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RE: Friends and/or lovers - 5/2/2007 1:00:41 AM

Vendaval

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I think you have a good handle on your own emotional needs
and perspectives in relationships. You are not satisfied without
having an emotional connection. So seek others who mesh well
with your needs for the best liklihood for success.

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ORIGINAL: mantis65
Ok I love female sadists not because I have a huge desire to seek pain but because I know she is getting gratification by watching me suffer.
Anyway I have this thing that trips me up with local Dommes for some reason.
Submission to me has an emotional component I need to bond with a friend or lover. I cant do the detached service only thing.
I am not talking about sex either I am talking about being able to love the Domme on some level.

I don’t fall in love easy but I need to like the person to trust and surrender. Anyway any thoughts on this?

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RE: Friends and/or lovers - 5/7/2007 8:26:36 PM

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I'm so glad to read this! I was wondering if maybe I wasn't really cut out for this because of my inability to get involved with people I don't like. And that if I do get involved, it grows or if not, it ends. The media and pro-Domme sites do a lot to make it seem like you should be able to make it a game and not be personal, and yet I know there are couples who live this way that I knew of but didn't know, so it was confusing. I guess that as with anything else in my life, I have to march to my own drummer and find somebody who likes my beat.

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