now i kind of smile. when i was a teenager, i occaisionally had a few guys mistake me for a girl and ask me to dance. i was really embarrassed, but now i look back and see how. i had longer hair then and was thin (135). i would say that bodytype wise, i'm a cross between an ectomorph and mesomorph. more leaning towards and ecto. if i had to pick out a bodytype that i resemble,  i'd say David Bowie. funny, that i can sing a few of his songs pretty darn good too (i really love getting into the role when singing "Rebel Rebel" or "All the young dudes") . i used to sing some at the bar and overheard people saying "he's bisexual".  which, i've never been with a guy, but have fantasized about it. but, don't care to act on it with one. i like women. it's just confusing, because i'm not this bulky macho guy that most women seem to want. for a long time i was attracted to an ectomorph bodied woman. either androgynous or feminine.i think because i related to them.they were kind of like my bud (but they tended to be sub and usually they were with guys that were husky type Doms), but that doesn't always work in a relationship. now, its more about what's in their mind and i like a woman who has a Dominant side or even a secretive masculine side to them.i now look at even a bigger type woman (which i didn't in the past)  with interest (especially if they show an interest in a slender guy) at this point in my life, i'm looking to be accepted and appreciated for who/what i am and not try to be something i'm not. just curious on what type of woman would appreciate a guy like this? 




LadyDominaX -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (6/23/2007 12:16:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: needDomme

Do Femdommes enjoy dominating a male slave more if he is muscular and has an athletic body? I would think so, but I'd like to hear what the Femdommes have to say about this subject. Thanks.

need


This holds true for me.  I like to know that their submission is given freely, not something I have to fight every step of the way to get.  If a man is muscular and fit, he is better able to serve me, as well as being visually appealing.  I do prefer men who are muscular without being muscle-bound though -- lean, flexible and muscular -- martial artists are almost a fetish for me.

That said, every Domme has a different set of preferences, so for every woman you ask, you'll doubtless get a different response.




LadyDominaX -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (6/23/2007 12:19:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: switchsecrets


I'm trying to figure out what type of woman would most appreciate me. yeah, i know, maybe it's being selfish. but, you need that chemistry. i'm a switch and have an  androgynous  look (been called "pretty boy") kind of a cross between a pony and kitten based on your description (which is interesting to read) .  5'10"  170lbs.  lean muscle.  i work out but not to build up. just lean muscular dance type body. i used to be alot thinner and about 2 yrs ago i was 160lbs and  i decided to bulk up alittle because i was feminine looking. even kind of have a round little femine butt. and it doesn't grow hair on it either. i have a light amount of hair on my body and chest. i did shave my chest, but decided that i better try to look more masculine. i've had women cashiers accidently call me ma'am. i used to get embarrassed about this, but now i kind of smile. when i was a teenager, i occaisionally had a few guys mistake me for a girl and ask me to dance. i was really embarrassed, but now i look back and see how. i had longer hair then and was thin (135). i would say that bodytype wise, i'm a cross between an ectomorph and mesomorph. more leaning towards and ecto. if i had to pick out a bodytype that i resemble,  i'd say David Bowie. funny, that i can sing a few of his songs pretty darn good too (i really love getting into the role when singing "Rebel Rebel" or "All the young dudes") . i used to sing some at the bar and overheard people saying "he's bisexual".  which, i've never been with a guy, but have fantasized about it. but, don't care to act on it with one. i like women. it's just confusing, because i'm not this bulky macho guy that most women seem to want. for a long time i was attracted to an ectomorph bodied woman. either androgynous or feminine.i think because i related to them.they were kind of like my bud (but they tended to be sub and usually they were with guys that were husky type Doms), but that doesn't always work in a relationship. now, its more about what's in their mind and i like a woman who has a Dominant side or even a secretive masculine side to them.i now look at even a bigger type woman (which i didn't in the past)  with interest (especially if they show an interest in a slender guy) at this point in my life, i'm looking to be accepted and appreciated for who/what i am and not try to be something i'm not. just curious on what type of woman would appreciate a guy like this? 


*Stands up waving & whistling*
David Bowie body type?
Not only do I appreciate that, but I can lead you to a number of other women who do as well.





GoddessinDallas -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (6/23/2007 12:26:45 PM)

Fantasies come in all shapes and sizes and so do my slaves.
I love them ALL.


www.dominatrixdallas.com




Renate234 -> RE: A Slave's Appearance (6/23/2007 11:35:48 PM)

I prefer them to have some substance (functional muscles are lovely); that way I can hurt them without worrying that I might damage them.  The taller the better.  It's hot, knowing that such a large man is bending to little 5'2" me.  <grin>






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