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twistedkytten -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 7:51:14 AM)
Yes, i would as a matter of fact i am doing just that.. It seemed i woke up and was alot heavier than i remembered being last time i looked.. i realized that it was the meds i was taking for depression, (there were at one point 5 different ones) so i made a choice to stop taking them.. that was at the end of Jan i have lost 36 lbs as of last week. i speak with my Master daily as to my activities .. He knows my progress. i only lost 7 lbs in the last 3 weeks and was feeling kind of down.. after talkng about how i wished it would go faster.. He offered to help.. Master deserves the absolute best of all things including me - i am a direct reflection of Him so it seems to stand to reason that i should be the the best i am able to be.. it is a matter of health.. pride.. and pleasing the One that feeds my soul.

ownedgirlie -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 8:09:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie I am doing this now. I'm happy that he wants me healthier and cares enough to manage this. I've lost nearly 30 and counting. So I'm happy and excited, yep, that's about it. I can't wait to present him with a healthier, sexier me. And yes, I'll feel sexier when I'm fit. Congrats on the weight loss! Thank you! [:)]

Kitte9 -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 9:30:53 AM)
At this point, I almost think I need to gain weight, not lose it.

agirl -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 10:27:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thinspo would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ? Yes, I would. But I've never been asked to do anything to please him....so I don't really know how it'd make me feel. I can only imagine that if he asked this of me, I'd have quite a dip in my self image, physically, even though I'm slim, and for that reason alone, it's not a likely scenario. On a different note, I'd detest the thought that he wanted me slim for some shallow purpose.....it would mean that he wasn't the person I had come to know over the years. But yes, I'd do it but it has the potential to be quite a damaging request. agirl

cozy -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 10:37:26 AM)
my Dominat would rather i put weight on, i struggle to take in 2000 calories perday i have a medical problem which prevents me from eating, so i have a drip feed of 1500 calories perday so just have to try find 500 to take by mouth, this is always not easy, so Master has devised spread sheets that count anything i manage to eat and converts the food into calories. i cant thank him enough for the interest he shows in trying to make me well and strong. cozy

Mercnbeth -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 11:01:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thinspo would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? yes...or gain it or maintain it. quote: how would this make you feel? obedient.

SimplyMichael -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/1/2007 11:47:24 AM)
Really pathetic people buy a cheap fat slave and want to "fix them up" into thin women that they couldn't get otherwise. Problem with this theory is that if you don't have the chops to attract the women you want, you aren't likely to have the chops to create a healthy space for a woman to lose weight in. Pretty much a hard catch 22. However, if you were willing to learn to become a real man you might find a woman willing to become thin for you.

DefiantSurrender -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 10:58:03 AM)
Hi Thinspo, i've actually spent a little time at the thinspo website. It's a pro-ana site, no? i used to be about 20 pounds lighter than i am...i do admit that there was a certain high in the feeling of extreme weight loss, and being of a submissive nature too, well, i could definitely see the appeal of food control as an aspect of bdsm. Unfortunately, the pro-ana lifestyle does take a lot out of a girl...it becomes an obsession (or at least, it did for me) and begins to take precedence over most other aspects of life. i think, if taken to too much of an extreme, weightloss might actually destroy a bdsm relationship (or any other relationship for that matter). Sorry if i'm way off here...were you referring to extreme losses? Or simply moderate weight/food control as one small aspect of an entire dynamic? Anyways, in answer to your question...yeah, i would lose weight to please a dom...but i would not let it get to the point where it jeapordised my mental or physical health, nor would i let it get to the point where it put a strain on the relationship.

smilingjaguar -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 11:38:54 AM)
I am in the process of losing weight under orders. It doesn't bother me a bit because I need to lose the weight to be healthy. With the bone and joint problems I have in my legs, losing the weight would decrease the amount of pain I am in on a daily basis on top of all of the other health benefits of keeping fit. He gained weight too over the course of the relationship, and he is also making an effort. It's not about being a trophy. It's about being healthy enough to be there for one another and the ums down the road. I've lost 43 pounds so far. I have about another 50 or 60 before I'm in a healthy range, but I will get there.

jessk -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 11:40:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thinspo would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ? I have done it once in the past; I will not do it again.

smilingjaguar -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 11:42:23 AM)
Now to totally hijack the thread...does it bother anyone else when your doc pesters the crap out of you about losing weight and then says NOTHING when you've lost 30 pounds? If he's gonna bug me about it he should notice when I make the effort. :-\

DefiantSurrender -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 11:46:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smilingjaguar Now to totally hijack the thread...does it bother anyone else when your doc pesters the crap out of you about losing weight and then says NOTHING when you've lost 30 pounds? If he's gonna bug me about it he should notice when I make the effort. :-\ Ugh, sounds like you have a pretty unsupportive doctor. :( 30 pounds is a pretty heroic effort...deserves a little praise and recognition, i think.

CoyoteWhips -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 11:52:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: smilingjaguar Now to totally hijack the thread...does it bother anyone else when your doc pesters the crap out of you about losing weight and then says NOTHING when you've lost 30 pounds? If he's gonna bug me about it he should notice when I make the effort. :-\ I so look forward to my annual check ups when my doctor says, "Wow, you've lost a lot of weight. What are you doing?" and I reply, "Nothing." I don't imagine he'd listen to me, anyway. Doctors are pretty entrenched in the gospel of portion control.

smilingjaguar -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 12:33:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CoyoteWhips I so look forward to my annual check ups when my doctor says, "Wow, you've lost a lot of weight. What are you doing?" and I reply, "Nothing." I don't imagine he'd listen to me, anyway. Doctors are pretty entrenched in the gospel of portion control. chuckles Portion control is how I'm losing the weight. I walk and lift some weights. I've tried "diets" in the past, and I just can't stick to them. I just eat less. Part of it was also getting off of one of my bipolar meds. It turns out the whole time my primary doc was preaching weight control my consulting psychiatrist had me on a drug that is notorious for sugar cravings. Ack! I gained 40 or 50 pounds on that med.

jaxbeachgirl -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 12:34:36 PM)
Sure, no big deal at all. Daddy says I'm going to be eating Puppy Chow, somebody get me a bowl. :) Of course, I'd really wonder what the heck was wrong with Daddy, and why I partnered with a man who was clearly out of his mind. crunch crunch chomp chomp "You happy now, Daddy?"

smilingjaguar -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 12:42:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DefiantSurrender Ugh, sounds like you have a pretty unsupportive doctor. :( 30 pounds is a pretty heroic effort...deserves a little praise and recognition, i think. When I mentioned it, he was supportive but then gave me one of those stupid 10-day diet things, completely ignoring how successful I had been at eating what I want but just less of it and making slow but steady upgrading in food choices. It was irritating. In his defense, he is a very good doctor and stays on top of my medical issues like no primary doc I've ever had. He takes his time and really does care. It's just this one little thing that no matter the weight loss we can't celebrate it and continue, we have to "improve" it. He's stick skinny on top of it, which just makes me want to slap him. LOL It's sad, really. He's a really heartfelt, caring guy on every other topic under the sun, and here I am in the office in a paper gown wanting to beat him down.

thinspo -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 12:56:48 PM)
hello all ,. yes i admit a kink here !! i do like my girl to b very slim and submissive and i dont think i have been less than upfront about what i want to talk about,.

CrazyC -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/2/2007 1:47:21 PM)
Um did the OP really mean for this thread to be about weight? What would I do for my Dom? ANYTHING that he is requiring of me that makes me a better, healthier person. The problem comes when the demanding change is because of thier ego or lack of security so they are demeaning me to feel better. The second reason i wouldn't is when i am being demanded but they themselves will be providing no support.

calcaneus -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/3/2007 12:35:56 AM)
i'm a proud supplicant of Haya, Queen of the AyaHa Confederacy. She teaches me a thing or two about living live the Hanian way. In this way of life, if one is owned, one is owned completely. Slavery is a voluntairy and spiritual process. During this process, the slave to be will need to start living his or her live by some rules and Laws. One Law (food law) is there to make sure that the slave doesn't eat (and in the best case, doesn't want to eat) "decadent" food. Not only is it considered not fitting for a slave to eat decadent food, it also will help the slave to see nutricion as a privilege. Another aspect is the need for the slave to live a healthy life and look after their body. Huge overweight is not something that fits in the "healthy"region. The slave would want to do nothing less then to look after his or her body in the best way possible. If this means losing a few pounds, that's what the slave would want to do. The Owner will of course look after His or Her slave, since these slaves will be the extention of Their Soul. Everything the slave is or does reflects on them.

Michaelat92544 -> RE: how far will you go ? (5/3/2007 12:51:26 AM)
The queen can kiss my ass.

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