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RE: Being told to be Bi? - 5/4/2007 7:13:28 AM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: gothicdiva

Only you can decide for yourself if this is something you want to do. If it's truly something you are uncomfortable with or feel that you have to be "forced" to do, you need to be upfront with your Master. Even if I were "submissive," I would not ALLOW someone to force me to do anything period. As a dominant female, I also would never "force" someone to perform sexual acts on someone of the same or opposite sex if I knew that they were not totally comfortable with it. That's one boundary I would not cross. Then again, there are some men out there that will DO ANYTHING to get to be a party to "girl-on-girl" action. I don't know your Master, so I do not know his motivations. However, I do know older men that join the lifestyle and label themselves "dominants" so they can have their way with attractive young girls and make them unwitting participants in the sort of activities you have described. But, that's a WHOLE other thread in itself! Good luck to you!



I agree.  Well said :)

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RE: Being told to be Bi? - 5/4/2007 7:26:55 AM   
starshineowned


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Greetings..~smiles~

I can't say that I would call you a bisexual if that inate desire and pleasure to be with both Male and female does not already exist in you. Forcing you to have sex with same sex just doesn't fit that definition for me.

With that said: For some..the thought of doing this flys in the face of heightened sexual fantasy..yes the taboo which brings the excitement, fear all rolled into one. The question you need to ask yourself is: When the smoke and mirror of fantasy thoughts clears..will your core be able to handle such a request. If not..I'd not persue this Dom. If there is a remote part of you that you can detect that says this can be something mentally handled by you without damaging your core being..then I'd ride the fantasy to reality.

Over time..you may come to actually enjoy it, and even crave it..then I'd more likely apply the bisexual label to you.

Well Wishes
starshine
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RE: Being told to be Bi? - 5/6/2007 6:28:49 AM   
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oonly if you are bi

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