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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 10:07:28 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		MaamJay, I'm glad I'm not the only one in the same boat.  *laughs*

Geez, I'm glad I'm not the only One who ever thinks about money issues.  A lot of times, I start to wonder if I'm the only One who isn't making six figures a year.  I know.....  It's unrealistic to think that way, but it crosses My mind every now and again.

Tammyjo, too cool on the featured author thing.  I'm sure there are many of Us who would just love to meet you in person.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 10:14:08 AM   
Dusty15


Posts: 50
Joined: 12/23/2005
Status: offline 		As for me it was work work and more work. The other thing still looking for a Mistress to serve.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 11:00:28 AM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline 		Yay for May!! Boo for Black Flys!
Finally stopped raining and its drying out...another yay!

This is a crazy month as I have an unmentionable graduating High School.
I am trying to not let the empty nest thing get to Me,it is so hard to cut that last apron string.
I guess I can look forward to weekend visits with his laundry...LOL

Otherwise,things are good,business is good and the plans for a new dwelling/dungeon are continuing to take shape.
I'm not looking forward to the packing,but on the upside I have helpers on call.YAY



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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 1:17:34 PM   
TheShadows


Posts: 403
Joined: 9/16/2004
From: Southern Illinois
Status: offline 		I don't know why I didn't notice this before, but....YAY for my 1st Roll Call!

April was a really busy month for us.  Time flies when you're having fun.  My 25th birthday was on the 21st, and it was one of the worst birthdays EVER.  Hopefully, there'll be a next time...lol. 

The Mister finally finished up a 5 year long project at work.  I'm really happy for him, and unbelievably proud, too.  Now maybe he'll get a big enough raise to help pay for the new roof we're gonna need pretty soon...lol.  (We must be one of the few other Dominants that make less than six figures...LMAO)

On a brighter note....On the 30th, my best friend (a vanilla lesbian) and I celebrated our 10 year friendship/sisterhood by getting matching tattoos on our feet.  (Very painful...I don't recommend it.)  The tattoo is the roman numeral for 1997. (MCMXCVII, for those non-roman number folks.)

We're still slaveless, unfortunately.  But we're ever hopeful.  I'm glad the rest of you gals are doing well, for the most part.  Here's hoping that May is (even) better.

~MrsShadows~

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 1:43:30 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


Posts: 2822
Joined: 4/11/2004
From: Arizona
Status: offline 		Seems like there are a lot of first timers on this monthly thread, so I thought I would throw caution to the winds and join in.
First I would like to say congrats to all those who are getting initial and final degrees and/or working towards the next and good luck to those who are still in the throes of finals.  It makes Me happy to know that there are so many astute Ladies who "keep on larnin' ". 
I have been so busy I haven't had much time to relax, so I have been getting Myself into trouble over on the "Off Topic" board.  A new goal for May would be to not get so involved in some of the political threads!  *Smile*  But I do find, in My very busy schedule, that coming in and signing on to the boards has been a good stress reliever.  Especially since I do not have a boy!
I am finishing up My theater season, and will work this month to get as much in order for next season as possible, hoping that will make it more organized but nothing can ever reduce the actual time that must be spent to get a curtain raised!  I will be attending a weekend seminar (not lifestyle) over Mother's Day weekend.  I didn't even realize when I signed up that it was to be Mother's Day, but I am looking forward to it, even though I will be in conference rooms for more than 30 hours over 3 days.
Shortly after that (in less than 3 weeks) I will be on the blessed road the visit family.  I love to travel by car...it seems the ultimate escape for Me.  But I will be back for the long, hot summer by the beginning of June.  I just paid off My car in March (yippee!) and now that weather has turned so warn, I found My A/C is not working properly.  So I am glad to have no car payment, since I need to get that fixed before I head for the highway!  It's always somethin"!  *LOL*
Business-wise, I have always tried to keep things under control as to how much work I can and will do, but I seem to have a lot of demands for My time right now, and I do not want to refuse the work, since you  never know when things like broken A/C hits the budget! 
In the spare time I have left over, I am enjoying My grandson more and more.  He just passed the one year mark, he is beautiful, and if I accomplish nothing else in all My life, having him smile and hold out his arms when he sees Me, will be enough!
I guess this all means that I am not getting older, I am getting better!  *Wink*
 
Next!
Edited due to My usual dyslexic fingers

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 5/2/2007 1:47:37 PM >

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 3:31:02 PM   
Mysia


Posts: 45
Joined: 2/3/2006
Status: offline 		Life is well here. The sub I took nearly two years ago (2yr this June) has grown well, as has our relationship. We've done some traveling and I am prepping to move us to upper Wisconsin in a few weeks. I've learned a lot about my theories and practices as a dominant, and see where some areas are grey or changing. 

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 3:51:41 PM   
MsStick


Posts: 80
Joined: 5/4/2006
From: Ireland
Status: offline 		In April, I:
Turned 29
Got an easy and fulfilling job that I absolutely LOVE, dealing with Irish heritage
Finalised My separation
Got another article published, a Canadian mag this time
Uploaded a new pic to this site 
Had a fab time at www.nimhneach.ie


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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 3:55:57 PM   
realisticwish


Posts: 137
Joined: 1/28/2007
Status: offline 		A roll call a novel idea.   I have been around a while and never noticed this before.   I can so relate to boomoon and the boss that has always made my job so great was demoted as well.  We also got a new person except he does not have a clue what we do and admited that he had heard I was a witch!  The very idea ... I could show him a thing or two.  Then to add that I was the only person in the office to want to give the guy a chance before he was put on the chopping blockl.

In the search field --- I have talked to several people and one does show some promise so we will see!  As others have said I am picky as well.  At this time in my life I look back and realize I need to be more picky and so I will. 

Home wise I normally do a lot of flowers around the fish pond but this year the weather has been so not plant friendly.  So soon a lot of planting is in order!

Best wishes to Everyone!

J

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 7:59:53 PM   
MzMia


Posts: 5333
Joined: 7/30/2004
Status: offline 		I am pleased that so many people are giving monthly updates!
I am really enjoying reading what people care to share.
Congratulations to those graduating and those that are continuing
their educations!
I am REALLY inspired, and I plan to go back to school in the fall.
Having worked and gone to school, I KNOW it is certainly not easy,
especially as you get older!
Kudos!
It is impressive to see so many women that are motivated to improve
their lives, careers, education, personal health and general well being.
This goes to show that Dominant women have a lot to offer in a variety
of ways!
We aren't all sitting around in latex and thigh high boots yielding a whip 24/7!

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 8:11:10 PM   
MzMia


Posts: 5333
Joined: 7/30/2004
Status: offline 		Ah Lady Pact, no need to dread the roll call!  It's nice to hear how others
are doing on the BDSM front, even if they have no special submissive.
I have learned that it can take years to find that special submissive.
We always hear about the large number of male submissives that are seeking
Dominant women.
When you weed out the wankers, looky loo's, nutcases and do me's, it is very
hard to find a sincere, serious, loyal and compatible submissive!
We all must hang in here and hopefully we will all find what we seek in this
lifestyle! 

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To Each His/Her Own
"DENIAL ain't just a river in Egypt." Mark Twain


What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 8:19:47 PM   
Enyo


Posts: 35
Joined: 4/27/2007
Status: offline 		Ohhh...I want to play!  Lol my first roll call also.

During April I thought I had finally met my ideal sub and less then three weeks later we parted ways.  I decided to finally put myself back out there and start seeking that someone/something that is missing from my life, again.  This time around I've promised to take it slow and really make an effort to enjoy the journey.  I found cm recently and have had a really wonderfully warm welcome that I've not had at other sites around the web, so a big thank you all for the hope that I have for the future.

Hopefully May will bring a little heat and some new friends, I have huge expectations for travel and play this summer...I can't wait to get started.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 8:23:03 PM   
MzMia


Posts: 5333
Joined: 7/30/2004
Status: offline 		Hiya Enyo!  Nice to hear from you and thank you to all
the other first time posters.
It is so nice to hear how everyone is doing.
Enyo, it is nice to take it slow.  I refuse to let a submissive
"rush" me into anything.  Nothing wrong with slow and steady,
it wins the race!

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What's your favorite fetish?
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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 8:28:46 PM   
LaMistressa


Posts: 460
Joined: 12/4/2006
Status: offline 		My first roll call, so here goes.  Wish I had better stuff to report, but that wouldn't be accurate.

I lost my mom in February, so I'm dreading Mother's Day. Not that she was big on holidays at all, but it's still tough. My father is also in the final stages of his life, so it's just a lot to handle. I am grateful for every day that I have had with them.

Work is crazy, money is tight, vacation time is nonexistent due to all the emergency leave I have taken recently. But I love my job, my coworkers are supportive, and I have a range of friends. I am lucky in many ways. And I've been on a few dates and made some new friends through this site. Don't know if I've found the submissive of my dreams yet, but I'm enjoying the journey. And my allergies aren't as bad this spring as they have been in recent years, so hey - bonus!

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 9:16:16 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Ah Lady Pact, no need to dread the roll call!  It's nice to hear how others
are doing on the BDSM front, even if they have no special submissive.
I have learned that it can take years to find that special submissive.
We always hear about the large number of male submissives that are seeking
Dominant women.
When you weed out the wankers, looky loo's, nutcases and do me's, it is very
hard to find a sincere, serious, loyal and compatible submissive!
We all must hang in here and hopefully we will all find what we seek in this
lifestyle! 


*Laughs*  You are certainly right, MzMia.  Maybe it's the full moon pulling on certain tides.  Not everything worth having is always easy.

I did forget to congratulate all of Those graduates.  Glad the hard work paid off.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 10:15:06 PM   
kajirusilk


Posts: 49
Joined: 11/5/2006
Status: offline 		Ms LaMistressa,

i know how painful it is to lose a Parent.  my heart goes out to You and You are in my prayers,

Respectfully,

silk

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 10:36:21 PM   
HutchGarahl


Posts: 562
Joined: 1/10/2007
Status: offline 		Well..i'm hoping this month will prove to be much better than it has been since the first of finding more health issues than I cared to find...dishing out almost $500 into fixing a car, my son in law getting hospitalized for a serious reaction to hydrocodone (he's ok now) and numerous other things I don't really care to get into.

So am looking for this month to shine. So far, the only thing gone against me was having to cancel Moondance due to car issues. I finally get to come face to face with my newest potential. We have been talking online and by phone for sometime now, and he even agrees that it looks as though we'll be making the connection need to start our new life together. So opefully on the 15th, or tere abouts...I will have a new slave to train and care for.

My youngest comes home for spring vacation in June. Will be good to see her again. Haven't seen her since Christmas. Just found out my son, tender age of 20 has asked for his girl to marry him, she said yes.

Been doing a lot of work out at my moms place. Shoveling dirt, breaking brick and rock, hauling gravel and loads of other stuff. So been kinda bust, which is why I haven't been around much this past week. But all that will be ending soon. :P I'll be glad. I'm so tired. lol

My girlfriend took my checkbook today. Silly me...I bounced a check, ended up with an over draft of almost $100.

I see one of my doctors next Wednesday and will be discussing the issues at hand....RLS, my serious bleeding problem and my weight. Need to call my other doc to get my foot checked. It's been hurting real bad this past month and it's gotten to the point it's almost impossible to stand on it. I think I broke a bone or something. :P

That's it for now. Over all, this month has started off pretty good. Hopefully come the 15th....my world will start coming together real good. :)

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/2/2007 11:23:58 PM   
goddessblaze


Posts: 34
Joined: 12/7/2006
Status: offline 		This is my first role call so here it goes...

I work in the ER and am going back to school to finish up with my RN.  I am still in a D/s relationship where I am the Sub.  I only serve and bottom to 1 person.  The Domina I was mentoring under finally bottomed to me which was a blast.  She is talking about bottoming to me more. She hasn't bottomed in about 5 yrs. I was very honored.  I currenlty have 2 subs and lots of fun people that bottom to me.  I cherish them all. 
I will be traveling to Shibari Con in May
June: Desire in Pal Springs
July: Thunder in the Mountains
August: Burning Man
September: Folsom Street fair, there will be an all womens play zone where I have been asked to Demo inner thigh beating, I just have to find a pain slut...:) 
Oct: Rio Grande in New Mexico.

Lots of traveling for me.

My son will be going to MA to see his father for the summer.  My Master is moving into a new house and  wl will have 2 rooms for play.  I like the fact that I don't have to go anywhere to play just up the stairs.  Plus Master lets me play with all his toys.

Looks like everyone that has done role call is having a good new year. So best of the luck for the rest of 2007.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/3/2007 12:40:03 AM   
SDFemDom4cuck


Posts: 2809
Joined: 5/23/2005
From: P'burgh PA
Status: offline 		My first Roll call as well. *waves to MzMia* and yes, I think being alone and happy is essential to finding someone to add to that happiness. I would rather be alone and happy than in a relationship and miserable.

On topic: Only 2 more months of course work then on to internship and then I take the Radiology boards. Whoot! In great news, I just found out I'm seeded #1 in my class. Not bad for a 41 year old broad surrounded by kids that weren't even born when she graduated from HS. LOL I put my priorities in order in the past month and decided to discontinue searching until I pass the boards and get a position. I just don't have the time to devote to anyone right now and school comes first. Congrats to everyone who's graduating! Great job Ladies!

LadyPact. Not to worry...there's nothing wrong with being picky. I admit I'm VERY particular and I refuse to settle for less or lower my standards. Eventually the right one will come along and the wait will be worth it. Have faith. Keep your standards high; you want what you want, and you'll get it. It's nice to know I'm not the only one that sometimes wonders if I'm too picky!

I've been thinking about getting more involved in munches and the community once things settle down and get on a more even keel. Not sure if I will or not but I've been wanting to meet up with FemDoms in the area and perhaps start a monthly get together of dinner or just coffee and dessert. I love the online community but I love sitting down and talking with others as well face to face.

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How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/3/2007 3:05:08 AM   
slavebrandyj


Posts: 35
Joined: 12/31/2006
Status: offline 		On this day exactly one year ago, I met and fell deeply in love with the most wonderful Woman in the world. I met Her right here on Collarme.
I can only celebrate this anniversary for just getting to know Her. We did not make it. She has given up all consideration for me to become Her life partner.
So it is with mixed emotions I honor this day. I can be happy that we met; Yet devastated that our relationship ended. The best I can hope for is a cherished friendship when and IF  She is up to it 
The things about respect, honor, truth, trust and even love,  that I have learned from Her will serve me well in the future. I will always have a special place in my heart for Her. I will always love Her for the special Lady that She is.

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RE: Its That Time! MAY ROLL CALL! - 5/3/2007 4:02:07 AM   
LadyEllen


Posts: 10931
Joined: 6/30/2006
From: Stourport-England
Status: offline 		Wish I had something to report, I mean life is so boring apart from

An avalanche of emales every week as usual. Some bizarre ones, but a lot of guys who genuinely seem interested, and some who seem desperate! All good for the ego, at a time when the five year anniversary of my being alone takes place.
A couple of mails from what appear to be dommes too, asking if they could switch for me..... hmmmm.

Yesterday, my friend and I met up with the sub male who is to paint and decorate the venue for our semi-pro venture, so subject to him getting that done within the next month we should be up and running.

Financial year end for my company and first indications (yet to be audited) are that we have our first profit in three years; only GBP 125k (USD 250k) so nothing to get too excited about yet, but its looking good - albeit that my personal finances are in a mess! Also started discussions on preparing our EU franchise operations (three years away at least); franchise licences are worth around GBP 100k (USD 200k) each, acccording to our advisers, and with around 50 to sell eventually.... plus we get royalty fees from franchisees too!

Eldest UM (12, male) is finally growing up and straying from the nest - off with his friends on their bikes and down the town of a weekend and evening. Its very worrying to be honest, not to know where he is, with whom, doing what (or having what done to him) but I guess this has been the way of things forever and I have to realise he needs to do it. Its also nice, considering what he has grown up with, to have found he has a stash of girlie mags under his bed LOL! I dont mean that in a homophobic way - if he were gay that would be OK with me, but it just puts paid to the idea that my being TS might affect his tastes.

E

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