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how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:03:13 PM   
thinspo


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Status: offline 		would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ?


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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:04:38 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Please, I am begging you...not another weight thread!

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:06:50 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		If my pet were unhealthily overweight, Id expect them to be willing to try and lose down to a more healthy size.  If I am not above losing weight to stay healthy, they should not be either. I a sure if it were a factor in their attractiveness, it would be quite the blow to the ego.  However, if I have already accepted the sub, then obviously their weight wasnt a major factor for me, their health, on the other hand would be.  It is my job as a Domme and an owner to make sure my pet is not only happy but healthy and if that means helping them slim down (or keep weight on as the case is now) then so be it.  Those I have helped with this have been very thankful

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:08:03 PM   
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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:12:27 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		I would not loose weight forany one if I did not wish to. Healthy or not. I want to loose weight so my dominant enforcing that would be great. Unfortantly we can't do weight control right now.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:12:32 PM   
Domin8tingUrDrmz


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Status: offline 		Recently I have started going to the gym for my own health reasons.  Any sub of mine will be expected to go with me, even if they are or are not in good physical shape to begin with.

Exercise is a good habit for anyone.  I am not in great shape, and I don't care if my sub is in great shape.  That is something we can work on together. 

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:35:40 PM   
behindmirrors


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If my Master wanted me to lose weight, I would do the best I could to do so, but I would have my hesitations, and would request to do so only with the consent of my doctor first, which would override any command as I have a duty to protect my own health, too. After struggling with an eating disorder for 12 years, though, I don't think it would necessarily be a good idea for him to delve into this area. I'm at the lower range of a healthy weight for my height, I can't seem to gain very easily from this point, and I don't have very much me to lose in the first place without returning to skeleton size.

I am fortunate, I suppose, that he is much more interested in making sure I have eaten enough than making me eat less.

As for how it would make me feel- well, that, I suppose, would depend entirely on his reasonings for such a request. If it was a purely aesthetic thing, I would ask what the change is in how he's seeing me. If it was a health thing, if I suddenly got overweight, then I would not be offended- I would most certainly agree.

Like I said, I'm kind of glad to not have to worry about all this. I threw away too much of my life doing that already- and I'm sure as hell not going there again, command or not.
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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 5:46:34 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		no, i'm skinny enough as it is, however, if i was over-weight, i would take his desires into consideration, yet only try to lose the weight if i desired it as well...

it's all a matter of loving yourself first and foremost.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 6:08:26 PM   
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would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ?


I have done it before. As for how it made me feel; nothing at all really. I was simply following orders.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 7:16:57 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I am doing this now.  I'm happy that he wants me healthier and cares enough to manage this.  I've lost nearly 30 and counting.  So I'm happy and excited, yep, that's about it.  I can't wait to present him with a healthier, sexier me.  And yes, I'll feel sexier when I'm fit.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 7:50:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thinspo

would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ?



woudn't do it to obtain a wedding ring and/or collar ...wouldn't do it for Daddy even if He ordered me to. the desire to lose weight has to come from ME for ME and no one else.


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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 8:24:36 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		Yep. I'm doing it now. He ordered me to do it because (a) he will like the look and feel of it, and (b) it will help me in my daily life (I'm in sales for a living). I will be more confident and will carry myself with a more balanced carriage. He also commands that I keep my hair trimmed neatly and get regular pedicures, keep my car clean, and keep my house tidy. It all makes me feel good, not just because he ordered it, but because I feel better about myself. That's his goal. Who wants a slave who feels down about her life? He's a smart man and I am so fortunate he is in tune with the sorts of things he knows will cause positive change in my life.

Now if he were just telling me to do things for selfish reasons, I would have a larger problem with it, and would most likely rebel against his command. Since he explained himself and his motivations, I get the security of knowing he cares about me as a person and not me as an object.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 8:33:24 PM   
MasterGremlin


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Status: offline 		Well, I don't know if this counts because I don't really need to lose weight per say, but Master has ordered me to the gym to get fit.  I don't think it is unreasonable at all.  When I excersize regularly, I have more energy, I sleep better, I have fewer problems with my asthma, my clothes fit better and I like myself better and (most importantly) sex is better.  So, Yes, if I was overweight, I would expect Master to say something about it, after all, this body belongs to Him.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 9:08:25 PM   
Casie


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Status: offline 		Wow, how many weight threads can one person start!! Couldn't you have comapcted your questions into one thread? Why so interested? 

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RE: how far will you go ? - 4/30/2007 9:18:13 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I suppose it would depend on his reasons..his participation,..his dedication along with mine to meet the goal..Tempting

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RE: how far will you go ? - 5/1/2007 1:58:44 AM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		I've never been on a diet and don't own a scale.  I don't believe in that sort of thing.  I weigh myself every month or six weeks when I go see my sister.  Its hard to imagine myself trying to lose weight for someone. 

I can see myself getting healthier for someone, though.  Like, through excercise and paying more attention to what I eat. 


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RE: how far will you go ? - 5/1/2007 3:01:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey Casie, I think thinspo has admitted a fetish to this, and in my own opinion, is posting these threads and getting off on the replies.  If this is not the case thinspo, sorry if I offended, but I believe I'm right.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 5/1/2007 4:41:28 AM   
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quote:

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would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ? how would this make you feel ?



Depends on the situation. If it were a "he won't make a commitment/won't be affectionate/won't love me" unless I weight then, then I would simply leave. He's not worth it.

If he wants me to lose weight to be healthy and says I'm fine when the doctor says I'm fine, then I don't care. While I want him to be proud of me and be his "trophy", I refuse to be valued solely by my appearence. Because it will fade. My youth will disappear and I have no desire to be traded in for the newer model once I start to sag and get wrinkles. And I refuse to treat plastic surgery as frivialously as some of my generation do. I will age. I want to be collared to a man who will still love me.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 5/1/2007 7:04:47 AM   
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quote:

would you agree to lose weight to please your dom ?


Yes

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how would this make you feel ?



That would depend. If he made me lose weight to be some sort of barbie trophy because his ego needed that, well that would probably make me lose respect for him. I just want to be a healthy weight and maintain it, and in my opinion it can be dangerous to lose more than that. I have been unhealthily thin (try my lowest weight was 119 and I am 5 foot 10).

If he had me lose weight because it would help me be a healthier sexier submissive (healthy is sexy) then that is the mark of a loving dom. My Daddy mentioned I needed to drop a few pounds, I knew he was right, and I set out to do that. There is no set amount of weight he is looking for, but he knows that when I gain it affects my self esteem. He wants me to feel good. Also, diabetes runs in my family, so he is always reminding me to skip the sugar and empty carbs.

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RE: how far will you go ? - 5/1/2007 7:08:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

I am doing this now.  I'm happy that he wants me healthier and cares enough to manage this.  I've lost nearly 30 and counting.  So I'm happy and excited, yep, that's about it.  I can't wait to present him with a healthier, sexier me.  And yes, I'll feel sexier when I'm fit.


Congrats on the weight loss!

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