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What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 9:42:13 AM

Kitte9

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I'm not talking tribute or gifts, but rather what special things (or not so special) do you bring to the relationship or do for your Dom/me that they find especially pleasing?

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 9:48:32 AM

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I'm a goofball. I'll often say or do something silly, he will smile that special smile and say "Kitten, you slay me."

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 9:53:47 AM

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They like that I'm always right, and when I'm not I admit it.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 12:25:04 PM

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just being my "normal" self is enough for Daddy - i don't have to jump through circus hoops or/and change anything to please Him.

i'm happy He accepts me as i am without demands. it may not sound domly to you however He's not your Daddy ...is He?

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 12:28:37 PM

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I take it upon myself to do / learn things that I know will please him. At the moment I am learning to roll sushi (his favorite food).

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 12:38:36 PM

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I make mine laugh.. and what a glorious sound it is!

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 1:34:48 PM

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I bring my humour, honour, sharp mind, respect, dignity (yes a sub can have it),willing body, a good heart and loads of love and affection to give. All available to that one special person.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 1:48:54 PM

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 2:17:37 PM

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I have a refreshing sense of honesty and I'm loyal like very people could ever be. I also have a very quirky sense of humour.

I'm also told that I find a child-like amusement in simple down-to-earth things that is very wonderful to witness.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 4:41:24 PM

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I am witty, quirky, personalble, intelligent, I can cook and make him laugh :)

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 5:34:00 PM

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On the practical side, I suppose I'm sort of handy as a European car mechanic, and I'm pretty good with computers, although I'm not a professional.

On the personal attention side, I'm a proffessional violinist, I love giving massages, even though I'm not certified, and I've also been told I'm a great listener, and that I make a nice shoulder to cry on if it comes to that. I also enjoy learning to do things she likes, or learning to take part in things she enjoys.

As far as personality goes...I'm not as blessed in this department as some of the other posters here. In person, I'm very quiet and reserved, and sort of shy, I suppose. I'm a bit of an introvert, until I open up. But, the personality traits I have to offer are sincerity, honesty, and loyalty.

I suppose none of these things are specifically D/s related, but that's all I can think of at the moment. *smiles*

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 5:50:24 PM

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This is one of those things that I can only offer my opinion on...being that He is the one being pleased or not.

I bring laughter to almost any situation...there are times He appreciates that more than others, I'm sure.

I bring passion...not just sexual, but I'm passionate about anything that I do. It's all or nothing for me.

I bring novelty...I'm always making old things seem new again or looking at things from a different perspective.

I bring competition...remember that all or nothing I mentioned earlier.

Most importantly, though, I bring myself and let Him enjoy those and other aspects of myself without a price.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 7:07:56 PM

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on a practical level:
Mistress always said i was a great cook
i clean to what i call a "military standard," i'll eat off anything i have cleaned
i just made it a point to make Mistress' life easier in any way i could: kids, cars, cleaning, running errands

also, made Mistress laugh
was always honest and open about anything
Mistress was amazed She could not scare me away, no matter what She wanted or what She did.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/1/2007 7:13:19 PM

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I read to my old Master late in the evenings after our work was done. Usually short stories or a poem that I came across. I have a very pleasant and soothing voice that warmed his heart. He loved to hear me read and laugh. We would sit by the fire place, my head in his lap, his fingers running through my hair. Sometimes we would sit there and talk for hours about nothing. When I think about those times, I miss him dearly.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/2/2007 12:42:57 PM

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I am a tease and sometime Master says "You are so damn cute". I also go\ive good back rubs I love to make him laugh he has a lot of stress in his job so if i can make him smile or laugh it makeD me happy. Just seein him happy makes me happy.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/16/2007 8:00:47 PM

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My Domme says to me quite often 'you slay me' so I guess it would be my sense of humour.

She has also said she finds my Britishness quite exotic.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/16/2007 9:24:50 PM

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I am educated

I am intelligent

I am not hard on the eyes from what I hear (he is pleased anyways)

I try very hard to improve myself the way he thinks I should, which is something he is pleased with.

I am self aware that I need to be more self aware.

I think he likes that even though I can be anal retentive I do not try to control him or make him that way.

I am a very determined and active person. I can keep up with him.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 6:54:55 AM

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A lot of Dominants notice me because I am funny and lively, but I still wish to serve. I'm a bright ball of fun and I can make the meanest Dom laugh so hard he snorts.

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RE: What do you offer your Dom/me? - 5/17/2007 7:40:13 AM

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