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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/28/2007 8:25:07 PM   
minnetar


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Status: offline 		Cherry this is what is so great as we have so much to offer each other.

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/28/2007 8:55:05 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		hisannabelle -just wow! i personally would love to hear what you have to say about meditation, that would be wonderful and as a writer who  is also in the lifestyle i'm sure you'd have much to contribute that many could learn from. thank you...

temptress...massage is also a grrreat thing,for people in general but slaves/subs it is a really valuable tool.

and minnetar...i couldn't agree with you more! This is part of why i really want to get this site going as soon as possible...am looking forward to hearing what everyone has to say...and learning from and helping others learn about our prospective journeys


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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 4:19:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Teaching anothers slave is for the birds,now as a professional trainer I"LL do it for a fee,week month or year.you pay to  learn the hard way here on the circle c...bounty

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 4:34:03 AM   
eroticangel


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Status: offline 		this is such a wonderful idea...so glad you thought to start it...i'm not sure what i could offer, i do know sports tho...but i will be faithfully reading and praising what you do...thanks charismagirrl!!!!

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 7:51:36 AM   
cinnfulhussy


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Status: offline 		I don't know that I have anything that I could teach by writing, that girls could not learn by googling.  I love google!
I could teach bellydance, cooking, baking etc.  but certainly not by writing.  There is a local group here, of submissive/slave types that meet every so often to share ideas, and teach each other ways that they might be more pleasing.  Some of the subjects that we have expressed interest in are learning to give a man a pedicure/manicure/facial/massage, learning about hookas and cigars, dancing,  home organization,  menu planning, cooking lessons, how to select coffee, grind and brew it, storytelling,  and I'm sure there are some subjects that I forget.  Not all of these subjects have been discussed/demonstrated, but are certainly ideas for future meetings.
I guess you could also utilize youtube and have girls submit video demos?  I know that for some things, I just learn better by watching instead of reading.


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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 10:31:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Bounty.. i am going to assume that you were being playful or fun:) (sorry if i am wrong)...this thread isn't about training it's about new skills that we "s" types can learn from eachother. Such as my quest to learn about baseball enough to watch it and converse about it with my Daddy.

erotic angel, you're welcome...and sports is something that is soooo way over my head so ogod bless you! Am trying to grasp them tho. :)

cinnfulhussy...now that could be a good idea-the whole youtube thing...you're absoultely right, some things, like discussed earlier (knitting) can be difficult or near to impossible to learn by reading alone. But, the things that can be  written out could be really useful....such as sports...or some of the cooking things...wine, cigars and others..maybe poker.

Everyone is really good at atleast something, some many more and then inevitbly there is always someone that wishes that they could do what someone else already knows how to.


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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 1:30:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

Bounty.. i am going to assume that you were being playful or fun:) (sorry if i am wrong)...this thread isn't about training it's about new skills that we "s" types can learn from eachother.


Except that your OP said:  "What can you do well that you could instruct another "s" about so that they might be more pleasing to their M or D?..."  which didn't mention physical "skills" at all, actually, so there could easily have been a misunderstaning.  I know I misunderstood your point, which is why I posted what I originally did. Not to pick on you, just saying it could have been misunderstood.  :)

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 2:57:30 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		Sorry for any confusion...i thought i was clear when i gave examples but maybe i wasn't...that sometimes happens....

Apologies being made...i did just re-read my OP and i gave a bunch of examples...such as the way some of the others are helping me learn about sports...how i can maybe help some one that would want to bake or decorate cakes. i also said i wanted to learn to play poker....i actually think i was pretty clear at what i meant...(very much like the scene in Breakfast Club when they're all telling eachother what kind of talent they have LOL)

But no matter what, even when speaking to someone in person or on the phone there is still room for misinterpretaion.....so on here, as is a common occurance, things can easily be misunderstood.

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 3:07:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Let's see me i am cerified in CPR and Basic first aid.  I also learned how to do sensual massage if you can use that let me know.  The sensual massage is hare to teachother then hands on but i could try.

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 4:27:26 PM   
starDF


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Status: offline 		After reading this thread, which I love, I have to say I wish I had some skills to share.  I cross stitch, know many sports, excel at Math and Science activities, do computer training (any software package), and have previously mentored newer submissives in various lifestyles (Gorean, Old Guard, Vampirism, and BDSM).  Otherwise, I feel kind of underskilled - LOL - Master was a chef and teaching me to cook, I'm not very domestic at all. Am still learning Tea Ceremonies and am well versed on the Geisha lifestyle/culture.

I guess I'd love to help others, its a passion of mine, but my skills seem minor LOL...

But thank you for the thread it's nice to be able to share with others. I'm trying to learn about Paganism, Herbalism, alternative medicine and a few other things to help and understand Master better

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 5:05:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only things I've got to offer over the internet are assistance in automotive maintenance/repair (especially BMW, Mercedes Benz, and Porsche), basic instructions on said topic, and I can also offer educational assistance if you're learning to fly.  Other than that, my talents mostly lie in things I'd need to teach in person.  If you want some assistance in either area, let me know.

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 5:54:56 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		greetings stardf,

i am very interested in the culture/lifestyle surrounding geisha...i would love to read anything you wrote about that, if you do end up writing on it :) it seems to me you have many skills to share.

annabelle.


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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 6:28:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

What can you do well that you could instruct another "s" about so that they might be more pleasing to their M or D?...



I can definetly help out with sewing (I had a grant in fashion design at one point, and I make a large majority of my clothing, as well as keep my Master's in repair, and I do alterations, refittings, etc.), and I can help with other things, one of which I will link here:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_873561/mpage_4/key_grace/tm.htm#876810
(mine is post # 68)- explaining graceful movement, which I would happily expand upon for your website.
I can do tutorials on formal dinner place settings, tea service, and playing host to parties, etc., instructions on personal care such as hair/makeup/clothing hints, and I love to cook, so you can hit me up for all sorts of recipies, too. Five course meals are my favorite, haha!
I also am not a certified personal trainer or anything, but I can help with exercise routines, etc., too- and especially anything dance based. Music is also my passion, so if a list of genres/styles and main people involved in them, characteristics, etc., would help, I can do that, too.
Or how about how to discuss art intelligently? I've done a seminar for future art historians on that, which was fun...
And if you need a tutorial in how to teach your slave to hang drywall and do basic home repairs, I like that stuff, too!

Just let me know what you want, if anything, or if there's anything else I didn't think of that you might need as well, and think I might be able to provide you with. If nothing else, I am really good at research, haha! Send me a message, whatever- and be sure to let us know when your site is up and running!

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 9:20:49 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		WOW! girl aren't you the well rounded and talented one! Horayyy for you!

Some of those things i have some knowledge of and didn't even think of them....but they so fit....thanks for the post...

In general it seems like there are alot of skills that we could share slave to slave to make the Ms or Ds happy.

i'm continuing to work on the site and please anyone that would like to contribute essays or tutorials hit me up on the other side and i will also be contacting you as well.




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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/29/2007 9:27:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

In my situation it wasnt about learning tasks or gaining knowledge in particular areas.  It was about becoming willing to open up and expose my inner self...to overcome fears and failings...to learn to express myself clearly, efficiently and appropriately...to learn when NOT to express myself (lol)...to let go of ego and expectations...to put him before myself...and to be willing to push myself for him.  Exploring and developing my submission was the main path toward being pleasing. The other skills were secondary to this.

Ahhhh..but what you speak of is MUCH harder then learning a craft to *me anyway*....however after reading what you have said i realize this is where my focus needs to be for now anyway...i thankyou for your insight.


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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/30/2007 4:43:11 AM   
StellaByStarlite


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Status: offline 		Cool idea. =)

I'm a hell of a good gardener and I know how to do basic home improvement, like putting up wallpaper, drywall and whatnot. You ladies are very talented.. my skills are more the rough around the edges practical sort, lol

Cherry, would you consider a section of your site for parenting and support for mom slaves/subs?

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RE: What can you do that you could instruct another &qu... - 4/30/2007 7:42:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		stella, i would totally consider that kind of section!!! i am open to any ideas because i really want it to not be my site but a site for the community to share and maybe help (hopefully cause it's the point) grow from eachothers experiences.....

Also to note...you've mentioned skills like wallpaper, others have metioned dryway ro small home repair....you called your skills practical (almost apologetically) Practical is grrreat! esp if it helps around a home that is shared by a M&s or D&s because although play is part of the lifestyle the life, in alot of cases centers around the home and as the "s" you are,alot of times responsible for keeping it in a certain way.

imthatache & owned... i am right with both of you...what owned wrote is something i struggle with regularly and sometimes i do a great job at part of it and other times well, not so much....my thoughts about learning a skill (s) have alot of different angles....if i learn something that will be pleasing to him then, as i am learning and doing this i am abling myself to be closer and more valuable to him....Also, my Master/Daddy is very into doing loving actions...rather than simply loving...it's all in what one does (in his opinion)....So if i emerse myself in these things that will please, it will help me by doing more slavey actions, to be pleasing....ultimately helping me with some of the rough spots i go through (like with facing fears) in the other areas. The more slave i DO and BE the more i will become..

i know it sounds like i'm thinkng a few layers deeper than the actual surface of learning to do a fun new thing...but that's only because, with me atleast, alll of my actions and thoughts effect all of the others...chain reactions stuff...so i am thinking layers deep and i'm sure i'm not the only one who works that way.


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For today i will simply obey....
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