MaamJay
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Been 24/7 with Master for 3 years. Yes, it waxes and wanes, more to do with circumstances than U/us. For example, W/we have just uprooted and moved 5000km across the country to settle in a country town instead of a big city. There's been precious little play for 4 months, and not even a lot of sex, just too damn tired! Does that bother U/us? A bit, but W/we are mature enough in the relationship to know the cause isn't to do with U/us as a unit, just with what W/we are currently going through. W/we also know that the light at the end of the tunnel is there ... as things get back to a more normal routine, W/we will get back to more play and more sex. During this time though, Master is still Master and i am still His slave ... the dynamic underlies all W/we do. Though i will confess it hasn't been as easy as usual, i've needed to do a lot of organising and that's the special skill of My Domme side ... so My "capitals" have been showing a bit more than usual! Not having a sub of My own through this time hasn't helped, Jay is getting "antsy" (My expression for the "hunger" someone else mentioned). So with Master's encouragement, I have resumed My search for a sub/slave of My own. Ultimately I need the balance to be totally fulfilled.
So, to the OP ... having things wax and wane seems to be pretty normal in any lifestyle or relationship ... the key is to communicate so your partner doesn't misinterpret your changes or ascribe motivations to them that just aren't there!
Good luck!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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